Hello from Indiana, I am female and will be 50 on Nov. 4th,
. I am starting a job as a bartender in a high end sports bar that will open soon. I feel somewhat self conscious because most of the employees are females in their early 20’s. Needless to say I was quite shocked I was hired. I do not look 50 and I am considered attractive and in great shape. Can you recommend what products I should buy to help build a comfortable, easy going yet respectful relationship with the young ones. Also I need to make good money and being it’s a sports bar many of the customers will be men and in their early 20’s -mid 30’s. I know this because of the area the bar is located. I don’t want the customers wishing one of the other servers were waiting on them. I am a fun, witty and intelligent woman and once the customers know me they will see that, I just need to get them to break the ice. A bit of personal info. (maybe more than you may need to know) I am post-menopausal and have been for about 4 years. From what I have read that may make a difference in use of the products. Your suggestions will be greatly appreciated. How would you layer products when attempting to reach female and male?
Hi sweetie!
Is your email your username? lol. 50 huh? That’s the new 20! 
lol
I suggest you to go with instant sexiness A it’s like angelina jolie in a bottle, you feel sexy, confident, and men will certainly respect you, and attracted to you in the same time 
I get alot of stares with this one hehe I think that every lady in the forum has to own this product!
Instant openness is great for socializing, people will feel comfortable, or too comfortable chatting with you, that they’ll chat with you forever!!!
To break the ice, instant honesty all the way, you might get some people to spill the beans lol!
I don’t think you should “layer” pheros on top of each other on the same spot…(if that’s your question, if not, I’m sorry I misunderstood). For example, I may use 2 sprays of is.a on my wrists and I might use instant openness on my lower arms or neck.
Hope it helped and have fun sweetie!
welcome figurecenter-
I would suggest Instant shine, for a quick spirit lift and help with the anxiety
P74 will also help, along with TAA,
I would also suggest some IO as it will help in a bar environment loosen people up. and get them talking and flirting back with you, which can help with Tips.
Hi welcome to pherotalk
I would suggest Instant Shine, Its awesome and the self effects are great. Maybe instant openness or Instant honesty to help with communication. I prefer instant honesty as it creates a deeper conversation, and instant openness makes me feel a little depressed as it wears off, that could just be me thou…
Enjoy
I suggested IO because a waitress (bartender or etc)
may not want to hear a life story but a little extra talk with a happy person will help make a good day.
Remember around alcohol pheromones can have an amplified effect.
So you might get lifestories, sources for mysterious rashes, or how the customer wants to have kids with you, when wearing IH.
Whereas wearing a sexual pheromone can cause extra attention it may not be wanted attention.
I would say play around until you find something you like and want.
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 
Msselvas right. 50 is not like when our parents were 50. Its the new 20 well actually its the 30 but I will take either one LOL,
Post menopausal would mean your making less copulins then you did in your 20 somethings. Copulins are the vaginal secretions from young fertile females. Dont run screaming from the forum though, just like the mones they are synthetic. Unfortunately they are out of the high copulin formula but the good news is some of the womens products have cops in them and LAM will be back in stock as soon as they round some up.
SteveO (he is the administrator) just went on a quest for copulins, he found alot of young fertile females but neglected to bring them back with him. LOL Just teasing, he was just on vacation though.
Anywhoooo 
seriously copulins raise a males testosterone levels by 130% and give off a attractive youthful vibe.
Isexiness A has small amounts in it and would be a good start for you. Its a strong attractive female vibe.
Ishine would be great to. Its warm youthful charismatic and upbeat. Puts everybody in a great mood and great moods mean more tips.
IO will give a fun chatty friendly vibe. Great for socials situations like you will be in.
IH if your into more deep meaningful convos. You will be waiting on people and cant sit around chatting all night so I still like IO better for you.
Now LAM the mix I referred to that is out of stock at the moment is the high copulin mix. While it does attract men and get them riled up I am not sure if you want that strong of a sexual vibe going while working. You are probably better off with the more subtle sexy then the heavy arousal at work. If you do want that then I suggest LAM when its back in stock.
One last one that is a must have is MX135, also out of stock 
I prefer the original MX135 in chocolitini scent but they have the same formula in different scents in stock. MX235 in cookie scent is good. This is a center of attention type mix. Attractive sassy and sexy. Also comes in grapefruit scent in MX335. These do not fall under the money back guarantee cause they are advanced but we love them.
Most of the mixes above will appeal to females as well IO Ishine and I find IS/A all attract them and make them friendly. LAM can make some jealous and snarky. Yes you can layer products on top of one another.
If you have questions just ask.
Your GC is on its way
Tisha
Thank you for all of your suggestions. I ordered instant shine, sexiness,openness, and MX235. Can’t wait to try them out. This is the very first time I have ever joined a forum and do not know how I put my e-mail as my user name. Is there a way to change that? Truth be know I do not know how to private message. I understand this is not a forum to teach me how to use the forum, but in order for me to communicate effectively i need a little help here. UGH!
Find the persons user name you want to PM over on the left there.
Click on it and you will see a drop down box. Click on send private message and type it up and send it out. (Steve is the man to PM for a username change) You can find his name down in the frequant posters section at the bottom of the forum.
To look at your messages go up to the user CP and it will take you to your back room. You will see a link for the Private messages.
Dont feel bad, we all learned to use forums somewhere and you found a friendly fun place to start.
Tisha
Got ya beat by 10 years (and the 20somethings I’m around often mistake me for late 30’s-early 40’s)
You’ll do just fine in your new job.