a)AGe: I am 39 years old going on 40 this june
b) sex:Male
c)Citry: arlington TX home of the Cowboys
d)Profile:I am IT pro. i have 5 kids and have been married for 13 years. i am very outgoing and a fun loving person. Unfortunately over the years my marriage has degraded from stress, bills, and kids. It has resulted in my wife feeling alone an unloved. She sought out feelings elsewhere if you get my drift. Im trying to rekindle the flame in my marriage and reconnect with my wife before its too late.
Hey my friend, sorry to hear the bad news. Unfortunately I hope you know that pheromones may or may not help with a problem this big. However, of course it’s worth a try. I’d go with some IH to make her feel comfortable around you, have her feel like she can trust you, and have her be honestly open with you. I’d also add a spray or two of TUTH to help ignite that spark lost between the two of you, but also try adding some IG to make her feel even more comfortable and to remind her that you serve as a great provider. Even though you already are, I mean taking care of 5 kids while still holding down the bills/house? That’s definitely awesome, and worth of a good wife.
Good luck, and welcome but also try to seek professional help via by therapy or having the two of you talk it out.
Hello jhaskins,
Welcome to the forum.
TUTH And IH are great suggestions, and may help. I hope for your sake they do. I am really not familiar with these types of problems, but there are lots of threads about them here on the forum. Below is one of the best I have seen.
Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home (
I hope this helps. Please let us know what you decide and how they work for you.
Again welcome.
Hey! Welcome to the forum. The above posters already stated what I would have in regard to pheromone use, but while those might enhance, it would be better to try working at the core itself.
What brought on the need to fix this? Was it only because of the loss of her feelings or are you honestly feeling that your situation hasn’t been up to par?
If it’s the latter, talk to her and readjust your lifestyle.
Take time apart from your schedule just for her. Take interest in her life, and if you can’t manage that at first, try to do new things together.
Talk openly with her. If you two have that love and desire to work towards a happy relationship, you can. 
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