Hello jhaskins,
Welcome to the forum.
TUTH And IH are great suggestions, and may help. I hope for your sake they do. I am really not familiar with these types of problems, but there are lots of threads about them here on the forum. Below is one of the best I have seen.
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I hope this helps. Please let us know what you decide and how they work for you.
Again welcome.