Hey so im new to this if done a bit of reading on natural body pheramones and heres my problem
i have a gf been off and on for a long long time seems like the biggest problem is lack of sex and me wanting more than she wants
now from what i have gotten out of her it seems i am to idunno passionate ? she says that even little things like kissing with tongue turns her off because she says she can feel my whole body tensing; and well im wanting to keep this one around for life. and the prob it seems to me is shes not as attracted to me as she used to be kinda o i got him no worries sort of deal and the reason im thinking this is cuz i work away and when i get home from 3weeks being gone shes got me in the room and its on. but once iv been home for a while seems like its meh…
any sugestions of things i can try would be greatly appriciated.!!
First I want to let you know that pheros are not magic and they do not work like an Axe commenrcail - your girlfirend or any other women are not going to be chaisning you down the street. These products are more like subtle whispers and it is your job to get people to act on those whispers.
As such, if your girlfriend does not feel that spark like you do or really want the same thing you do, these products will not change her free will.
That being said there is a thread in my signature block that talks about helping married guys at home. Now I know that you are not married but this is more of a LTR and that counts for our purposes. I want you to focus in on the IH and bulding emotional intimacy more than the TUTH and trying to brute force the issue.
Anyways - give it a good thourough read and then come back and ask any questions.
Welcome mrme to the forum. Yes, I agree that giving a go to TUTH, will only aggravate matters as this will amplify your HORN dog vibe. This is USUALLY seen negatively by a LTR.
She needs sweet, smooth talk. Listening to her needs and acknowledged honestly. I do think that the Bosshank is right with IH, though, this may bring out some comments that YOU may not want to hear. Focus on your relationship not the bedroom.
I’d suggest you also do IShine to have a comfortable/comforting vibe about you so that while you talk openly and honestly about HER needs, desires, goals, etc. you’ll be able to progress further into a close relationship of communication, trust, and respect.
For mones, to get the most out of them, take a look at my sig, Intro to Mones. They’ll help you out tremendously on what to expect from your mones.
I’d filly agree with the above - Instant Shine and IH are a good way of restoring the feelgood and emotional intimacy factors when you are together. And make those times together as good as you can.
Also, have you had a look at your behaviours towards her - Sometimes a few basic adjustments will up her attraction no-end.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. While that saying is true if a person really loves/cares for you and there is more of a strong foundation in the relationship, seeing you everyday will not bore them.
We don’t know her full side of the story but maybe you need to figure out if she is just not into you because she doesn’t love you or you need to work harder to make things interesting in the relationship.
Being comfortable in a relationship doesn’t mean u treat it like a dead marriage.
Sure you guys will have your off days but it sounds to me like she wants more to work with, more romance and effort to show her you want her and you desire her.
