Heya flip,
I wish you the best with this girl. The good thing is you already have a connection going with just your personalities and believe me that is KEY to everything else. I wouldn’t actually start mixing just yet, as I would be fearful something I mixed would screw things up.
Here’s what I would do at your age: The next date/gathering try a bit of shine, check for a more happy/open vibe that will get you talking. It should open things up a bit more. I’ve noticed that when I wear shine alone, people in general, seem to get closer verbally with me. Not like with Instant Honesty but closer in a sense of hey, I don’t know you, but you seem like someone I’d like to exert my energy with and get to know.
Try that first. The next time try just a tiny, itsy, bitsy spray of Ammo. At your age you’re already producing enough -none and although the -none in ammo is buffered there’s no use in risking a young relationship. It’s powerful stuff and sometimes the -none can have a negative affect especially on young ladies. See Toilofday’s comprehensive post here:
Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp (Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp)
You can add more ammo as you progress, but with pheromones the IOI can be quite subtle, like hair twirling, shift changes, space invasions (not the Alien type) but they can be missed so don’t overdo it.
If you are going to use Instant Honesty be careful and not apply it somewhere it will affect you or you will be telling this girl how much you love her and she will get that “Oh no, he’s needy” vibe and get out before it’s too late. Be careful with this one. It can be used as a secret ingredient when things progress and creates sometimes overly chatty reactions, but brings out the truth. When I use it I would give out my credit card number and my pin number just because.
Turn Up The Heat: save for right before sex and again use sparingly. This is a sex cocktail and will heat it up. You don’t want this girl to think that’s all you’re about. Maybe if things are moving into that realm, but never before or she might say all this guy wants is sex from me. That’s not a good thing.
A314: Interesting choice. I use it to garner respect and at my Old age it does what it’s supposed to. I might stay away from this until after the relationship matures. Use it sparingly so she might get that I have a boyfriend who I can trust, is respectful and is sooo cool like James Bond. If you use this one too early she might believe you have to mature of a vibe and not be fun enough for her. It would be a great thing coupled with shine when meeting the parents.
Instant Openness: Look at my advice again for Instant Honesty and to me it’s about the same. Coupled together they form a temper for each other. Open and honest, but not ridiculously chatty.
Again start off very slow, with very little to find your sweet spots.
I’m sure others will swing by to drop advice. Good luck and let us know how it goes for yah.