I can’t remember what Dex does that’s excellent - he’s a kindergarten teacher so I think it might be something to do with a little kid. It wouldn’t have to be anything huge like rescuing them from a fire … just something that takes balls, or something you’re really really good at, or that involves exercising great wisdom and maturity she didn’t know you had … do it in front of her, not to impress but just because that’s who you are and the kind of thing you do all the time … does that make sense? do it, and then withdraw. Tantalizing. She’s left thinking about you and what an amazing guy you are. (You do, of course, have to follow up later, after she’s had time to ponder how cool you are and how different from all the others …)
Rent the movie! (or find the script online - just google the name of the movie in quotes, then SCRIPT or SCREENPLAY … you can find most any movie script that way).
Ok, that was perhaps not the most dipolomatic answer but nevertheless it is very perceptive.
From what I have read I expect that girl has some issues that prevent her from giving herself fully to a relationship, they may be to do with you, but more likely they are to do with her. This is not unusual.
You have to put yourself in her shoes, let us imagine, for instance, she has had her heart broken in a past relationship - and although she likes you she is very wary of entering into a new relationship with you becuase she doesn’t want to get hurt again. So she wants to take it slow and be careful - then after the 2nd date you send her a text trying to force her to qualify your relationship. - that is going to scare her.
Fortunately it looks like she took it ok and didn’t freak out. The text she sent you is completely honest.
She sounds cool - I like her. But you need to take it slowly, not push things, not be overbearing, relax a bit more, demonstrate that she can trust you rather than tell her.
As for pheromones - I would suggest that you stay away from anything sexual - Instnat Jerk is about the last thing you want to wear around a girl who has trust issues with men. A314 is a good choice becuase it inspores trust and demonstrates stability (I suspect highly valued by this girl). and how about instant shine? you want to make her feel good whenever she is around you.
Examine,
can you give us more info on the woman. Is she attractive and/or very desirable in other ways? What race and age? Also have you had much experience with relationships?
I would say you could try less (or no) -None early in the interaction one night, and wear something with Beta-Nol like CTTM-M2 along with a bit of A314 and TAA(Shine). Get her talking private stuff and find out more about her past relationship history, etc. Maybe she is just used to the casual thing and doesn’t really do proper relationships. Maybe she just wants a ‘friends with benefits’ thing with you. Maybe she has been hurt recently. Maybe she is very inexperienced. She may even tell you directly where you stand with her and why. In any case don’t be needy at all. Anyway when you avoid -None and wear something with Beta-Nol it gives you more of a ‘friend-vibe’ and gets them comfortable with you. She will tell you everything you need to know. See how she responds without the -None. Then later in the night, you could add -None if it looks like she isn’t so keen on your new phero signature or if you want to ‘turn up the heat’.
Or maybe she is just waiting for you to take things further than the make out… nothing needs to be said about whether you are ‘together or not’ just make a physical move then… you’ll find less resistance in this regard if you avoid -None and even more than 1 drop of A314. You could even try P79 instead to ‘ignite the passions’.
Also if you want a relationship I get the feeling that mones like A314 and A1 are especially useful. Unfortunately I hate the way A1 makes me feel around women (kind of unconfident and needy). A314 has not worked well for me in real life in this regard (though I have seen good signs from ‘higher quality’ women).
Never! Ever! Never! Ask those questions!
