Don’t worry. If you decide to get the degree, then you will get it. Might not finish at the same place you started, but you’ll get it. And there are online options. The University of Phoenix is, i think, the biggest online university and has bachlor and masters degree programs.
Just decide that is what you are going to do. The greatest powers in this life are decision, belief, and imagination.
There is ALWAYS a way to get the life that you decide to have. It may however, take it’s sweet time about gettin’ here.
“So it is time to set priorities - and Tisha aimed us in the right direction - and make plans. Stay calm. Stay positive. Stay focused.” - bosshank
Some of the preparations are pretty simple practical things. If you need a medical or dental proceedure, do it soon. If the car is going to need repairs or tires, do it soon. If you have bills you can manage to pay off, do it soon. If you have been thinking about planting a winter garden, do it soon. If you’ve been thinking about learning to make cheese or beer, do it soon. If you’ve been thinking about (fill in the blank), do it soon. Oh, and remember the flu shot too.
Preparation is a no lose proposition. Like stocking up on hurricane/earthquake/blizzard supplies. Even if it’s not used for an emergency, it’s useful to have around anytime.
“Good times are easy, but guys, we are going into hard times and now is the time to be The Man. Like Tisha said - the alphas are going to be The Man - or The Men - who lead, pull, push or drag people out of the mess. And it is time to stand up and be The Man. Now we have had some in-depth discussion about what does an Alpha really mean. And I think those of us who were here then came upon a general sort of agreement. A little research will find that discussion. Needless to say, it dealt with positive leadership not empty posturing in a bar.” - bosshank
Might be good to repost some part of that out in the forum and start the alpha disscussion again, before it dawns on them why we’re talking about leadership.
“There won’t be riots in the streets and I don’t see this as a precursor to complete collapse. I look at the economic situation as re-balancing of itself. It may swing wildly up and down for a bit, but it will balance itself out.” - mark-in-dallas
I pray that you are right. I agree that the economy will balance itself out when it is finally allowed to find some equilibrium. I sincerely hope that i am wrong about the rest.
This can not be limited to business/financial failures with massive unemployment. Already inadequate social services are being cut back now by state and local government everywhere with huge deficets, some of them on verge of insolvency. A few local governments in california are beginning to declare bankruptcy now. As unemployment accelerates so will the demand for social services just as the tax base income of governments falls dramatically.
The primary responsibility of local government is health and safety. Not just police and fire protection. Mental health and medical services. Water and sewage treatment. How about restuarants and food processing plants virtually without health inspections. Or maybe garbage collection once a month? In some places, even those with jobs will end up with a pretty miserable exsistance.
Complete collapse? No. Think of it as more like rips and tears in the social fabric. Some places will manage to hold their social support systems toghther by strength of will and a bit of luck. Some won’t.
Riots? By the end of this coming summer, there will areas with large numbers of unemployed people thrust into situations they never expected, that they don’t understand, and worse, that they see no hope of escapeing. Once a month garbage pickup would be enough to set off riots in some places. Will they be widespread? As much as anything else, that probably depends on how hot and/or dry the summer is.
Undoubtedly some genius will say we could privatize all these services. Just who would actually get those services? The poor, the unemployed, the hungry, would probably only get the services of the riot police.
The next question will be how long will this last? I don’t really know, but i can tell what will happen before we are allowed to implment the things that history has shown will lift us back to prosperity. I want that to be my next post. Let’s see if i can work up nerve to actually explain it.
“The economy will get worse and we do need to step up, set priorities and be men, and in the ladies cases, women! We had plenty of good years and stretched the rubber band till it snapped. For that we’ll suffer for awhile, but the ultimate goal should be to leave the economy and the world in better shape than what we came into, and insure that the next and future generations have a chance to prosper.” - mark-in-dallas
Aaamen.
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