!WORD UP! - Read This!!!
With Power Comes Responsibility
(that’s the real title)
I’m having a hard time starting this thread. Been trying for several days. I hope that a large pot of stout black tea will help. Don’t even know where to post it. This is not chit-chat and damn sure not ‘off topic’.
Most evenings, I ride out into the darkness and spend my time among the people of the night preparing a bright new world for the rest of you to awaken to. When the sun rises tomorrow, it will certainly be a very new world. Not quite as bright as usual though.
We will awaken tomorrow to a world that is darker and bleaker than anything that all but the oldest inhabitants of this planet have ever seen. Things have been getting progressively less positive for the last few years, but from this day forward, life will become steadily more difficult for most of the people around us. Real people, not statistics. Our family. Our friends. The people we talk to and interact with in course a day. The people we pass in the street.
I am completely certain that our world will eventually find peace and prosperity. This may however, take a considerable time to develop.
Life is disatisfying. Abrasive. Off the mark. It is a central tenant of buddhism that unenlightened life is suffering.
But what we are about to see goes far beyond that. Abject poverty, hunger, depravity, criminality, and the inevitable debilitation and disease that follows. In many quarters, to simply maintain civility will be the highest possible aspiration.
While all this gestates, each of us finds ourselves standing in the midst of this most extraordinary community. Almost any one who stays here more than a few weeks has measurable improvments in multiple areas of their life. In many cases it is improvement beyond anything we had hoped for or even imagined. These are not isolated cases. It is a consistent pattern. Measureable improvement in multiple areas of our lives is the norm here. Maybe some of the old timers around know more about this, but from reading the old threads this seems to be an increaseing trend. Perhaps that should not be surprising since, not only is the phero technology steadily improving, but lively discussions of human body chemistry, psychology, and social skills has steadily drawn in more and more intelligent people who already have skills and knowledge in these areas that they then generously share with the rest of us.
With half a century behind me and well over a million miles under me, I can safely tell you that i am well traveled. I have been to some very unusual places. I have spent time with some honestly extraordinary people. Some wise beyond their years. Some who were before their time. Some who belonged to times past. I have worked with brilliant scientists from the world over.
With all that, I have never, ever, seen or heard of any thing like the group of people here. This has been an extraordinary time and place for me. I am certain it has been for many of you also.
Try this on for size;
SUDDENLY I SEE KT Tunstall – Music
Her face is a map of the world
Is a map of the world
You can see she’s a beautiful girl
She’s a beautiful girl
And everything around her is a silver pool of light
The people who surround her feel the benefit of it
It makes you calm
She holds you captivated in her palm
Suddenly I see
This is what I want to be
Suddenly I see
Why the hell it means so much to me
And she’s taller than most
And she’s looking at me
I can see her eyes looking from a page in a magazine
Oh she makes me feel like I could be a tower
A big strong tower
She got the power to be
The power to give
The power to see
Suddenly I see…
UuuhHuh, Remind you of anyone?
OK So much for analogies, lets get down to cases.
“I went to walgreens today and while I paid, the manager came over and asked me if I shopped there often. I replied that I did every now and again. He said something about a makeup consultant, offered me a job, and gave me his card! … had comepletely forgotten I was wearing pheros… I have no intention of working at walgreens but in todays job market, getting a job offer like that is nearly miraculous. Peace” - Rad47
“I was feeling 100% confident..
Went into the meeting. had the boss litereally shaking.. his pen.. his voice.. I am not sure what it was.. but in any case.. he gave lots of good eye contact and quick jokes.. (he hates everyone.. i have only ever heard horror stories of going to speak to him..)
I got my raise! Wooohoo (he told me I would get every dollar I was asking for).. and he was amendable to everything i asked. it was like I was the one running the show. it was great.
complete success” - queenie-t
“I had a MAJOR confrontation this weekend with someone from my family. I am usually the outsider, the “different” one, the fuck up. Well, with 4 sprays of mx134 I could see a respect and feel an esteem that has never been there. As a matter of fact this family member was going off all over me until he got close enough to huff the mx134 and his entire tune changed. Normally I am the family joke, the one who gets shamed into hiding their feelings, but not this time. My other family members gathered around me and supported me, which is HIGHLY unusual because the person I was in conflict with usually if the alpha family member who can do no wrong.I was supported and treated like a person. I was able to hold my head up and defend my position without buckling with shame at my existence. I felt like I DESERVED respect, and my demanding it got it for the first time EVER.It was like my stock value had gone up in their eyes. This was an amazing HIT, consistent, across the board with four adults.” - therapygirl
“When it came time for him to make his points, he won easily and handily on every issue, without resistance, and the enemies he expected to make became allies instead. The meeting ended 3 hours early with everyone on the same page going forward working together. My husband is most likely going to be spearheading the efforts going forward at the head of a small group who will have not only the responsibility to get things done and make the changes necessary, but the power and authority to back it up. He thought he’d have to fight for that, but it was pretty much just gifted to him when he said that is how it had to be.
On the way out of the meeting his boss whispered to him, “Did we just win on every single point?” Unheard of in these meetings. My husband said, “Yes we did,” and the boss just nodded and strutted out the door! LOL” - diane999
"- Dude E, who normally has an alpha male personality, was very complimentary and friendly to me, patting me on the back several times as if I was an old buddy. He did not have any problems with Distractant B sitting next to me or even her talking and focusing so much on me at times - he treated me with respect and admiration throughout the night.
- Dude F, who is most certainly a very strong alpha male personality, was very respectful and friendly to me even though it was the first time that we had met, even offering to buy me a drink while we waited for Distractant B to arrive.
- The biggest hit of the night, though, was Distractant E. We had originally met once previously, and I think I left a strong impression on her (phero-wise). … The effects of the mixes I had applied gave me the confidence to walk up to the bar and get the bartender’s attention (20+ caucasian female) and I was able to get our beers in 2 minutes. Distractant E was amazed at my success, and we hung out together for quite a while. The IOIs she displayed included a distinct decrease in personal space, increased comfort and attraction, strong eye contact, wide open genuine smiles, hair flipping and brushing, neck exposure and tilting of the head, face to face postures & open body language, and lots of KINO given and received. It was one of those times when I felt a strong rapport with someone, and it felt very natural and smooth." - Dancing_Joker
“so im just sitting eating my din dins in a food court, and this pommie chick goes, “mind if i sit here?” i look around and tehres a million other places she could have sat, so y here? …i say nothing for 5 mins. as she sits next to me, then she uses a line : 'so r u also eating on your own?” woww! so ive become the chick and shes hittin on me!!! trust me, this dont normally happen to me, so eitehr a huuge coincidence or im onto somethimg here…and y is she holding her hand between her legs? so i just wasnt prepared for an insatnt date so i facebook close her…wow, this is what pheromones should always do. U CAN JUST SIT RANDOMLY, GIRLS SNIFF YA AND PICK YA!..alas, possibly a new favorutie." - mahalo silver
“During getting the food at buffet i noticed nothing special, but then during eating at the table 4 persons (2 young women and 2 middleaged guys) asked me surprisingly if they could eat at my table (i was there early and there were at least 6 empty tables around me, and i prefer eating alone )
I was like “huh, strange.” because normally my negative alpha aura is repelling ppl, especially when i subconscioulsy signal them i want to be alone”
but the 2 women were welcome, the guys not
after a little chit chat and i finished my meal, i wanted to leave for th bar.
suddenly i was stopped by the arm of one of them. I had to promise them i would return huh?
so i was polite and agreed (they were around 23 only)
but what impressed me most, during the next 2 h we were babbling 5 other unknown ppl (men+women between 25-35)joined our table with their drinks. Something i am absolutely not used to (remember negative alphatype)
I had really to get accustomed to this stunning new situation.
I was really asked holes in my stomach.
My profession as psychotherapist seemed to make some impression, which it usually didnt before.
During the late evening i heard a young women who walked besides my table telling her boyfriend “hey let us sit at this cool guys table” He didnt agree though, probably he didnt like the impression i made to her.
i went to bed at 4 o clock in the morning with 5 room numbers shared and a lot “new” friends.
Felt really great to be a magnet for others (not sexually but at a buddylevel)" - Trantorx
“I’d put on three bursts of ammunition and some instant female magic. I think I put some shine on my wrists too but I don’t remember.
Anyway, I felt like I was in the zone right off and was pretty at ease with myself, even though I’d been nervous to come knowing I’d be sitting alone with B without my wife to bounce stuff off during conversation. I did not know that K was coming but she was quietly studying German as B and I chatted. I lost the thread of conversation a few times and digressed way too much but I was comfortable.
Anyway, after a while K mumbled something to B about wanting a drink. B said to K that she should use the money she had. Then K revealed that she’d put the money into a vending machine and it had not come out - money or soda.
Well, as I was in the zone I got to my feet and said “Leave it to me”. I headed to the machine and tapped it once where the money goes in. Fifty pence tumbled to the change drawer below and I proudly took the ten paces back to B and K. B was pretty impressed but K, a typical teen, just pocketed the money with a sullen look and mumbled “there were two fifty pences”.
And here’s where it gets interesting (finally).
I nod my head in confidence and get to my feet. I take two steps back towards the machine to go after the second stuck penny and EVEN BEFORE I REACH IT the money tumbles out!. B was amazed. I put my arms out and said “Wow, was that jedi powers or what?” B agreed and commented that even the Fonz had to physically touch the jukebox to get it to work.
Okay, I know that the pheromones had nothing to do with this. But I wanted to share. Its really true as I have written it.” - sexygamedesigns
Need more? Many of us have own versions of social success beyond anything we had hoped for.
Although I suspect it has happened before, we are only beginning to tell the stories of love and honor.
“Just a quick note to say hello and I am still and around ,however, taking care of my friend has not left me much personal time. But she is chipper and doing well enough through her treatments and loves having me around to lean on. I feel great being there for her through this time.I feel useful.
I was wearing Instant Shine around her until I ran out. She seemed to respond fairly well and I wanted to keep it simple for her system after everyone’s great advice.
I tried TAC around the Chemo Center but no responses from her or anyone there. Maybe it’s one just not meant to be there yet. I am wanting a full size of the IS but will not be able to afford any in the near future. I was greatly surprised at the response from her and others in her medical care team. I sure see a difference now after the ToGo has run out.
Well…if I get a chance to get out and try any of my others or if I accidently find enough funds for a full size IS …I’ll be back soon…if not she is my “all encompassing focus” right now. I want her survival and happiness to be number one so I am there every day to encourage Love,Light, and positive healing energy to her mind , body, and Spirit.” - Mystrys
“Are you kidding? Can’t afford one? Why would an angel have to afford one? I am sending a bottle out immediately!
With great people, like you, willing to do this for their friends it would be my honor.” - SteveO
“Steveo and Mystrys, you guys are in my heros list today. I’m all glassy-eyed infront of my computer screen, if I just could squeeze you both with a big fat hug. … I’ve never seen anybody use pheros in this way (this is my first time) and Mystrys you have definately changed my point of view about it in a good way of course. We need more people like you in the world!” - msselva
“I can identify, as I watch my mama struggle and deal with Mulitple Myeloma and it is hard to see the ones you love so ill believe me…so to all the people in the world who make it their business to be there, I mean really be there…we are angels working here on earth.” - djacquelyn
*There is a lot more to this this thread. I’ll get back to you with the next installment in a few hours.
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