Wore 4 sprays of meo-est 10mcg/spray to the neck today.
Had a male colleague lean and inadvertently rub his dong on my bare thigh today for a good minute or so. He was deep in conversation and was probably unaware of it but I was pretty damn aware of what he was doing so my question is - do guys not notice when they’re pressing against a female colleague with their privates? I mean, gee, isn’t it a sensitive area?
Just asking because I was wondering whether he was being a pervert but my male friend said it was prolly by accident.
mmmmm i’'d definitely say that we guys are aware of where we place our packages, or “rub” for that matter. If it hadn’t been for a minute, i would definitely side with him and say it was an accident. But a minute? i mean even if it were on the subconscious level, he would have snapped out of it by then.
On a related note, i’m quite glad you turned up to be a woman, eventually as i was reading the post under the impression it was a man’s post!!!
For a minute?? LOL - he knew what he was doing. He was just wondering if you knew what he was doing - and if you did not signal he was too close or that the contact was bothering you - well, he just stayed there.
The only time my “package” may ever have touched a woman by accident would be during martial arts if it got hit or if I ran into some woman by mistake.
Guys DO NOT lean their “package” into anything more than a brief second.
If you were rubbing your vagina on a coworker’s leg for one minute would you be unaware of it? Seriously though, that’s ridiculous. Letting it happen for one minute sounds like something out of american pie or some rauchy comedy
I would say he was fully aware, it would be hard not to notice something pushing against it… on the otherhand, he might not have been purposely ‘rubbing’ it against you, or maybe it was his phone? lol.
What confuses me the most is how he was in that close of a proximity? You must of been inbetween his legs in some form of manner for you to be capable of feeling his member.
Now I dont know about you but that doesn’t normally appear in ordinary social situations, maybe in a night club dancing together…?
Yeah, both he and your male friend knew exactly what time it was.
Understandably hearing this must make you feel violated and am sorry for that, but the fact anyone could give someone the benefit of doubt on something like this is adorable (in a naive sort of way)*.
*(seriously, no offense meant and he should be ashamed of such inappropriate behavior)
I think the only time I’ve ever suffered “accidental rubbage” was in a bar when I and she were drunk and had an extended hug. LOL she asked if that was an iPhone in my pants. She was extremely happy when I replied “that was no friggen phone but I was simply happy to see her.” But, yep, the little man has the highest concentration of nerve endings in your body. You know exactly where it is every moment of the day. It’s so sensitive you can use it to record wind speed, gauge magnetic fields, measure earth quakes and predict long term weather cycles…
Good Goddess Women you should have slugged him. I would have told him if he touched me again with it I would break it off and feed it to my dog.
One minute is a long time and he knew exactly what he was doing. Just because he is your mentor and is warning you about horndogs doesn’t mean he is not a horndog himself. With Pheromones you can sometimes get unconscious bumping or brushing but anything more then 5 to 10 seconds and they are conscious of it.
i say chalk this episode off as a mishap and start anew, giving him the benefit of the doubt just this once, especially since it’s someone you respect
Zero-tolerance policy if it ever happens again.
In fact most male bosses confuse me - the ones who obviously have broken relationships at home tend to hit on the younger girls at work (I fall into this category) and when they don’t take shit from them, they pick on them at work.
I oscillate between ‘I must be a shite worker therefore he screams at me’ (“God no,” as my neutral bosses (ie non horn dog) and professional reports would say) to ‘Is this dude being inappropriate and hitting on me?’ (“God no, you obnoxious self-praising bitch,” as my subconscious would say)
Trust me - it don’t take a lot of pressure to create a lot of pain …
Ahhh - if it was you who swung around and made contact with him and did not break it … then it was really one of two scenarios: First, and I hate to say it, but he may well have thought you meant to do it. Second, and I think most likely, he probably thought that you were not aware of the “nature” contact and for whatever reason (did not want to embarass you or kinda enjoyed it) did not step away. But if you could feel everything then he certainly knew the contact was there.
Personally I would have broken contact very quickly if something did make contact with the boys - and I probably would have teased you about it saying something like “Well if you didn’t like the memo you could just say so ..”
ROTFL. Leave it to the Grand master Gegogi to give me a good laugh when I need it …
