Ok, here’s the deal, I’m trying to figure out what phero applications to use for a very specific woman… I am 34 (35 next month… if that helps) I have type A+ blood, I am quiet until I get to know someone a little ( however I have known her for years), then I’m out going, fun, and laid back I’m not an aggressive person, and I’m more of a sensitive kinda guy…
She is introverted, intelligent, has been hurt too many times by too many people eg: doesn’t trust easily, she is Bi, she is a very caring and compassionate person, she is shy, and fun loving…
Any suggestions?
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Tishas picks are good, since you’re both a bit shy I would maybe replace IH with IO that might get her talking more. As for P78 tuff call, I’m still on the fence with that one. If you haven’t played with it stay with the basics.
Try out the instant lines first. If you’re looking for something long term, IH will definitely pull her in and allow her to trust you.
You can’t be too sure if she might also be turned off with high none signatures and IG would give you that relaxed and chill, gentleman/protector feel especially if you can fit into that behavioral mould or at least act in congruence with it.
IS will give you an overall attraction/shine factor and if you’re around her she’ll feel good around you. At this moment what I can guess is that you’d most probably want her to feel good as well be really trusting in and of you.
What’s the nature of her job, do you have any more detailed personality traits about her and how long has it been since her last relationship (guy or girl)
She is a librarian, as far as the relationship thing goes I’m not really sure…, she’s kind of an old soul rooted in her beliefs, she is the kind of person that doesn’t keep more than one or two friends at a time, she is soft spoken, hopeless romantic, reads a lot of romantic novels classics and modern… Does this help any?
Tish’s picks are good, a very solid feel good comfort mix. Here’s the thing about romance novels and women, what she reads says a lot about the woman stuck inside. Are these novels the safe sweet hearts and flowers stuff or the bodice rippers with cover art portraying a woman being manhandled by a shaved chest guy in some torrid embrace?
The mix can stay the same, but how you approach can be determined by what books she’s escaping into. It’s very possible that while she may be very quiet and reserved she’s wanting somebody to pull her from her dreary existence. In that case you could do better than your typical dinner and a movie date. Be a little more unorthodox and spontaneous in your choice of activity, show her a little bit of a fun wild bad boy type. Nothing to extreme, you don’t want to be a parody of a romance hero, just enough to gently pull her out of her shell a bit. The mix should help her feel enough trust and chemistry to be willing to do it.
Now does this just go for romance novels or all books she reads because I read text books LOL
I agree with you about the romance novels though. You can tell a lot about a women by which type of male character draws her to the novel. There will be a consistent type. I go through spurts… most times I read text books, self help, spiritual type books and once in a while I will be in the mood for a romance novel. Of course I am a bit of a perv so I read erotica but its the same concept just a little more graphic. If you look at all the books I have read over the years you will see a pattern of strong , instinct driven, alpha men. I am not big on hearts and flowers although its sweet. I wouldnt say its about the women “stuck” inside. Not all women are stuck. Its speaks to there preference though.
Ok, I figured why not put it all out there… Would these mones help with the relationship between me and my soon to be ex-wife? …As of a week ago we were talking about trying to get back together and work it all out, then I said some REALLY stupid things and now she said she’s done… Just a wondering… …and yes I realise, mones are not some quick fixing love potion that will make a person forget everything.
Ok, so I decided to start out by ordering IS, IH, IO, IG (I should receive them sometime Thurs…) So basically, I need to be that whole “Prince Charming” person? It shouldn’t be to difficult to pull off… I have always been a “protector” for her, I am also a hopeless romantic (…on a side note when me and my ex were married every day for the first 3 years of our marriage I brought her a single rose no matter what! If that doesn’t say romantic I don’t know what does… I mean seriously 3 YEARS!! LOL!) I always think of her and seem to know what she likes, and try to put her first… So I’m thinking I could do Prince Charming fairly easily… This is good input guys by all means please keep it up!..
I have been considering purchasing either the ammo or the TUTH on my next check (…which is tomorrow… LOL! ) but I think first I will try the ones I ordered yesterday, as this is my first go at anything phero… Oh! I did neglect to mention in my earlier post that when I placed my order for the instants, I bought the 30 ml bottles instead of the smaller ones. Mainly because in my logic if they work as well as I think they might it would turn out cheaper in the long run, and it they don’t …well let’s just say “nothing ventured, nothing gained”
