I’m not sure if pheromone (assuming it does work) will help my situation. Hope I can get some honest opinions/suggestions here.
I have been with the same man for the past 10 years. Things went well for the first 7 years, then gradually declined. The past year was particularly “quiet”. He’s right in front of me and yet his mind is far away.
Will pheromone help me re-gain his attention on me?
Hello Bumblebee 
Welcome to Pherotalk !!
A little more information about you would help in getting you qualified for that 25$ GC and also in identifying the best phero for you.. I presume you are 36 from your profile info.. how is your personality like… dominant or coy/ which part of the world are you from.. ? post some more info regarding these…
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
Now getting to the problem at hand.. 
Looks like boredom / familiarity is causing the lack of attention.. but congratulations first for the long standing relationship. Its normal in such relationships for this kind of issues to pop up sometime during its course…
when we get comfortable with each other most often the mystique/veil of suspense about the other partner disappears… getting comfortable with each other is excellent but sometimes it gets stuck in the rut of predictability… what I would suggest is try something different… get some new titillating clothiers.. rehash your wardrobe.. not just for nightwear but for day wear too.. remember those days when you used to dress up for your date…take a trip back in that route.. if he is the one who normally takes initiative in bed… try a change once… and yeah.. dont forget the pheromones…
I would suggest two pheros for the situation… Instant Sexiness and Instant Shine.
there are two variants of sexiness … “A & B”
Instant Sexiness A projects a sexy vibe… more like that of a woman who knows what she wants and takes it.. la Angelina Jolie.. Instant Sexiness B projects the vibe of coy sexiness probably more in sync like that of a marline Monroe / natalie portman.. type… What I feel is that get the one which may be opposite your regular personality… ur partner is used to your regular vibe.. when it changes… he has to sit up and take notice..
Instant Shine is a happy phero which puts people at ease.. and in a good mood… reduces chances of rejection…( a tired and irritated partner may not be in a mood to play) when people bring home stress from work.. it affects the sex life.. wear a few sprays.. u can be liberal with it.. and in less than half an hour of exposure you can see a mood change in your partner and yourself.. it also projects this youthful vibe… helps in amplifying the impact of Instant Sexiness.
You can also consider getting Essence of woman from love sent for use along with these two. Androtics dosent sell it. you can read about it in the women section and how to use it. Unlike the other two, EoW stinks big time.. you may need a nice perfume to cover it…however it is a good addition and can leave a big impact when used with sexiness and shine
Welcome Bumble bee! You got the Presidential treatment from Aghor! 
It’s right down to the focus of ‘use this mone’ but the WHY you should think of a particular mone and how it may help with your situation. You will need to consider how they will work in YOUR particular scenario with your man.
THEN, the social commentary… Excellent observations and advice.
I would ask, tell us a bit about your personality as well as his. Some of your likes and dislikes as mones will work ALONG with YOUR personality, actions and attitude best.
On my sig is How to Know What are Hits to help you understand the uses of mones and HOW they may affect you and others around you.
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Thank you for the welcome. And Steve O, thank you for the detailed private message. The information is helpful.
About myself, I am currently located in the DC metro area but originally from China. Came to the States when I was 8. I have a rather dominant/aggressive personality. Some people call it Type A. I don’t embrace this personality but it is who I am and I like the feeling of confidence. However, I do not wish to be so eccentric to the point that offend or turn away others from me. So over the years, I’ve learned to round my edges and listen/respect what others have to say. This attitude allowed me to see things from other’s perspective and broaden my mind.
Most people/friends view me as an extrovert but those who are close to me know that I’m just the opposite. I enjoy friendliness from people and therefore I’m usually the one to initiate a friendly small talk in a social environment. But it’s not easy for me to extend the small talks into something deeper. In general, I prefer social gatherings that involve activities such as sports.
Hope this is sufficient information to qualify me for the gift certificate? There really isn’t much more I can say about myself… 
Welcome Bumble Bee,
Pheromones are not magic and will not help if there is some underlying problem that you both need to take care of
Pheromones can help to bring about communication to start fixing if there is an underlying problem
You have had consultation from the experts so I am sure you will be good
It can also be like aghor said and you may need to get out your sexiest stuff and toys and rock his world let him know no one can do him like you do
Your gc was issued!