Why do women reduce our male biology to periodic spurts of testosterone while insisting that we’ll never understand theirs?
MVKBUGATTI
Probably for the same reason men reduce the female biology to periodic spurts or hormones or PMS while claiming we do not understand what they go through.
Neither gender, in most cases makes a real effort to understand the others biology, emotions or thought processes. However we all have a need to label emotion and response without looking deeper for its true cause. Its almost always not what we label it.
If more people stopped to really look under the surface a whole new understanding would create a more fulfilling life experience.
Tisha
uh oh u got tisha involved
short answer is that women don’t have a need to understand men. they just need to know if you’re gonna be faithful or not and the rest is done on an emotional level. as men we have to try to understand them just to have a conversation. this mainly has to to with the “men are doers, women are takers” dating model. if the sitution was turned upside down and women became the seducers and men the choosers, you’d be hearing the exact opposite me thinks.
Snort, Ahhh dont be scared I dont bite hard. 
I am not saying I disagree with you although your answer has little to do with his questions and more to do with your perceived meaning of his question. Some women are takers but so are some men. Some women are users and so are some men. Men have to work hard to make relationships work but so do women. All good relationships are about give and take from both partners. Both sexes need to look deeper before they can have understanding of each other. You need more then the promise of faithfulness.
You know every time we butt heads on the subject of the difference in sexes your bitterness towards women shines through like a beacon. Bitterness is a block and it can define you. When a person spends so much time casting blame on the opposite sex for all males perceived failures they actually attract the very type of women that feeds this bitterness.
Again I am not saying your wrong quite the contrary. I am saying its all you can see therefore it has become your reality. You need to look deeper not only into the opposite sex but into yourself and your own emotions. We attract what we focus on and if our focus is that all women are on the take that is all you will see. It matters little if its true or not… It becomes your reality. You create your reality no one else and no one else can change it but you. If you do not like what your seeing dont expect it to change.
Change the way you look at it. Its the key to everything in the universe.
Tisha
wow takin cheap shots…nice.
actually the reason why you and i butt heads is because you live in a very interesting world. i don’t know where this world exists, but having been out clubbing every nite for the past two weeks straight, i haven’t seen any evidence of this world you speak of.
as far as bitterness, we already covered this. if anything i feel sorry for women. you remember? right before you launced into some women are gonna rule the world bullshit rant? yup.
maybe there’s a generational gap between us? who knows, u don’t put your age in your profile. i don’t think the issue is that i’m bitter but more that i have the balls to say what i see. notice how men leave the convo as soon as you and i get into it.
but see this time around i know that this is all meaningless. i’m prolly gonna go out tomorrow nite, and none of this will have any meaning there.
but the last part of your post was kinda cool
I was the captain of the debating team in high school. Your my favorite kind of opponent. One who proves my point for me. I didn’t take any cheap shots, if you go back and look yours was the cheap shot and I clearly understood it.
I dont make cheap shots. When I take a shot I make it clear and it hits its mark.
I was making a observation as to why you attract this particular type of women. I said…
… but your bitterness toward me and all women blocked you from seeing that. You saw what you wanted to see. You created your reality.
And you think its me they are avoiding (snort) 
They leave because they see the same thing I see. No one wants to hang with someone who comes across as bitter and negative. Not even other males. This is why I said look deeper into yourself as well as others. I am not saying those girls do not exist. They do. I am saying you cant change them but you can change how you see them. Stop being the glass is half empty guy because when you do it just gets more empty. See it as half full and soon it will be full. I know that someone must have hurt you in the past. Pain is usually the emotions that jades us but I also know that under that pain there is a man who is worth while. Having balls is not about pointing out what you see. Anyone can do that, its about having the courage to embrace it, let it go and move on. Its about not letting it define you.
You know, I am older then you. I mentioned my 22 year old son more then once when we had our last conversation. I did acknowledge that times are harder for men then in past generations. That’s what the whole women rule the world convo was about, we got into the alpha beta thing later because the convo evolved that way. You claim women have it easy all we have to do is flutter our eye lashes and we get what we want and then when I replied women rule the world (referring to relationships) which is basically agreeing with what your saying you pitched a fit. It didn’t matter what I said to you. I could have said your so right or said your so wrong and your bitterness would always answer for you. Your letting it define you.
Whether you feel its meaningless or not you heard it and its there in your subconscious mind. If I didn’t care about you or the other people in here I wouldn’t even bother responding. I would avoid you like the others do when that negativity shows itself. Thing is I am a empath so I know what you feel whether you believe in that stuff or not and I know your not all negative and deserve to find happiness. Your not going to find it until you look within though. I want you to find it.
Somewhere in there a seed has been planted and you may hate me for planting it now but I am willing to embrace that because someday when you let it grow you will look back and say “Hey that old lady tisha was right”.
Tisha