It seems a lot of people on here are still experimenting or exploring or already have their favorite mixes. I am exploring. Seeing favorite mixes is interesting. However, it would be nice to try to figure out good mixes that work, in my life. Everyone does different things different situations. I don’t go out as much. I hang with my friends all the time. New people generally show up, slowly. Work a minimum wage job. Taking the year off from college, to figure things out.
So my question is this. Generally, I end up in situations where the guys and the girls generally are all friends before anything happens. Less spontaneity. So most of these “mixes” seem to be more tailored towards, first meeting, and pickups. But what is good for standing out in your group. Because if the girls already know you the situation is already extremely different. Any advice for that kind of situation?
(Im thinking of buying To-Go Sizes of, Instant Shine, Instant Female Magic, and AMMO. However, I am curious on the differences between Instant Openness, and Instant Honesty. As well as AMMO and Turn up the Heat. Is instant female magic, a combination of concept between two of these? Sorry for paragraph, but getting as many possible answers would be nice!)
I’d go for general social enhancement, something to help those around you feel good and open up (TAA & nols). Realize, those that know you well will have you pegged and not much can suddenly change their image of you. I find pheromones at their most subtle with those nearest to me. Of course they work at a biological level, but their brains will choose to ignore weird signals like “fuk me” or “whip mah arse I’m an alpha wannabe.” [if they’re drunk, it may be another story] Mones work best at creating a favorable first impression with new people. Once that impression is set in stone with close friends and family–it will take hell 'n high water to change.
As for your questions about common products, these have been discussed thousands of times on these boards and not much can be added. I’d read the noob threads at the top, search under product names for specifics and aim for the social pheromones to begin with.
That is what I understand for the most part already, that it’s about first impressions. However, isn’t it possible that, that change in body chemistry. Can start to have an effect, on someone else, even if they are already close. But likely talk more time? Is that theory plausible?
Pheromones do have an effect on people you already know, it’s just more gradual.
When someone knows nothing about you, the first impression is all they have to go on and their conceptual model of who you are is based entirely on that. Someone who knows you already has a pre-built conceptual model. That model can change based on new input, but it’s a slow process. If you just smell different one day the basic model probably will not change much.
What you are suggesting is quite possible. However, you need to figure out in what manner you would like to influence your friends’ conceptual models. What is your personality like now? How do you think your friends and acquanitances perceive you now? How would you like them to perceive you? When you answer these questions people here can give advice on pheromones that will nudge perceptions in the desired directions.
Gegogi and GWTW gave you some good commentary. Pheromones work best with new people in your life. They do work with people who already know you but the results are more subtle and can take longer to shift perceptions.
The flip side is that you also have to match the perception you are creating - congruence. Putting on IO or IH and then not talking to people will not work. Neither will wearing Instant Shine and always acting negative or moody. Right?
At your age either a spray of Ammo or some Instant Gentleman would work great as a base. Then you could add in IO, IH or Instant Shine depending on what is happening. You can check out the threads in my signature block for strategies, etc. on that. But it always comes back to the congruence thing - the idea that it is always 90 % you and 10 % pheromones - that you have to bear in mind.