I am skeptical and can’t help it until I experience this concept for myself. Nevertheless, no one has ever accused of being afraid to dive in and be the dumb, exploring pilgrim. My plan is to order a handful of the small travel size sprays - IS, IH, IO, IG and possibly A314 - and give each a solo ride to see if anything happens. If that works out, I’ll restock the best ones and try some blending. Does that sound reasonable?
One other question that springs to mind: is there any systematic way to know how a unique body chemistry might react to the various classes of pheronomes? I was asked when I registered for this forum, for example, about my blood type. Is there any relevance to that?
When I first stumbled across this website I was VERY skeptical myself. I can’t say that I am anymore.
Your idea to try some to go sizes is par for the course. I think all of us tried out the same way. May I ask you what type of results you are seeking?
Different pheromones will garner different results. You have some good choices there, but there may be better combinations. It really depends on the results you seek.
You’re question about body chemistry is valid, but it really cannot be clearly answered as it is true everybody reacts differently. One of my girlfriends is usually effected negatively by pheromones and reacts with hostility. Just yesterday and today I found the Putative that she reacts sexually too and oh my is she ever possessed sexually by it.
It really depends on your chemistry which is unique upon itself and any of a number of environmental factors. The best advice any of us can give you is try some of them out and see which one works for you. The best part of my experience has been some of the ones I get nothing off of have effected those around me with amazing results. I highly recommend you read the sticky section of the mens category for some solid advice.
A314 is a staple in the pheromone community and demands the respect it gets from users and gives to the user.
Anyway welcome and enjoy what is sure to become a lifelong commitment. Once you start you’re hooked.
“Your idea to try some to go sizes is par for the course. I think all of us tried out the same way. May I ask you what type of results you are seeking?”
If everyone else’s scheme was the same, it must work. No regrets I assume? My particular results will differ from most since I am probably older than most here (Vvv – Vietnam vet vintage). Also, I have been married 30 years which puts my wedding before more than a few birthdays, hence the lack of seduction products in my lineup. I have always preferred my wife’s company in every conceivable way.
My career is well established, my income is vastly more than I need and I don’t actually have to earn anyone’s respect anymore (it’s mandated by Federal Regulation anyway). So what am I looking for? That’s a damn good question. Perhaps just to replace waning pheromone levels whatever that means. And of course it sounds so intriguing and painless – a fascinating study in human behavior if nothing else. What do I have to lose?
One more thing; I have two sons and a daughter in their early twenties. Who knows, few spays and the old man might teach them a thing or two.
BTW, I did read the stickys before joining up and your advice couldn’t be better. That is superior information for the new guy by anyone’s standards. Thanks for your personal contributions there.
I will sound very rookie but it is the little experience from personal friends and in every way my own wise conclusion from studying and observing social and sexual interactions.
First off, in order to determine what pheromones you produce naturally you must refer to what kind of people feel attracted towards you. For instance in my own experience I must say that all my male friends fit into two categories: a) total losers who are shy, quiet and not attractive at all to women (I must say a lack of androstenone production) and B) total jerks who get all the females and in fact guys who are rejected by other “average” males as they appear to be rude, offensive, obnoxious, etc…
When it comes to females, well kind of funny. All females who have ever been interested upon me usually have very few or no other girlfriends at all!!
How the pheros will react depends vastly on how others percieve you. Again… as they say your subconcious mind creates a perception of your inner self, then you project that image through your conscious mind: body language, vocabulary, posture, speech, and of course PHEROS which in turn feedback your subconcious mind into rehearsing and reassuring what is already there.
If you are a true business gentleman and add A314… it will help you little or not at all since you already produce that phero naturally (your own body chemistry). If you are a jerk already, you can “soften” your attitude with instant honesty, instant openess… I think..
As the Spanish proverbs says: “Dime con quien andas y te dire quien eres” (TR: Tell me who you hang out with and I will tell you who you are)
I am in much the same position as you although I am not quite that “vintage”. I am pretty well established in life and really am not lacking for anything. Except maybe better knees, stronger hairline - you get the picture.
I use A314 but not really sure I need it from the “respect” standpoint because like you, I get that pretty much anyways. Never-the-less I think it does help especially when dealing with someone who does not know me.
I also use Instant Openness and Instant Honesty but it seems to work better with friends/assosociates/strangers than necessarily my wife.
I also use Turn Up the Heat or NPA but once again it seems to catch the attention of other females a lot more than my wife. If you peruse the forum you will see that quite often ladies of color respond more strongly to heavy 'none products like TUTH. It is funny to put that on to try to spice things up with the wife when we go out for the evening only to have a young African-American female half my age nearby get visibly flustered.
I also use Ammunition - a good, well rounded pheromone mix with a pretty good cologne scent. At least my wife has never complained about the scent like she has some colognes I have bought on a whim.
The one thing that does seem to really work with my wife is TAA. If I know my wife has had a bad day or is likely to be in a bad mood, 3-4 good blasts and she seems to calm down and get in a better mood. That is as long as I am not the focus of her bad mood - lol. Then it does not matter what I wear - unless it is a cross between crow and mud pie.
In reading this forum you will also find that many long-term wives/significant others respond very favorably in the romance department when their man uses something like TUTH.
But the other response (rare) that has been discussed in this forum - as a theory as we are breaking new ground here - but seems to happen with me is that if I use a heavy dose of pheromones it seems to irritate my wife. This is partially because she does not like me too wear much in the way of cologne (would probably prefer I did not wear any day to day) and the scent of the pheromones plus the scent of the cologne gets to be too much for her sometimes when I first put it on. But also even when I go very light sometimes I think the change in my pheromone signature - which she has become adjusted to after all these years - throws her off and that change unconsciously irritates her. She is actually very astute and aware of her surroundings both physical and social and very in tune to me so it would not surprise me if this were the case.
Anyways I hope this small dissertation from one of the more vintage guys here helps.
Well gents, we just may have the basis for a new discussion section. After all, the boomer nitch usually has the disposable income to account for more than half their R&D and marketing. And, thankfully someone besides me will catch the reference to a Firesign Theater quote.
Speaking of color Boss, my wife is Japanese. I have read on another forum about the cross cultural components of pheronomes with respect to a lonely guy from Singapore getting hits at a bus stop after work. I think I’ll add another couple test samples to my trial list. Thanks.
Oh my god… Furiously googles and wikipedia’s until she understands all these references flying like frisbees over her head
Welcome on over, Triple!
All the guys whose posts I’ve wanted you to read have responded here! (Well, 'cept for Gone with the Wind, but I’m sure you know who he is. )
I like your attitude, and I think you’ll fit in very nicely here. You’re a different breed, and I like it. Not like the stable of young bucks kicking up dust, not the loud and proud and brash set… You seem like a cool, genuine guy who just wants to play with these mad molecules to see what happens. Great!
Your starting lineup is great! Can’t wait to hear more of your feedback. I would LOVE to hear what you think about A314. Post often, love!
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