Reeling Her In -- Date #2

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So, I went on a 2nd date with the 27 year old mixed girl. Same signature:
3 sprays straight Androstenone 5 mcg.
2 sprays P96 12.5 mcg.
2 sprays P83 10 mcg.
1 spray IShine regular strength

We had an 8PM date at a hookah bar. One thing I’m a TAD annoyed about her is she isn’t on time…ever. But, I planned ahead for this. The date started officially at around 9PM.

We ended up staying at the hookah bar for 4 hours. I had NO idea we were there for so long. Had a couple of drinks, hookah, fries, conversation was very good (even talking about sex, fetishes, porn, first time masturbating, first time having sex, first time smoking pot, first time getting drunk, we were so inappropriate).

Then, we went for a walk (the hookah bar is in the neighborhood I lived in when I first moved down south). We stopped at my favorite bar and had a drink. It was pretty funny because guys were looking at her, and one even bought her a drink (her reaction was appreciative, but also kind of, "dude, don’t you see I’m with this guy?)

We ended up leaving at around 3:30AM. I knew she had to drive 45 minutes, so I offered her to sleep at my house. We cuddled all night until around noon the next day. She told me she liked me, and we are doing something again next week (probably low-key, bowling, movie and drinks at my place, pizza). I didn’t sleep very well though (she’s a face-to-face cuddler which, for whatever reason, I always find physically uncomfortable. I’m more of a spooner).

The only thing is I have a feeling she’s dating other guys, which obviously I should expect. She asked me if my sheets were clean because she “doesn’t want to sleep in a bed where I had sex with another girl.” I was taken a bit aback from this comment. Also, whenever she received a text/phone call, it was from a guy. As she left, she mentioned how she was “going to an MMA match” and “I wonder if they’re (no mention of sex of friend) is still going.”

I guess the next step is, what should I wear/how should I act to make her see me as the clear-cut option for her? I think I’m doing alright right now, but it seems like she has options (I’m also seeing another girl, but I don’t take her nearly as seriously).

I think I won a LOT of points with her when I told her that there is no rush to get too physical too quickly, that I wanted to get to know her first.

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I would think the P96 would come in play here and help with making you the clear choice. I am used to wearing P74 early on in the dating process and switching out for the P96 and when I was single this would real them in every time.

I guess really it dose kind of come down to what does she really want and I would ask her at some point. If she is comfortable talking about all the sex stuff and other things why wouldn’t she talk about what she is looking for.

I don’t have any experience with P83. Maybe try some IH on the wrists and see what she tells you, and I would ask her to.

Sounds like the date went really well though. Whatever you do just don’t come out to strong and if she really likes you she will come to you.

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I agree with Justin on most of what he said.

I have to say if she always late, she doesn’t value your time. That would be a no go for me. The second thing is if she is not happy, with your sheets tell her she can sleep on the floor, or the couch. This sounds harsh if you don’t setup boundaries early you will get walked over. I can tell by your post you are considerate, but she doesn’t seem the same, another deal breaker.

I’m not saying don’t bang her a few times, she just doesn’t sound like dating material.

If you want to date her give her the test and find out. This has never failed me.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qyj2VNVB8qk

Good luck

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I mean, I don’t want to get into the pattern of making excuses for her (because I’ve done that with girls in the past), BUT there are a lot of factors:

  1. She has to drive 45 minutes
  2. She has a child

So if she alerts me she’s going to be a bit late, I give her some time. She is always profusely sorry.

As for the sheets, she just asked. I think it was a test: “are you sleeping with other women?” I said, “you have nothing to worry about” and that was that.

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I understand, I dated a woman with a kid and she had to drive. If a woman wants to spend time with you, she will leave 15 minutes early to be on time. I understand being late once in a while, but if this turns into a pattern, red flag. I also think if she is seeing other guys she really has no business asking about your sheets. These seem like small and trivial issues, from my experience, small issues are usually hiding bigger ones.