new readers:
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“jfg” is “just friends girl,” a girl i’m just friends with.
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“A” is her friend, we have taken a slight liking to each other.
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snoopy’s mix is a custom blend of androstenone, p95, tal, and tac, made by snoopyace here on the forums and abbreviated as “sm.” the best emoticon to describe it is
in short, i know what A’s bed looks like (but not how it feels; let’s take it easy here 
) because as they usually do, pheros came out to surprise me.
final mix for last night:
1s sm neck
1s p96 25mcg neck
.5s p96 12.5mcg split forearms (i found out the wine tasting wasn’t terribly formal so i wore a long sleeved shirt with the sleeves rolled up nicely)
1d a314 r24 p90e
creed aventus cover
lots of hits to cover so i’ll just skim through the story parts.
pick jfg up and start the 20 minute drive to the restaurant. casual chatting all the way.
hit #1: jfg picked up my ipod and started changing songs. this was a bit out of place since i keep it on shuffle and she’s always been a fan of the songs. i guess last night she really wanted to hear specific songs at specific times. the ipod is in my center console where i usually rest my arm while driving. she was resting her elbow on the other side and when she wanted to grab the ipod, she would rotate her arm so that it was parallel to and touching mine, then brush my hand as she selected songs. unusually high amount of kino.
overall phero hit: we had a very deep conversation about past relationships and other related topics. i think my long term use of pheros helped her feel like she could trust me and really open to me, and the addition of a314 last night put that over the top. genuine conversation, really nice.
we get to the restaurant. the wine tasting was set up so that you sit at a table with a few other people and different wines are brought to you. lo and behold we see two people we mutually met from earlier in the summer. we all sit together at the table.
hit #2: high respect and status. the waiter came around to take orders from a menu of complimentary accompaniments (cheese, fruit, etc) and everyone looked to me to order. while we were tasting, everyone (jfg included) asked about me, what i was up to, current social life, basically really wanted to hear what i had to say.
the wine tasting wraps up and jfg and i part ways with the other guys. our next stop was one of the local “thursday night” bars. on the way there jfg got a text from A that she was planning on going there too. great, i thought, more testing for me. (i would later get more than i bargained for) i only hoped my mix hadn’t worn off yet.
the bulk of my hits from this mix are with A so first a little backstory and then hits in chronological bullet form.
backstory: as a recap, the first time i met A was right before going to a house party with her. something that wasn’t mentioned in that report was that when we walked in to the house party, a guy came up to her and immediately started hitting on her. all night this guy would just follow her around except for when she was talking to me. i had a couple of chats with my roommate and jfg and we figured he thought he was cool for hitting on the girl that i brought. no big deal; i had no reason to get mad because i had only known A for about an hour longer than that guy. let’s call him “G” for this report.
hits:
- what are the chances? A walks over to where jfg and i are standing and she has G in tow. immediately i give G a big smile and shake his hand firmly. i found out later that this elevated my respect level greatly in the eyes of A. she knew that everyone thought it was weird G hit on her immediately at the party, even after a few rejections. further, a communication break somewhere resulted in her thinking i wasn’t going to be at the bar, so she brought G. she had seen me and jfg standing and actually circled the bar a few times deciding whether or not she should bring G over, assuming that i didn’t like him (technically i’m not a fan of him, but whatever). we chatted late into the night as you’ll see in later hits and she told me that she thought it was very “better man” of me to make the first move and properly introduce myself to G, and put whatever differences we had aside for the sake of having a good time at the bar.
- not really a hit but A went to hug jfg as i was shaking hands with G, and when all was done and we took to our barstools, i ended up between A and G and nobody really thought to move. i had the drink menu so they both leaned in to look at it. A was pretty darn close. i started talking with my hands a lot to spread the mix - i was determined to get it to her one way or another.
- drinks come and we’re all chatting when i notice A is just kinda staring at me. i turn to her and she kinda raises her arms (as if she wanted a hug) then quickly drops them and says “well… can i get a hello?” without hesitating, i face her and give her a big hug, making sure to raise my head slightly so she could get some of the mix on my neck, and say “hello!” out loud. as i hug her, i whisper “it’s good to see you again” in her ear, out of G’s earshot. when we both pulled back, she had the biggest smile on her face. her hand also stayed on my side just a little too long…
- …so long, in fact, that i excused myself to the restroom knowing full well they would do a two-step shuffle and switch seats to be next to each other. all the better - she brought G and it’s only fair that they hang out without my interference. i had made my move and the ball was in A’s court now.
- with the presence of another girl, and alcohol, jfg gets a little more flirty with me. i chose to stand when i got back from the restroom so i could maneuver between jfg and A. as i talked to jfg, i would keep my hand on her lower back. she didn’t mind at all. also, her playful slaps weren’t aimed at my arm like usual but rather at my thigh.
- i started kino with A slowly by leaning towards her while i talked in her ear. next step was a light touch-and-go on her lower back while talking, and after no negative reaction to any of that, i ended up just keeping my hand on her lower back (same as jfg) while i talked to her. a bit of a good reaction to this - she would also lean back into me to hear me. i’m getting better at this kino stuff.
- when jfg and A took restroom breaks together, i would casually bond with G. more status points in A’s eyes. in getting to know him he’s not a bad guy, just rather cocky and forward with hitting on girls. to each his own, and A hadn’t left him yet, so he must’ve been doing ok.
- had a side discussion with A about me and jfg. she thought that we were an item. i said no, we started out as friends and that’s all we are. this was more of a confirmation for A to proceed with flirting. right about at this time was when she kinda gave up on G too.
- a bar table opened up so we headed over to grab it. jfg was busy texting one of the guys she’s interested in so she was pretty much out of the conversation. G grabs the stool nearest the wall, A next to him, me kinda at the corner of the table, jfg at the other corner. i swiveled my bar stool to face A and i rested my feet on her stool’s footrest. quickly our legs found each other, and they stayed there a good while. at one point A’s legs were crossed and i had my foot in the little space between her legs (hard to explain) and our legs touched like that. very sexual.
last stop of the night was “home.” jfg and A live in apartment complexes about 5 minutes away, walking. it was assumed that i would drop jfg off and G would take A and try his chances. on the way home, jfg gets a call from a friend who had just moved into the same complex as her, but a different building. he was doing a little welcome party and invited her. i said i could drop her off there and hang out for a bit. she called A and soon we were all headed there.
at the party, there’s a bunch of people jfg hadn’t seen in a long time. she gets riled up to see everyone and of course, everyone wants to drink with her like old times so she gets pretty drunk pretty fast. in the span of no more than 20 minutes, she went from being slightly tipsy to stumbling all over. i got to know her friend who was hosting the party and he reassured me that he and all of jfg’s friends that were there would take care of her if she needed to crash. to no surprise, she passed out and i made sure she was comfy on a spare bed. then i turned my attention to A.
the hits resume.
- while i’m taking care of jfg, A tells me that she is going home with G. (at least that’s what i heard, and you’ll see in a second that’s not what she said) she tells me to put her number in my phone so that in case she forgets the apartment number or building, she can call me and i’ll direct her back to the party. i thought, “ok, but you’re just going home with G - why do you need to come back?” i put her number in my phone without saying anything. i consider this a relative hit because a number was given/offered to me.
- jfg is mumbling in her drunken sleep and i’m just standing around making sure she’s ok when i get a call from A, not even a minute after she left. i pick up and she asks “hey, is it apt # 121 or 122?” in this particular building, odd numbers were on one side and evens on the other. i tell her to hang on as i go outside and try to find her. we both find each other and walk back to the party. G wasn’t with her so i joke and say “wow, that was quick.” (as in she and him already got it on and now she’s coming back in under two minutes) she laughs, playfully slaps me, and tells me that she just walked G to his car - originally, before she left, she had actually said that she was “making” G go home (not “taking” him home as i had thought she said). phone number obtained and clear sailing for the rest of the night, so it was game on.
- A sits by jfg and smooths her clothes and collects her purse and phone while she sleeps. she kept saying to me “oh my goodness, i’ve never seen her like this, is she going to be ok?, is she ok sleeping here? etc” i give her reassuring answers and out of nowhere, like a force that came over me, i just place my hand on her shoulder and gently squeeze/massage as i stand behind her. she responds very positively by resting her body against my leg/thigh, and i’m just there massaging away like an idiot.
- the rest of the party found out that i can make some good drinks so they asked me to come over and teach them some drinks. as i’m “tending bar” and A is sitting with jfg, we flirt through text for a while. every time i looked at her, she had a naughty grin on her face.
A and i were a little too sober for the party so after a while we decided to leave. my car was parked right in front and it would’ve been an ultra short drive but since the ball was in my court now, i said “hey, it’s a nice night - how about i walk you back to your place?” A said sure; i think she was already expecting to walk with me.
the hits keep on keeping on…
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lots of non-accidental bumping and touching on the walk back
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good bonding too
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got invited to go up and check out her place
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interesting because this is farther than G got.
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talked until the wee hours of the morning about everything. she really wanted me to stay over (“it’s so late, are you sure you want to drive back now?”) but i didn’t push it. i figured things would come along in due time.
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she walked me out of her complex to the parking lot. i slowed a little behind her as she was describing how to get back on the main road. as soon as she stopped in front of my car and turned around to face me, i already had my arms outstretched and gave her a tight hug by putting my arms around her shoulders (as opposed to on her waist) in more of a “protective” or “caring” gesture vs. slightly sexual with hands on the waist. she was pleasantly taken by surprise and wrapped her arms around my waist. she was a bit flustered as we said our goodbyes.
editor’s note: i had this report ready to post on friday 10.1 around 8p. right around that time, A texts me and asks me what i’m doing for the night. i had nothing planned and turns out she had nothing planned either. we text for a bit in a roundabout manner until it was pretty obvious that we should hang out. we made plans for later that night.
not even 24 hours after dropping a smooth mix on her, i had a chance to try a mix solo with her. since we made plans late, everywhere was either closing or already doing last call. i planned to walk around a strip of bars and people watch, or drive around the city and chat in the car. both of those situations meant close constant contact with a mix. i had to plan carefully.
the mix for friday night
1s sm split hands
1s p96 25mcg neck
1s ih split forearms
1d a314 r24 p90e neck
creed aventus cover
same mix as thursday night but a lower dose of p96 and addition of ih to help my cause.
the big differences here are twofold: one, we’re alone. she doesn’t have to worry about G, i don’t have to “feel bad” for hitting on jfg’s friend in front of her. two, there’s less alcohol. it’s easy to get plastered and go about it that way, but i think then you lose some of the major elements of pheros. this was a good chance to test a formidable mix in an honest situation.
contrary to the report above, this one will read like a story since it’s fresher in mind and i want to get all the details out.
my A+ night with A
waited for her in the front lawn of her complex and we walked to my car together. after a few steps she said “wow, you smell really good.” she carries herself well and i feel the classy creed scent is a big boost for the pheros. i play off the compliment and we drive away.
first planned stop was a small bar that i know of which has cozy lounge seating. i figured we could grab a drink and sit around, get to know each other. i drive by and it’s closed for the night. luckily, it’s attached to a strip of bigger bars that’s attached to a small shopping center of boutique stores. we head over there to go walk around.
as we walk, window shop, and people watch, i notice all the classic signs of ioi. hair flips, lowered eyes, body language, and the ever-popular bumping into me. i take this one step further by telling her that every time she bumped into me, i would grab her nose - blatant attempt to get sm in front of her, and it worked.
editor’s note: as i was spreading the mix, i also caught some scents. snoopy’s mix, even though it comes in neroli, has a green mossy scent. this is the same scent i smell in mx315, which was a free gift from i think the raw power test pack. assuming it’s not a dud (it didn’t work much for me) i think i discern androstenone as green and mossy.
next thing i notice is that the conversation gets very sexual. this is surprising because as you’ll find out in a later paragraph, apparently A is not very sexual at all. regardless, and not knowing this yet, we talked about sexual positions, fantasies, attraction factors, etc. it might’ve been the androstenone or flirting or both that led to such a sexually-charged conversation.
people were coming out of the bars and we wanted to beat traffic so we took off. from that group of bars, it’s a 10 minute drive to my house. i turned it into 25 by taking the long way. during this time, we had a deep conversation about getting to know each other (with sexual stuff mixed in). this is the conversation i anticipated us having at the bar with lounge seats. i think it worked out better in the car because the music volume could be controlled and we were cozy sitting next to each other, the hum of the engine and bright night stars being our background entertainment.
in this conversation, i learned that A is not actually a highly sexual girl. i believe her, but i still need to confirm this with her friends. according to her, she’s had one sexual partner. they were each other’s first and apparently it was really bad, and she never really had the urge to try it again. on top of that, she believes that people should really get to know each other before having sex; specifically, not until at least the 2nd month of dating, she said. before leaving for the night i had packed protection in my jacket pocket because it was uncertain where i would end up. after hearing this, i knew i could return it to my drawer.
shocker, right? here’s this girl holding a conversation with me about all sorts of sexual things and yet she’s not done any of it. she says she learns through stories with girlfriends, talking to guy friends, and reading whatever cosmo publishes. she’s also run the bases (kissing, touching, oral sex) but has never hit the proverbial “home run.” i respect that. i also had to change my game plan for the night. usually when two people make plans late at night, it’s for one main reason. tonight was going to be different. i had to really call on p96 to work the comfort angle, not necessarily because i was hoping to get lucky, but because i wanted to establish a good baseline relationship.
i pour a light drink for us when we got back, and throughout the night we just had one more. again as i anticipated, the night was light on alcohol. she’s seen my kitchen and living room; tonight she wanted a tour of the rest of the place. i read between the lines and figured she wanted to see where she was sleeping tonight (my room) and sure enough, that’s what she wanted. she paid no attention to me showing off my roommate’s room. as soon as i turned on the lights to my room, she walked in and started looking around.
i was a little unsure about how to proceed at this point. if she wasn’t sexually reserved, i might’ve joked with something like “and this is where you can crash tonight, with me.” that might’ve been ok with her but i didn’t want to be too forward and seem like a horndog. all through the night i had second guesses about everything - kino, kiss her or not, cuddle or not - and i always played it safe; i think while it wasn’t all that much fun, it did build bridges to future meetings.
typical chatting over drinks. the first time we sat down, i sat in the middle of the couch and she leaned up against the armrest. after getting up and making drinks again, she sat in her old spot and i sat close to her with our arms and legs slightly touching. she sat up straight this time and near the end of her drink, leaned slightly in towards me. then came the big fork in the road. our eyes got droopy, conversation slowed, and it was time for bed.
i first said that she should get to bed and she replied that i probably wasn’t good to drive. i wasn’t, but i think she needed confirmation that she was staying over instead of just assuming. i said i wasn’t planning on driving and that she could crash at my place. fork #1 maneuvered. second fork was where: couch or my bed? she originally didn’t really want to move from the couch so i went to grab a pillow and blanket (again, playing it safe). as i returned, she was standing and asking if i had an extra blanket. i think she was hoping i didn’t, and that the only choice was to share a bed and blanket. i brought it out and she got cozy, and then came the third fork: actually let her sleep out on the couch when there’s a perfectly good bed and bed partner waiting, or try to convince her to share a bed with me without seeming creepy? this is where i took my biggest chance and didn’t play it safe. i could’ve easily just said “ok, good night” and walked away, but i stayed and hung around to talk more. i don’t think i could’ve lived it down if a pretty girl came over willingly to hang out with me and she ended up on the couch while i ended up alone in bed.
she was also in no mood to be on the couch. she kept alluding to how comfortable my bed looks, how it might get cold alone outside in the living room, etc. long story short, i said “well, just come join me” a few times and eventually she agreed. i change, she changes, and we hop into bed.
from here until the morning, it was basically a g-rated movie. a little bit of tickling and playful slaps, a few attempts at rolling each other off the bed. let’s break it down:
- cuddling: a few times while we were wrestling, my arm was under her head and her butt and backside were tucked up into me. we could’ve easily laid to rest in this position. unlike the paragraph above where i took my biggest chance, this is where i played it the most safe. each time, i “wrestled” myself out of that position and we just rolled over separately. i slightly wonder what would’ve happened if i didn’t do this (kissing, touching, basically everything below and after that) but i hope she can respect me for starting slow. again, i only have her word that she’s not a sexual person, and i’m going solely off that.
- kissing: because there was no cuddling, it was hard to get a kiss in. suddenly springing in for a kiss as i’ve done with some other girls would’ve just been awkward. she did ask for mouthwash and again i wonder what would’ve happened, but it’s water under the bridge now.
- sexual touching: she did not make any attempts to touch me sexually so largely i returned that respect. a few times during tickle fights, i would tickle her kneecap and then run my fingers slowly up her inner thigh. she didn’t mind, as in she didn’t brush my hand away, but she was ticklish and it didn’t elicit a sexual response. this was a big moot point; as awkward as it would’ve been to kiss without cuddling, it would’ve been more awkward to touch sexually with kissing or cuddling.
as we slept, our bodies touched occasionally. it was a bit more than just needing a place to sleep, but still a very slow start. in the morning she showered and i took her home. (snoopy: it went well, and it went only ok; it’s all relative 
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since everything was closed last night, we kinda made plans to hang out again earlier tonight. this could easily turn into a three-night report; i figured i should get the first two nights up before i forget. if we do hang out and it becomes obvious that we are staying together again, i will step it up a little bit. i at least want to cuddle; we’ve bumped into and touched each other enough to basically already be cuddling. kissing would be nice too, maybe a few soft kisses on her neck while cuddling to start. i like kissing. the hardest part and the thing i’m least worried about is the sexual touching. if it gets there i’ll deal with it then, but for now she’s running the pace on that one.
conclusion
- sm is sexual. every test i run comes to this conclusion.
- snoopy, and others wondering about adding p96 to this: <= 25mcg will do the trick. i don’t notice much difference between 1s at 25mcg and 1.5s at 37.5mcg, and if it’s too strong of a half spray it’s pretty much like getting another full spray anyway, so it’s more efficient to round down to 1s / 25mcg. that’s my personal sweet spot for my circumstances; a lower dosage would be a good baseline and from there you can add as necessary.
- i think sm gets better the more you know a girl. it’s rather forward and may be a bit strong for a first or second date. when it comes time for sex and you need something to push her over the edge, sm plus a softener like p96 will be the magic trick. as you progress into more sex, a blast of sm by itself seems to amp up the vibe even more.
- testing p96 is bittersweet. it works so well that i hate to use it on everyday tests. i’ve heard of the “big four” putatives - p74, p79, p83, p86 - and i think if there’s not already a “big five,” then p96 should be the fifth member of that group. if you wore all five at once, girls would probably combust upon your touch.
hopefully i have more to report at some point down the line. this seems like it could be an interesting endeavor.
) even on a girl that might be more shy when it comes to intimacy.
well duh, so i wrapped my arms around her shoulders and asked if that was warmer. she said yes and we stood like that for a while.
when i came back to bed it was snugly on. good news is that her top remained off. this allowed for much skin on skin contact throughout the night.