So i went out with some friends yesterday to the club and now one of the girls tell me there was a girl the last time we went out that seemed to like me, if only i remembered what i was wearing, it probebly was 2 sprays of ammo tough
same thing as i was wearing yesterdayevening, and i did notice one of the girls started asking questions what my type was, and if she would be my type and stuff
so its a
HIT
and me having the impression that girl didnt like me the last time lol
Unfortunatly pheros won’t help us understand women!
Try buying a solid book on interpreting body language, it’s something us guys are naturally disadvantaged in. Even if you don’t like reading, you will still be very interested by it. Gl with the girl though
This is very common, Humans are great at masking, we hide how we truly feel depending on the situation. This is why learning to read body language is important. Body language comes from the subconscious mind. People may be masking and not even realize the signals they are giving out.
I often have people come up to me a few days to weeks after I have exposed them to pheromones and say something. Especially people from work. They hold back in that environment even though we are a pretty open group. Then I go to a party with these same people and they will say things that indicate they were being effected the whole time and I didn’t know.
And I gotta step in and say I agree with how important it is to recognize body language too! There have been more times than I could count that I’ve been sitting next to and talking to a girl in a night club, and her not saying anything or acting in any kind of obvious way to show even a remote interest. However, she would be doing things like reaching up to play with her hair when she would talk to or look at me, adjusting her top, slightly shifting her weight toward me, glancing over a tme then turning her eyes down when I’d look at her. And the list goes on.
Best way to get a clear body language indicator is with KINO. Reach out and put your hand on her shoulder as you’re talking to her. Or, one of my favorites is to take my thumb and forefinger and reach up to her cheeks and push upward and say smile. If she’s into you she’sprobably gonna let you do it and will smile. If shes not into you, you’re probably gonna see her pull back, turn her head or do something else to keep you from touching her. Of course you have to make sure that she sees it coming and you’re not catching her off guard, otherwise she’s probably gonna reflexively pull back reagardless.
Reading about body language is good for making yourself more open and therefore more congrugent. When I became aware of body language I was amazed at how me and the majority of other men have closed defensive positions, things like: Holding a drink up, crossed arms, hands in pockets etc. The most confident body postures are the ones you feel most vunerable (hands by your sides). Vunerable = open = confident.
When you start looking for IOI’s in female body language make sure you do it subtly. No putting your head under the table to see if her feet are pointed at you .
It’s just about touching a girl. Not in intimate positions. Just tapping a hand in conversations, hugging, playing with her hair, grazing leg etc. It’s really helpfull because it helps you both get use to touching each other, if you don’t use kino the first move will be akward because you haven’t established any friendly touching before that.
Kino is short for Kinesthetic approach (physical touching). Usually of a sexual nature, to get a woman in a state of approval and arousal. Touching and stroking the side of her arm, her elbows, stroking her hair, cheeks, stroking her hand or wrist, etc.
They have all sorts of influences they use like cave manning, PUA tactics ect ect
Women are born with the skill, just watch any 2 to 5 year old girl manipulate their daddy. We really dont need the handbook
Wish i could buy these handbooks and read up on all these tactics… im not so sure i want to read a book about understanding body language while at home… last thing i need is my wife reading it and having 1 more weapon in her vast arsenal…