Well, I have tested CTTM2 and Instant Shine for about a month, and AMMO for two days. I have a very stuck up school (and we get a lot of schools who call us that). It is very challenging and hard for an average guy to find a really cute girl at my school. I’m starting to theorize that the social barriers may overcome the pheromones.
There has got to be a way I can work AMMO, CTTM2, and Instant Shine to my advantage. Any thoughts on this? Or any reccomendations on how to combo the three?
From what I’ve read, and my limited experience using them, you have to work them. Just a tool in the box. You do the real work by being more outgoing and interesting. A lot easier said than done, especially if you are painfully shy around attractive women like I am. Really though, just start with making a point of saying hello, and smiling, to every woman you meet.
I would go heavy with the socials day to day at school. You might also want to consider investing in some IG for day to day at achool and using the ammo for evenings/weekends kinda thing.
Instant Gentleman, Cttm2 & Shine.
AndresteRone in IG makes them think higher of you, give you respect, and at the same time may give chicks a crushing feeling on you. As for Cttm2 and Shine you should already know how well they would fit in
Yep, that’s the cold, hard truth. If you were a hot chick looking for a smooth daddy-o, whom would you rather date, a well connected dude with a thick wallet and a beamer, or a nobody with a few zaps of Ammo? Pheromones ain’t gonna negate social structure, make you rich or famous or upgrade your wheels. What it does do is give you an edge by enhancing your existing assets. However earning and deploying those assets is totally up to you.
Its not really about money at our school much, its about jocks versus average joe. I’ve seen the average joe win sometimes, but its like a 7:3 jock to joe ratio.
Great, now I have to buy another product. What am I going to do? How can I make use of the current toolbox; it was hard enough getting AMMO, let alone trying to convince my dad to get instant gentleman.
Work with what you’ve got; AMMO has Androsterone (same main pheromone used in IG) as well, so it also is meant to give you respect although in a triad of effects. Sexual being the -none in AMMO, social being the Androstenol in AMMO, and respect being the Androsterone in AMMO. All to equal an all in one product; really you’re thinking too hard when it comes down to pheromones when all it may take is simply working with what you’ve got and mainly making yourself appear the way you want to be seen and treated. I mean when you purchase IG (if you do) chances are you’ll be back in the same boat with needing a different product if you don’t first handle and take care of your very own social status.
So how can I work with what I got? Some girls at my school will only make short small talk, and then sometimes ditch me. I’ve done almost everything; I got contacts, cleaned up, new clothes, braces are coming off soon. I’m changing the inside, but why is this social barrier standing in the way?
I think I should go to the mall and get girls from different schools. It seems so frustrating that I can’t get who I want at my own school.
I know the two are very different. In fact, I know that college and high school are very different. At college, girls just throw themselves at you if u put in some effort. If you put your best effort in high school, its up to the popular elite whether you’re in or out.
I know they are some very cute girls who I want to date. I don’t want to go through a cruddy high school career. I want to make the best of it. So far, I got the grades, I got the friends, but I’m missing the thing that I long for more than the first two, a girl (notice how i didnt say girls).
I don’t know why it should be a challenge in high school when girls will be more socially experienced during college.
Probably because in High School girls always want the “popular” guy/jock just to also make them seem like if they also “fit in” in the drama that is High School. In other words the “cute”/hot" trophy guy, to make other girls jealous by showing them their “trophy guy.” I’m guessing in College this isn’t necessarily the case as the High School drama is all left behind after prom and graduation, so they have no one else to prove with this kind of “drama” since College is a whole different game.
You know what they say about first impressions right? That supposedly they are what will show who you truly are? Well, maybe when you were at your worst this was their first impression of you. Now I like to not believe in first impressions, as I’d like to think that we should all have another chance but thing is a lot of people go by this. So I’m guessing no matter how much you change now, if they didn’t like you the first time attraction wise they won’t like you when you change (unless they had some like for you subconsciously.) And here pheromones won’t help, as obviously you can’t make no one like you unless they find you attractive in one way or another.
You may find it hard to believe now, but you won’t give a twit about anything that happened in HS in a couple years. Work hard and get your ass out of there. Take extra classes and graduate a year early. Don’t waste time obsessing about the silly social scene. You can’t win in such an artificial environment.
I recall going to my 20th HS reunion (happened to be in town visiting parents) and, damn, most of the jocks and popular girls were fat and/or bald and worked shitty jobs. The hot cheerleader that used to rag on me was a friggen cocktail waitress in a restaurant I visited…
Your concern about “social barriers” appears valid.
I remember worrying about it too in high school, and getting cynical and depressed thinking there was no way to win.
However, there will always be another way.
The first step would be to stop carrying what others think. The social barriers are in your mind. This is the truth!!! Get out there and play the game. Be willing to get hurt/embarrassed to get what you want. Don’t take anything seriously. Except for what you value.
I went to other high schools and had a lot more success with girls because there were no preconceptions about who I was.
As you learn more social skills and confront your social fears, realize that being social can play to your advantage. There are groups, teams, cliques, and lots of places to join in the fun.
About a year ago a client I worked for took me out for lunch in appreciation for me saving his ass - End up at a pretty fancy restaurant (mostly suits, I was easily the youngest there @ 24), turns out the waitress was one of the “cool girls” from highschool.
She’s polite, asks me how I’m doing then turns to the table and says “So what’s the big occasion for the fancy father-son lunch?”
My client laughs and replies “Not quite sweetheart - We’re here for the $200,000 in LD’s and $2,000,000 in lost orders this here guy saved me last week”
Let’s just say the expression on her face was priceless
High school is tough, but from experience, as soon as you make friends and become accepted by one or two of the popular girls, the others will follow suit and you’ll have a lot more opportunity. I only went to a co-ed school during the eighth and ninth grade, but at least that’s how it was for me. I was by no means cool or popular, but I made friends with a couple popular girls which resulted in me dating the hottest girl in school and then taking a popular girl to prom at my new school. And no, I did not use any pheromones at the time. Just be nice during class, lend them paper or pens if you see they forgot their’s, ask them how their day was, etc.
I wish I could help you with what pheromone to use, but I’m still a newb
But yeah once you realize that high school is really a 4 year game to be played, you’ll be relieved. You don’t have to impress ANYONE. Hell, even when you get out into the real world you still don’t. Not once in your life. Fact is, you live for you. That may sound selfish right now, but it’s as true as true ever gets. Even family isn’t guaranteed to stand by you. BUT what you do is, since you are living for you, make sure that you do give people reasons to stick with you. Show them your worth. This will in turn, make you happier as well as make you more successful socially.
After all, HS to me is just a short hallway to the REAL fun. College.