Hi read this thread
Its very important you understand the message of the story.
Then you will know which guy to choose.
(personally its number 2 you should go for)
Your confusing Lust with Love. Love takes time and is not always sexually motivated it can be personality, Lust is entirely sexual and it comes and goes, you may find the guy to be boring or an ass. then your stuck cos you just lost the best guy, cos you were not physically to him attracted. Besides why you thinking about sex. Be romantic with him, then when the right moment comes you will feel that you want to kiss him anyway.