Beware… MHarris’s warning about this is not to be taken lightly.
So now the novelty of having my own (high-quality) stalker 
has worn off, what can I do pheromonically to ease things back into a normal dating-type situation? 
She is a lovely girl but the intensiity is not something I am used to.
Now I am SOOOO fricking tempted…
To hell with dating, I want a harem of texaspete-obsessed nurses on call every hour of the day… So - what were you wearing with A314, or was it MX102?
Turn down the thermostat, of course. If she’s stalked you, she wants you. I’d try using a bit less A314 and replacing the rest with IFM. How much A314 did it take per dose to get her to stalk you?
HELL YEAH ! I want 10 females stalking me too. Huge confidence booster! What’s the dosage Pheroquirk?
NFS
I could be wrong, but I think it can not go back to normal ‘dating’ situation.
She has already associated with your current status, either she’ll have that, or not have it alltogether.
I wish I am wrong.
Okappa, PQuirk …
How old is the girl?
How long have you known her?
How much A314/MX102 have you been wearing to cause this?
What other mones have you been wearing around her with A314/MX102?
You ask fer it … you got it!
Thanks!
annnnnnnd … Good luck with your stalker! 
A314 is great for getting submissive women interested, too, as long as you don’t overdose and make them feel outclassed and unworthy to be in your magnificence. If you want a harem, you’ll need toattract hetero or bisexual women who don’t mind being one of many. They’re out there, but it takes some doing to find them. But still interested in more data on the stalker phenomenon.
I’ve heard though that wearing A314 will make the woman possessive/jealous (from Jasmin I do believe) so I do not know if the harem-type situation is likely to happen.
So PheroQuirk spill the beans on what kind of dosage/other products you were wearing as I would love to be stalked myself!
Visionary
Jealousy comes from desire to be exclusive in a lot of cases. It makes sense that a woman would want the man all to herself. But in a “harem” type thing, all the women know they don’t have him all to themselves. Jealousy would prevent a woman from getting into such a situation in the first place.
In today’s world, harems are never “likely to happen” in most places. It’s not going to be like you’re walking down the street and a harem appears. lol In this day and age, such things must be deliberately assembled. It’s not going to be easy and pheromones alone will not make it happen. Not even close.
I’ve had one before. My first semester of college.
3 girls. All mine…
…because nobody else wanted them.
But I currently work in what we affectionately call “The Baywatch E.R.”
Fricking unGODLY numbers of blonde RNs with stripper bodies and Phd minds. And most of them are very friendly, and also very nice to be around. Heck, one of the women I work closely with used to model for CK, and another is thinking of modeling for Victorias Secret.
THAT’s the kind of source material I’m creating my harem from this time around, kids.
To get an intelligent woman who knows she has options to agree to be part of a harem type situation voluntarily can only be done in three ways, and I’m not tellin’ ya how.
Hmmmm… money, great sex, and pheromones?
I’m not really giving this that much thought.
Feel free to enlighten us, oh great enlightened cat lord.
Sorry. That’s not going anywhere. lol
Bumpity
More commentary on the “A314 Stalker Effect”:
I have a friend in Atlanta who’s an animator at Cartoon Network. He’s not necessarily a super socially aware guy, or a ladies man or anything. Just a workaday Joe.
I sent him a bottle of A314 some months ago, and he’s been faithfully using it every day, 2-5 drops as directed, spread between the wrists and neck, just as suggested.
Like I said, he isn’t very “socially aware”, so when I ask about it he tells me he hasn’t really noticed a change.
(He says, though, that when he wears it while drawing, his wrists are so close to his face that he can feel its power consuming him. That is the reason why he continues to wear it.)
Then we wander onto different topics, and he reels me this story of this girl he’s been courting out here in California. She’s a screenwriter, and they met through the endless grapevine of movie industry “mutual friends”. They had a great creative/romantic rapport when they hadn’t met each other in real life and were strictly “phone/internet buddies”.
He continues to tell me the story about how they first met at a 5-day seminar. He ended up being uninterested in her romantically. He didn’t even kiss her that entire 5 days. She flies back to LA.
Now she won’t stop calling him. She’s trying to be his “sugar momma”! She’s offered to take him to India and London. She is constantly making plans to fly him out to LA, or fly out to Atlanta. She says that he can stay at her place and use her car when she’s at work. Basically, she’s throwing herself at his feet.
He totally doesn’t want a sugar momma and has no idea what to do about her frenzied approach to winning his affection.
He doesn’t quite know to attribute this to A314, but by the way she’s acting, I, as a woman who understands the nature of A314, KNOW that this is totally an A314 “side effect”. I know how clingy and POSESSIVE women get over “their” A314 men.
Pheroquirk, it sounds like you and my Cartoon Network pal have the same dilemma. Does anyone have any thoughts on this? :o
Hi
Sorry for the late response - been busy recently.
The girl,Y, is a friend of an associate - we are all in the same field though working for different people, and on occasion it’s a sociable industry so we were out drinking together with a bunch of other people. (8 guys and a couple of girls - she was the only single girl there).
I was wearing a full complement of pheros - in particular MX102 (4 sprays and it was a warm evening, old-skool MX101, P79, Ammunition, IH, IS, IG and P74. I think, by the way, that Tacitus is right about P74 reducing the tension between Gentleman and Shine, but I am not sure that it is entirely eliminated and can lead to unhelpful results when combined with large amounts of alcohol. I added some TuTH as the evening wore on).
Spent most of the evening chatting with pretty much everyone (except Y as it happened). People drifted off and I took the remnant to a cool club - unusual setting and not a bad crowd for a Friday night. Gets late; everyone drifts off home. She sort of forces me to share a cab with her and as she drops me off sends off intent ‘i want to be kissed vibes’. I have been ignoring the attraction signals earlier as it’s easier dating people outside the industry but in any event I do the gentlemanly thing, kiss her and take her number.
We both work in an industry where there are not that many girls and a concentration of high quality men (youngish, cosmopolitan, driven and some are moderately to very wealthy). Like the female equivalent of working for a model agency, perhaps. So the benchmark is not that low.
Meet up for drinks a couple of times after that (nothing of note happens) and then she has been out of town for a few weeks. Since then I have received one to two text messages a day, every day. She asked whether I missed her and tells me at least once each day that she enjoys my company and looks fwd to seeing me when she is back.
Whole thing is quite sweet really, a bit like what a guy might do when obsessed with a girl. I like her (she’s an accomplished girl, not bad-looking too) and feel flattered by the attention but still reluctant to date somebody too seriously who is in my field of work and not sure that I am ready to settle with one person for a bit (whereas I think she is). I have let her know that I like her but have been much more low key but the intensity on her side remains high…
(By the way there are two or three other girls that I met lately, to whom I have given only the smallest degree of encouragement, that are also pursuing me).
So, yes. Nothing quite this extreme, but my sense of the pattern of things is similar. Pretty extreme for me in the circumstances and handling with care. What if it goes wrong? Hell hath no fury…
I am not yet very experienced at managing multiple long term relationships. But if building a ‘harem’, I think best let them know the score first. I think a girl will settle for a time share of Mr A314 rather than have nothing provided she didn’t think originally that she stood a good chance of having the whole thing to herself.
late 20s. Met her the first time a couple months ago but never really talked to her. So known her a couple of weeks now really. 4 sprays MX102 on a hot evening. See above for rest of the mix (but I would bet that MX102+ old skool MX101 were the key components, with 102 driving the obsession).
Be careful what you wish for … The intensity gets hard to manage real quickly, particularly if you are an introvert and need time on your own away from people now and then.
I actually tend to associate A314 with the word ‘relationship’, not ‘harem’.
Jasmin wrote
"I know how clingy and POSESSIVE women get over “their” A314 men. "
Would someone like that share ?
From your description, it seems you are seen as a relationship prospect. If that is not your purpose, then a change is probably in order.
Maybe time for some Anone or Anone+cops (I don’t use cops, but from others’ feedback) for some balancing vibe.
I wouldn’t associate A314 with “harem” either. At all. A314 is magnetic to specific personality types, so your choice of “relationship” as a description is a good one, Mak.
Yeah, the only harem you’re going to get with A314 is in different cities. Never the twain shall meet! 
LMAO, OMG, I had no idea that A314 would give me this Stalker Effect. It has happened to me, and right now, I am beginning to see the obsessive-possessive charcteristics in this “MILF” I’m talk to as stated in several other posts. She has come in to work early on certain occassions, in which she never did before I started talking to her while wearing A314. She has left the building where I work to my knowledge, and then suddenly “reappear” for no other known reasons. One time I was looking at another female co-worker as men normally do, and a falsh of jealously overcame her. lol. She has slammed bundles of papers whenever I ignore her (unintentionally), and has gone out of her way to saying ‘hello’ to me whenever I’m doing something more important. The other night, I saw her Escalade parked outside of the building when everybody else was gone. That had me like . I didn’t bother to check to see if she was sitting in there, though. So, who knows… she did tell me that she only had 2 hours sleep the night prior, which was when I saw her SUV parked in the front of the building. She could have went out with somebody else from the center, but I don’t think so given that it was 5 am, and she has 4 kids to attend to before they head off to school, which made me even more
There does seem to be indicators of obsessive-possessive traits in her, but then again, I could be just skewing this out of proportion. It is starting to make me think twice, though, now that Pheroquirk, and others on this board have experienced the “Stalker Effect.” LMAO. This is crazy.