Being a member of the pick up artist community, I’ve learned a lot of interesting and really, REALLY weird things.
Perhaps one of the strangest, was from a buddy who said that having sex before you go out to clubs or bars or anywhere social in general where sexual tension is high, will greatly improve your chances of attracting women. Why? Pheromones…
He told me that right before they’d have sex, he would shower and really clean himself. This would render his body free of any dirt, sweat or his cologne. First, he said that during foreplay, he’d get her to orgasm via fingering. Then once she came, he would discretely rub his fingers over his neck and chest…yes…spreading a small amount of her ejaculatory fluids around his body. Then after sex, he would wash his face and body from the stomach/mid-back down to remove sweat, leaving his chest and neck still retaining traces of sweat and her fluids. Yes, on purpose.
Then he would go out, meet women and have tremendous success.
I think that there are two reasons why this worked for him.
(1) Nothing to do with pheromones: Having sex before going out provides both emotional and sexual stress releases. You unwind, relax and chill. You won’t have sex on your mind as much/as a goal when you meet women and they will be able to pick up on this. Women can sense your intentions. The key is to genuinely not be, or come off as ‘just another guy who wants some’.
(2) Pheromones Galore: During sex, your body will absorb her sweat, perfume and pheromones. Studies show that sex pheromones are released in large quantities during sexual arousal, foreplay and intercourse. Other women will pick up on both your and her pheromones and it will give off a subconscious message that you are of value since another woman chose you to mate with.
I don’t see this ‘method’ as being a good idea in any way since it isn’t practical, proven and why bother if you already have a girl you’re seeing. I’m not certain of the science behind this method, but it does make some sense. I know my gf will be more than game to test this out with me and see how women react. She’s such a good sport ![]()
Thoughts?