i have gay friends that would not dream of leading someone on…
and
if there is a special connection between you both and he happens to be gay, he will feel very comfortable letting you know he is gay from the start.
i could be wrong,
but i know guys that see a twinkle in gals eye and stomp that fire right out -
especially if they want to stay friends.
we could both be wrong and he could be bi.
one of the hottest men i know is bi ( he’s freaking gorgeous and doesnt act like he knows it) but doesnt hide it for a second.
It’s the lasting effect I am going after. The real change of paradigm that seems to be much more significant than other phero experiences. It seems fundamental, a sea change within me at the high doses, whereas the other pheros are superficial augmentations, in comparison.
i will post in my journal what i will be applying BEFORE i get to work,
and tonight when i come back i will post how it went
and if i added more of anything…
I have no “spark” in my eyes with this one. He’s nice, fun, and yes, attractive, but nothing that grabs at me. It would have to grow and develop, over time. I will be approaching hesitantly and w/out spark.
I hope I get some overt “Gay” or “Not Gay” signal quick-like.
I love bi guys. Sadly, I am not one of the girls that gay men love to befriend. Too much of a “guy.” sigh
I am flummoxed as to why I am suddenly surrounded by Medics… my crushes, and now other people crushing on me… all Medics!
Medic McSteamy Muscles
Medic McRainbow Abs
Super Hunky SAR Dude
Flight Medic McAwesome Rappeller
I’m just kind of skimming over everything at the moment. I can’t read too well… since I got my eyes dilated today for my annual eye exam. ADD + dilated eyes = massive stimulation overload. I can hardly sit still. I had to ask my husband to please, stop talking because the extra stimulation of sound was driving me nuts.
Even the sound of my own typing is driving me crazy.
LOL. Good advice from someone who obviously knows. I second that piece of advice. Enjoy the attention, and let it play itself out. You will get a sense of which direction to go.
19 mcg is correct for the old formula of A314 when it had 9 mones in it. The current batch has 17 total mones and that mcg is no longer correct. The total mone content is not correct in the store and they have not chosen to announce the mone content so I cant comment on how much is there.
IG is a mix of 2 human mones at 15 total mcg per spray. At the normal mixing ratios I would say its has about 12.5 mcg of arone in it.
I think it has been stated that Instant Gentleman doesn’t contain Androstenone. But most of the formulations contain some small amount amount of TAF. If TAF is the other pheromone, that would make it 2.5 mcg/spray TAF. That sounds about right to me.
But I don’t know. That is just a guess. I’ve never tried Instant Gentleman.
I agree with Di, IG doesn’t have anone in it. I don’t think its TAF either although they do use TAF in quite a few of the larger molecule mixes. I would go with one of the nols myself at 2.5 as Di suggested but that’s just the feeling I get from it. I have some physical issues with TAF that I haven’t reported on in the open forum cause I don’t want to scare people and because everyone reacts differently. So far they are isolated to me and a few others. I can usually tell if TAF is in something right away.
Thanks for responding. Always like it when you stop by. I am curious about the TAF effects you get. Would you be willing to post them here, or perhaps in a private PM? TAF is effecting me physically at varying doses as well.
So Medic McRainbow Abs Maybe-I’m-Gay-Maybe-I’m-Not has set us up with a quiet, intimate dinner, then drinks, then a small, intimate blues show at a great little live music venue here. He’s driving.
We haven’t mentioned “business” in quite a while…
Then, I get an email this evening, "just saying hi… " So we chat for an hour or so (I love a man who knows the value of a Crackberry!) and have already set up the second date/meeting… another awesome live music thing.
I am still confused. He was referred to as “one of the girls.” He looks like an Abercrombie & Fitch ad!
Okay, what do I wear?
Clothes - mock neck 3/4 sleeve top w/black pencil skirt, and to-die-for high heels.
Pheros - ??? I met this man wearing a heavy cops/IS/a work formula… but I don’t want to wear IS/a. I am debating between using TAH or MX135 as the base for a layered mix… I am leaning towards MX135.
Then add what?
p74
p86
est?
cops!
betanol?
CTTM?
p91?
Suggestions and advice would be helpful. On all fronts.
