Hello Glidarn,
I was also recently divorced a few years ago and have been going out clubbing solo and only a couple of years older than you. 2s Ammo and 2s IO is your friend. Ammo just makes me want to prowl (socialize with the ladies 
). I recommend IO to IH initially to help you open up ladies, “shoot the shit”. After you get comfortable opening up ladies you can switch to say 1s IO + 1s IH. p75 (don’t care attitude), p96 (comfort), TAC (comfort), TUTH (sexual) and IJ are good club mixes if you are daring. Check out my personal rankings of various club mixes after I discovered AD a couple of years ago.
I hope this helps you. Good luck.
Consumer Line: AMMO, A314, Instant Shine, Instant Openness, Instant Honesty, Turn Up the heat, Instant Gentleman, Instant Jerk, Come Talk To Me Mix 2, A1
MX Series: MX297, MX301, MX330, Project UF, Project UF2, MX412
Putatives: P75, P78, P83, P86, P91, P93, P96, P114
Experimones: P74, P79, TAC