UF Test Pack - My Experiences

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports
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I had a bunch of reports to write up last week but I was busy holding down the fort. I have to let everyone know just how much I appreciate the members of the community. You guys and gals are why I love what I do and continue to do it. Other people can have attitudes and mental problems but its the forum members that I keep coming back for. I’ve seen so many people come and go and made so many friends. I have so many strong bonds here and appreciate that. Its tough in this life to sort through the users and the ones you can depend on. I’ve found some great people on here I can always depend on. Thanks for that.

I’m a firm believer you thank those you appreciate and who look after your interests. Life has a way of coming around and slapping you when you least expect it. Especially if you have no gratitude and are a user. Giving of yourself is one of life’s best experiences :slight_smile:.

So now back to my reporting:

MX392 2 sprays Saturday 2 weekends ago

This one is so much less stronger than MX391. I’ve mentioned it many times but I’m not really a scent guy, but I can deal with this a little. It’s not a bad scent, I just don’t like to wear colognes.

I went to a crawfish festival and I was meeting slap girl there. When I arrived she was with her daughters and there wasn’t a lot of opportunity to get anything done. I’m a man who believes you need to be respectful in front of young kids. Some people don’t care about their children, but J is definitely not one of those mommies. She did mention that I stunk like a French Man. LOL and here I thought I didn’t smell to much. I guess spraying it right when I got there was an issue. I didn’t want to spray it in the Jeep since I don’t want to funk it up.

There really wasn’t much going on there and I left after a short interval of being there. I decided I needed a break so I stayed in Saturday night and just relaxed and watched a movie.

I have one more report on two sprays to post, but I want to make it its own post. Give me a few minutes to get a drink of water and I’ll post it. You might want to check back because I had a very interesting result with it.

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An interesting observation wearing 2 sprays of MX392. I was meeting up with an old girlfriend so I thought I’d give the MX392 a go again. It was an outside venue, we were going to get some margaritas and catch up on some stuff. This is a girl who I have done so much for and always been there for her. When she hated a job, I found her one, when she needed money, I got her money, when anything happened I was always there to cover for her. She is a bit of a flake though and after a while there is only so much you can do to help someone before moving on. That’s how our relationship ended with me moving on. I think she really believed that she had the upper hand, but when the cards were down she figured it all out for herself that I was no longer there to help her.

I’m sure you all know someone like this right. She is really sweet on the surface and shows off this facade, but she can’t do anything for herself. She depends on others and look out if it interferes with her life. There was one time she just vanished for months and then out of nowhere she reappears thinking it would all go right back to normal. A long time ago, when I was a different person it would. Now that I am comfortable with who I am, I had had enough of her and so moved on. Like I said though, she wanted to catch up with some stuff (which basically means she wanted to use me for something again).

When we met up again it was the first time in a while that I had seen her and right away I could notice some changes. Either she had completely lost her looks or my tastes had completely changed. Of course I realized that as I grew confident with who I am, as I realized who she was, I could see through her and the ugliness was transparent. I had no connection with this person. I had no urge to want to have sex with her, I had nothing at all for her. Surprisingly I felt free from bonds that had kept me to her.

I’m a nice guy and that has hindered me throughout my life. I forgive people easily and while forgiving is important I need to remember when you forgive that does not mean that you should continue to associate with them. You need to just move on or you are enabling them to continue their path of hurt towards you, thereby creating your own path. I think it might have been Bob Procter who said you should forgive them as you move far away from them.

Yeah that lesson really did set in till this time when I had met her for a drink or two. I soon found out about all the things she needed for me to do. One of those was paying for her drinks :roll_eyes:, which I did do. I’m not sure how this relates to MX392 but in a very ALPHA like moment I sat back and listened contently to everything she had to say. Normally I would react in some way and either let her know it wasn’t going to happen and why, let her know of her selfishness. I could tell her of each time I have covered for her she never thanked me. I could just walk away, I could just say no, I could do a hundred things, but they would all be a reaction to her. Yeah even if I politely refused and wished her luck I would effectually be reacting to the state of frame that she set.

At the end of the meeting when she was done about how the world had done her wrong again. How everyone was indebted to her. How life wasn’t fair and she deserved so much better. Wha, wha wha, whining little bitch! Something took over me though and instead of reacting to anything she had just said, I calmly, politely forgave her in my reality for what she stood for, for everything she was and I picked up the bill and paid it. I put my sunglasses on and said well its been so nice to see you again. I got up to leave and she was like umm didn’t you hear what I just said? I replied that I did and I had confidence she would get through whatever she put her mind too. I walked off got in the Jeep and drove off into the sunset.

She was slack jawed and wide eyed because as I said, she was expecting a reaction to her. Regardless of of it was an ALPHA reaction or what, it was still a reaction to her. There was no reactions no acknowledgement on my part at all. The best reaction was no reaction. I’ve worked on this for years and while I always believed I pretty much gotten this area of my life somewhat under control this interaction changed everything. I realized that whatever I did in reaction to her was still a reaction. Somehow Bob Procter was blazing in my mind and I was forgiving as I walked away.

When psychology teaches us to non-react the secret is exactly that. We can completely ignore, completely forget, completely look away, completely do a myriad of actions but everyone of those actions is still a reaction. Rather yet we can simply live in our own reality and realize that what is occurring around us is very much a part of our reality. If we don’t like what we see, we change our reality. To summarize: I simply did not allow her into my reality. I was out for drinks with someone I was forgivng so I could move on and that’s exactly what happened.

Again not sure if this had anything to do with the mones, but she blew my phone up. After all I just left her without ever showing her anything. This has so many dimensions to it. First the txt’s were tame but I just didn’t let her in. Soon enough it was virtual porn and then it was messages on my phone about all the things she wanted to do and what I was doing to her. Think about that!