Hey man, my wife was the same. I was looking to fulfill my needs elsewhere, but my wife’s libido roared to life when I tried my pheremone mix. I wrote about it here: Raw Power, Ammo, Instant Shine 2x
From what I’ve read, Turn up the Heat should help you out, but be sure to add something like Instant Shine or Instant Openness. When Raw Power gets back in stock BUY IT! I think you’ll be surprised by your results when you try them out- if not with your wife then other women.