Hello everyone! I’m 29, female, and from Florida. Some people judge me to be shy, but I’m just quiet around new people until I’m comfortable. Then I can almost become too loud! I have been going through some rough changes in my life. I lost my best friend who died and also ended up losing my job. Consequently, I have also lost some of my confidence, including around men. I’ve been working to change my life back around, and am making progress bit by bit.
Months ago, I met a man with whom I developed a casual relationship. He’s told me about his past relationship behaviors. Trouble is, his relationship behaviors are awesome yet his casual relationship behaviors are lacking. I’m sure he would be an awesome boyfriend, but he doesn’t want a serious relationship at this time. His last girlfriend really did a number on him and hurt him badly. He is very giving, very considerate, very cuddly, and loving in relationships (based on things he said and my instinct). Yet no so much of any of those in a casual relationship.
I believe he does have feelings for me, and he has affirmed he is attracted to me. I would love for him to relax around me, treat me better, show more of this softer and affectionate side of himself to me. If he would act more crazy with desire and aggressive sexually, that would be great too. We’ve been intimate, but I’d like it to be more intense. Overall, our casual relationship has been more about him and his wants, and I’d like to have that become a more even, balanced one.
I’ve never tried pheromones before and am somewhat skeptical. I was just surfing the internet and stumbled upon pheromones and became curious. I found PheroTalk on Google when searching more info and was happy to read some about other users experiences. Upon searching, it seemed like maybe TAH would be best to try, but it’s out of stock.
Any recommendations would be appreciated! Thanks….
Welcome to the forum! lol, you’re like me! lol, I’m like that too, I’m soooo shy when I don’t know someone but when I do holy crap, I can’t shut up lol.
I’m so sorry about your best friend, and your job. Things happen, and I feel truly sorry for you (even though it’s not as helpful), hugs.
I suggest you try instant sexiness, it’s a definite confidence booster, when I wear instant sexiness A I feel super strong and when I wear instant sexiness B I feel all cutsy
Edit: Oh I forgot to mention! Check this thread out that I did a report on A break down of IS/A and IS/B, it might help you make a decision to get which one you want.
Have fun, and best of luck! I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you! xox
Welcome to the forum. TAH is good though I believe Instant Sexiness may be up your alley. You mentioned that you want him to be a bit more agressive, that means (in my terms) you have to appear more tasty. There are two versions out there: one more sexually confident persona and the other more submissive.
Though from a personal viewpoint, I have been hurt before and it will take some time for him to get out of it- something that pheros have no 100% hold of. I think the girls here in the forum can help you out a bit more on this.
Hi Julesfl, and welcome to the forum. I believe TAH is not only a standalone experimone product but also features in Instant Sexiness/B. Is that too out of stock? Oops, just looked at the Androtics site, yes it is. The women of the forum will know best when it should be out again; I believe there is enough demand for it.
Maybe you could try Instant Honesty - try out a to-go size to see if it is for you - and get a good line of communication going with your male friend. It is not “honesty” actually so much as it is intimate conversation. He should be more likely to express any feelings for you that he may have kept private so far. The women of the forum should be along soon to advise you about any possible alternatives to TAH or IS/B.
I am sorry about your losing your best friend. It can be harder then losing a family member in some instances. Bestfriends have a special bond with us.
I know quite a few things are out of stock, They are working on them and they will be back asap but there are products that are in stock that you can start out with and fit your needs.
IH would be a good start, Its a deep communication mix. It also brings a feeling of connection and closeness and this would benefit your relationship with your target guy.
P74 is another that could help, It comfortable and bonding. Happy and contented. All feelings that will help him trust and open up more with you.
Instant sexiness A is also good for general attraction and interest. It has a little bit of copulins in it so it gets the blood flowing in the right direction Its very confident and cant help you regain some of yours as well.
Ishine is uplifting joyous warm charismatic, just a fantastic mix for everything.
Its very confident and cant help you regain some of yours as well.