Hey Julesfl,
Welcome to the forum. TAH is good though I believe Instant Sexiness may be up your alley. You mentioned that you want him to be a bit more agressive, that means (in my terms) you have to appear more tasty. There are two versions out there: one more sexually confident persona and the other more submissive.
Though from a personal viewpoint, I have been hurt before and it will take some time for him to get out of it- something that pheros have no 100% hold of. I think the girls here in the forum can help you out a bit more on this.
Good luck!
Kai