Lol Yeah.. it’s actually the other half of what I do along with the hypnosis. It makes an interesting combination to say the least. I’ve been looking into making a “Domme” mix. I’ll let you girls know the results as soon as I start experimenting!
I second the Lust After Me forum!
Wahoooo! Can’t wait to read your posts. You must love your job.
Yep
I’m really loving this forum, everyone has been so welcoming and sweet. I’m just happy to be included in the fun!
***WOW! Did I ever luck out. 
Not only find a great group but to find a Sister Domme as well!!! More of us out there than most think and yet we seem to be quite(understandably so) elusive. I’ve found in the past most just assume the worst of me if it got out.
I’m excited to know there is another attempting to work things out as I am. I like and seem to do well with( in a prof area) heavy cops and heavy IS/A with a touch of MX135. I like the 5x cops LAme mix but am thinking for some uses even raising the bar to 20x. I also find the Instant Honesty great in getting thru those that feel blocked to their own deeper desires…finally, with a lil push from pheros, been gettin somewhere NOW!!
In personal life the TAH and LAMe 5x does wonders and the MX135 is truly great for that Rockstar or “Goddess” feeling. Makes me feel as good as I look for a change ..hehehehe!
I’m really getting excited now. I wonder how many of “us” have had the inspiration to try pheros in our “creative areas” 
Seems a no-brainer…dunno why I never thought before recently about it.
~M~
Man, where the heck can I find a job like that? Should I check the newspaper ads? 
I’m missing out on all the fun.
No kidding!
I used to have a friend who was a professional Domme in Chicago. She had “MASTER” tattooed across her back.
Man, I think I found my dream job!!! How to get started?
I know! I was hesitant to come out with it but your post actually inspired me to 
. People can have strange reactions when I tell them what I do… normally I test the waters by focusing on my hypnotherapy (which is both for “normal” topics like to stop smoking and for erotic/Domme sessions) and then if they are cool with that I let the bomb drop. I started Domming while I was in college for a Psych degree that focused on relationship/sexual counseling. I love it, finding out people’s desires and bringing them to life has a certain rewarding feeling. I’ve been wondering how many of us there are lurking, lifestyle or otherwise. My mentor used to spray pheromones before clients arrived, but I don’t know what kind it was.
I’d love to hear some of your experiences with that mix, it sounds wonderful! Instant Honesty would totally make sense and LAMe x5.. wow you must be a knock out! I was definately thinking IS/A and MX135. I haven’t ordered any LAMe yet, but I might try a different cop blend with those 2 and we can compare notes.
“I used to have a friend who was a professional Domme in Chicago. She had “MASTER” tattooed across her back”
Cool! Interesting tattoo.
I like the way this thread is going. If you ladies would like to share any advice with the rest of us on human nature, men’s secret desires, etc. please do!
Maybe we should have this thread moved to the lounge. I have a feeling we are going to get some great ideas!!!
Emerald & Myst. please tell us more!!! I for one am fascinated…
Uh Yeah, I second Phernoobs post…please do share
Hmm.. that could be rather interesting…
One of the things I’ve learned is that the outside of a person (job, gender, significant other, public behavior, etc.) can be completely misleading when it comes to internal fantasies and what truly turns someone on.
Ain’t it the truth.
I look like such a sweet little woman…lol …if they only knew…
Ditto, Bella. I’m always told how cute and innocent I look, and then people start finding things out about me. Boyfriends in particular are usually taken aback, and I’ve scared more than a couple off, I fear.
***SING IT SISTER!
That is the #1 lesson learned by anyone who is involved in someone else’s personal/private life. VERY rarely can you judge a book by it’s cover.
I , myself, actually started when I switched my studies in Psychology to studying Abnormal Psychology. I began an experiment/alternative form of employment when I started working as a phone sex operator at home. Not long and I was getting special requests and became a very popular girl I was taking notes, making great money and combining my job and school studies while not having a huge commute. My first 2 subs professionally(getting paid for the position of Mistress/Dominatrix) came from those calls after several years. When I quit the line, the owner begged me back and even now…MANY years later still have loyal customers calling and asking for me…well …HER
I believe EVERY person has DEEP desires and fantasies they keep hidden that can be brought out with the correct approach. It’s a very necessary release sometimes and can be quite cathartic in most cases.
Hmmm…this IS INDEED turning into an interesting thread
LoL I bet you were popular as a PSO! They must’ve been heartbroken when you left.
It’s so interesting that we both started in Psych I’m glad though, because too often I run across ProDommes who just do it for the money and they dont take into account the therapeutic aspects.
I couldn’t agree more about the deep desires and fantasies. I think sometimes people dont consciously know the depth of their own sexuality either. The help of someone else (like a Mistress or adept lover) can bring it to the surface. (maybe a little Instant Honesty could help too!)
Maybe you’re the one we should be asking for tips from Ariadne! It’s always the cute and innocent ones…
Wow! Again I am learning so much from you! I just re-read your posts and now am going in a different direction…
Mys - you talk about abnormal psych. Is it really abnormal? I had those classes too. Who decides what is normal? Freud? I work in that field now. Everything is mainstream. If five people have a fantasy or proclivity, 5,0000 people have it. I think it is great that there are people to help others express themselves!
***Phernoob asks:Mys - you talk about abnormal psych. Is it really abnormal?
NO,NO,NO…absolutely NOT!!
I was referring to my interest in the more ‘broken’ functions of the human brain and behaviors.Dysfunction if you will. In my 20’s I wanted to become a profiler and try to understand more about the ones that NO ONE understands. I’ve always had a questioning mind.What makes someone able to commit heinous acts I could never even dream up much less perform on another living thing…AND enjoy it? :(Those types of questions.
But my subsequent studies led me to what some may call ‘Deviant and/or sexually perverse’. Even “alternative” if you will.
I was lucky to live in a VERY ALTERNATIVE city with many clubs and groups designed around EVERY possible sexual/sensual interest. Seattle is THE most open-minded city next to San Francisco I have ever had the pleasure of living in. I miss home terribly…considering the nearest big city to me NOW…is Nashville sheesh 
.Culture shock indeed.
Anyhow, my affinity for and*** inquisitiveness*** led me through many experiences that only formed and fashioned a very strong and logical conviction that the more unusual a sex practice is in mainstream eyes…the more “normal” it truly may be behind closed doors. And truly, my experiences have proven that to be so.And surprising to me is the more ‘common’ ones that have a widespread feel.
We all have that tiny dark place that hides fantasies and desires that we are afraid no one will understand or will judge us as being bad, immoral,inpure, disgusting,unacceptable,etc. However, I believe that our brains are hard-wired the way they are for a reason. We have individual and societal morals, values, and judgments we put upon ourselves and those are sometimes unfairly put upon others’ as well.
Let he without sin cast the first stone. (I don’t believe in sin…but you get the point.)
Anyway, what turns us on individually varies as much as there are people on this planet. You are blessed if you find a soul you can connect with in that area…truly connect and share. And since that is so rare and difficult, people like Myself and our Ms. EmeraldNight , who understand the NEED to express who we are sexually is as HUMAN as things get in this lifetime. We provide a service most will never seek out, but those who do become more whole within themselves in my humble opinion. It is true for males equally as females, and equally as difficult for both sexes on the psyche to get to the place you ask for what you need.What you desire.
Sorry so long…I sometimes get on a run…LOL. I love that everyone here is so open and understanding about it…and curious
~M~
Wow! I loved reading your post. It’s great to hear about the other side of things. TN must be a huge culture shock (like where I live).
What you say about the judgement of others is true. I have found that some of the people I know that judge others most harshly seem to have the biggest secrets!
I admire what you do. You have to have a certain type of bravery and strength of character to cross the boundaries as you do!
This is so weird that’s what I wanted to do too! I found that I had a kind of understanding for people who no one else could understand.
I agree completely with the rest of your post too.. very well stated.