bro i was the nicest sweetest Pu$$y ever when i was 18. this is what happend. my ex wife in high school was dating some guy. she was with him for years. since freshman year of high school. then during the 3rd year of high school i went for her. i tried hard. this dude was better looking than me and more popular. i was the under dog. but i didnt let that stop me from what i want. nothing should stand in your way. and if something is in your way MOVE THAT SHIT out the way.
so i got the girl. people were shocked. but i got her and married her. our marriage unfortunatly didnt work out. we were to young and wanted different things. but it doesnt have to be you. i was definitely was in the same situation you were in. remember she was confused to between her old boy friend she loved and the new guy who have a lot to offer.
Bro listen carefully. you just said your self shes confused. thats where you come in. you have to LEAD her to the right “PATH”. which is the path to you. be more proactive on being a love interest. dont mind the old traditional ways she lives. thats all gravy. in fact thats even better. you can offer some things thats not traditional and FUN for her to experience. no matter what bro shes still a girl. old school new school doesnt matter. shes still open for excitment.
from my experience and what i think might be the problem is that when you bring up that you love her or something in that nature youre reminding her of what bothers her and what makes her comfortable. all that leads to stress she wants to avoid. remember the feeling when you had a bad report card or failed a test you have to show your parents? its something like that. SHE DOESNT WANT TO DEAL WITH IT.
soooo what you have to do is “sneak” into her heart. Dont talk about the feeling she knows you have for her unless SHE BRINGS IT UP. take her out. be flirty. get out of the friends zone. i was in the friend zone zone for 3 years and still got the girl. be agressive. try not to be much of a friend anymore but be a lover. some one who she can come to and trust as a MAN.
dont sell your self short. you can have that sex appeal for her. you just need to provide it. i cant stress enough flirt with her. respectfully of course. your going to be nervous, youre going to have doubts, youre going to be afraid to make a move because you tihnk shell get mad. try to fight the fear. she may want you to cross that friendship line to become her boyfriend.
some ways to flirt could be lets see, hug her. not like a friend hug but like a flirty, suave kind of hug. hug her waist/lower body not the upper body. be a little touchy feely with her or be playful. try to bring out some sexual tension with her. when the time is right youll know what to do. listen to your gut. if you feel a like therse something there that she might want you to do like kiss her chances are you may be right. its that you would be nervous.
Most importantly READ HER BODY LANGUAGE. Look closely and carefully. being that shes a traditional girl she doesnt want to act on anything. BUT IT DOESNT MEAN SHES DOESNT WANT YOU TO. remeber she doesnt want anything to be her fault cause she is confused and scared also. so take action. you make the move. YOU the one that kissed her, YOU the one that made the move. but SHE’S the one that invited it. make sure you read her body language i cant stress that enough. you might of missed something.
she might tell you somthing but could be saying something else. pay close attention. and remember this like i said earlyier be respectful. as always no means no but dont be afraid to take action. youll know when the time is right. the worse that could happen is she could just say im not ready or something in not nature if you try to move in for a kiss. give it a shot kid. you got it. and im pretty honest with my life any questions you have id be more than happy to answer.
