This is my first time logging in. I’m from California. I try to be a loving husband in my mid 50’s. The reason I’m here is to try and get the spark back into our relationship that menopause has taken away. I have suggested and even purchased HR creams and pills for her but she is uncomfortable taking any medications in any form.
I have tried a few (Honesty, Female Majic and Turn Up The Heat) with very, very little to no success from the one I intended it for. Any suggestions?
Nex time I post to the forum I will tell you about a few of my experiences using the pheromones.
I sympathize, I cam here for the same reasons. Menopause was not a part of it in my case, but the spark seemed to have fizzled. Pheromones can help, though, and I’m sorry to hear that you haven’t had great success yet.
Maybe if you’ll tell us about your experiences and dosage some of the phero masters here can advise you better.
A lot of older ladies seem to go for a smooth, cool phero as much or more than a -none based phero. Maybe try some Instant Gentleman, or A314. However, there are others with much more knowledge of men’s pheros than me. You’d do well to wait on their advice.
Glad you’re here. If you want to qualify for the $25 GC, tell us about your personality, interests, and what you hope pheromones can do for you. Click on the link in my signature block to read about how to qualify.
So you’re looking to add a sexual spark to your relationship I assume - You said you used IFM, TUTH and IH and only saw success outside of your marriage. What did you notice from your wife? Did she get agitated with TUTH on? Did IFM make her ignore you (or even IH)?
If you saw nothing at all from TUTH with her then I would argue you: 1) didn’t use enough around her 2) didn’t use it CONSISTENTLY enough around her.
What Moon said is right however, Instant Gentleman is typicallWay well liked by certain women - it could be that you have a 'rone lady and not a 'none lady.
You could also try a putative like P83… it could be related to her feeling like she has lost her sexuality from menopause - P83 is known for a disinhibitive effect that may help her get over herself and react to the 'none.
Hey CD, sorry to hear about your lack thereof, but don;t digress there are many things you can do. By speech and sentence structure I am guessing Caucasian and schooled, therefore you could play the A314 quite well.
Think of it like a good fit linen suit, it makes you feel warm and fuzzy, and gives off an air of respectable and well to do. Many high self esteem ladies find this very attractive and can “ignite” some passion.
Ammo is a product I have tried, I prefered MX275 from the test pack that was discontinued but, the store version works quite well.
Have you tried varying your dosage? Perhaps try one of the higher -none buffered mixes such as MX292, or get your lady a bit more touchy feely with some P86, and make her want to cuddle with P83 @30mcg.
If one product does not work well in your situation, fear not, some of us, albeit a bit younger have done some pretty crazy experimentation and it works quite well. I am sure that we can set you right by the square and have you standing tall by the level in no time.
(eh, fellas, I wouldn’t recomment Ps and MXs to a newbie - just a thought)
CD,
Just a suggestion:
Try something disgustingly BETA - like flowers and a love song - but work on your delivery - clean up nice, new shirt, peacock a little - make it strong and confident - not weak and needy. Take charge.
Has been known to work for me - once in a while.
The products you have should help, but eventually you should find out if she responds better to A314 or Instant Gentleman. I’ve always thought that TUTH is really something to go on just before her clothes start coming off.
Hi there CD1 and glad you finally posted an intro to say hello. Oh yeah, not to mention the GC I am sending.
I have to admit I am a little unsure of exactly what you are looking for in mones. I mean, sure getting the proverbial “spark” back into a relationship is wonderful, but what spark are you talking about? DO you mean the horizontal bop or is there some type of relationship issues? I understand this is a pretty public venue but any additional information will better help us, help you.
I always like to go back to the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People and quote Covey when he said: “So love her.” He inferred that love is simply a verb. If you are looking for that spark of love, look up the simplest definition of what love means as a verb and then do that. Occam’s Razor my dear friend .
Maybe you’re putting too much emphasis on sex and not enough on the lead up to sex. Try working on all the social aspects first. Deep communication and understanding go a LONG way.
