Here’s a different way of looking at this, if ugly people or those with physical characteristics that people find ugly never got a mate then we would all be sexy as hell by now and would all look much more similar. Why? because someone with an ugly feature would never find a mate to pass on the genes for it to the next generation. And I doubt the “anomalies” could be responsible for this over the last couple of thousand years. I see who I’d call ugly guys with gorgeous girls all the time.
LOL! The Mustangs, Camaros, Chargers, Chevelles, etc have always seemed to be those type of cars that were apparently painted with androstenone based paint. They look good but are no Skyline or Supra or Lowrider my friend.
I’m inclined to agree, however having had similar debates with various guys over the past couple of years I have no doubt they would chalk that up to the secondary factor of money.
Usually guys will argue that it’s all about looks or money. A girl may be attracted to a handsome guy but unless he’s financially stable she wouldn’t consider him for a serious long term relationship. While a guy with resources but no looks would be worth keeping around but the woman will usually try and stick him in a friend zone where she can benefit from his money without having to have sex with him Although she may eventually cave in. While the guy with both would have the world.
The I’ve mentioned the idea about genetic selection weeding out less than attractive traits and been told that unattractive people of either gender will eventually lower their standards and “settle”. In other words you’ll see an unattractive man dating an unattractive woman because both of them assume that “this is as good as I’m ever going to get”. Now THAT to a degree I do believe. But not because of looks but rather self esteem and lack of game. I do see people of either gender “settling” because it’s easier than going through the risk of rejection.
I have a cousin who has some issues with his weight…he’s not fat at all, though he is a little husky, but he sees himself as being obese and as a result he wouldn’t open a set if I held a gun to his head. He’s not a virgin and has had girlfriends but because of his lack of confidence every girl he’s ever dated has been one who made the first move.
He himself has confessed that initially he wasn’t attracted to most of his girlfriends though attraction grew over time…but having a girlfriend…ANY girlfriend was better than being alone.
Now as I said before, looks CAN open the door, (you never look across a crowded room and fall in love with a girls intelligence) much like mones can…but it’s character and personality that lead you to walk in. What you’re born with genetically cannot be changed (excepting for drastic surgical means), but actual presentation and hygiene will do a lot more for you. If you took a man with the facial features of the sexiest hollywood movie star and dressed him up in a drab, boring and unremarkable style and placed him in a club where he’s shifting about nervously and frowning while staring a hole into the floor I doubt he’d get much attention.
On the flip side a guy with average/mediocre looks that gets done up in an attention grabbing stylish outfit, looking like he spent the day in an expensive salon getting a trendy hair cut and just really doing the most with what he has, and the guy is smiling, engaging, having a good time and looks comfortable with his own skin…THAT guy will attract positive attention from everyone, women and men alike.
Also just Smelling good makes a world of difference.
Your post makes absolutely no sense at all and sounds like you have no idea what youre talking about. Mustangs, Camaros and Chargers are muscle cars for the most part and they perform well for their price. Supras? do they even make those any more and Skyline cost 80,00, only a ricer compares an $80,000 car to a $25,000 car. Lowriders? most people don’t even know what that is any more. The best lowriders are based on american iron.
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Ricer? What ever and secondly you can get a supra and skyline for under $80000 and yes they are still made. The skylines are but not supras. Come talk cars when you know what your talking about.
I’ve forgotten more about cars than you’ll ever know. What is none based paint supposed to mean? What criteria are you judging camaros and mustangs to skylines and Supras and lowriders.
Skylines are nice but they are no Enzo.
Come talk cars when you get done playing gran turismo.![]()
Nvm. Basically attraction is large equation man looks are just one small aspect that need to be taken into account. You also have social value, face value and confidence
Be nice, or ignore each other. This is a thread about individuals looks and not the cars they drive. Lets keep it on topic please
If they dont can I spank them ? ![]()
Looks are not the only thing that matters.
(but you’re not going to believe me since I’m a woman, and obviously not to be trusted.)
Men are as appearance driven as women so it isn’t like we have the corner on the market for superficiality. Seriously men, would you go out with someone you found visually repugnant?
I have, several times in my life, given an opportunity to a guy that I didn’t really find attractive, or wasn’t my “type.”
My fiance is one of those men. I initially thought, “hmm, he’s sort of plain/ geeky”
Things that become HUGE factors after looks.
1.Do they exhibit any psychopathic or sociopathic tendencies? (yes, this is #1. . .I had it happen once and ignored the warning signs.)
2.Can they make me laugh? (my friend Julie says “no funny, no honey”)
3.Are their balls at LEAST as big as mine? (I’m a fairly gutsy person, I don’t have time for pansies.)
4.How do they treat other people (because once they are familiar with you, you will be “other people”)
5.Is there “chemistry” (I know it sounds undefinable, but you either have it, or you don’t)
Don’t listen to her guys, she is NOT to be trusted! She’s a woman!![]()
Did not read all 11 pages of answers, so sorry if I’m just repeating what others said:o
But WOW
Thats just plain old dumb… Yes looks can make it hard to get a girl! IF YOU INSIST ON GOING FOR GIRLS OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE!!! Forgive me, but this must be said: DAH!
It’s SO much more commen to see a girl with a boyfriend who’s less hot than her, than to see the opposite, and there is plenty of girls seen as unattractive out there, just waiting for mister big-nose-horseface. So he needs to be told to lower his expectations, instead of “your just to ugly”.
Besides in the part of my life when I was hotter than hell (bf childbirth, while working as bartender therefore grooming as hell
) I dated a guy who was completely utterly f*cking ugly! I can’t come up with a single thing about him that wasn’t ugly. But he made me laugh, and quoting Rihanna, feel like the only girl in the world. Unfortunately his selfesteem couldn’t handle having a girl who got stared at, and hit on by every guy around, so jalousi ended up destroying the relationship.
Well I disagree with the part about “out of your league.” A person is only out of your league if that’s how you feel about yourself. I have dated movie stars and still do, musicians, models, the hottest of the hot and surprisingly most of them have said they couldn’t believe I was actually dating them. LOL-Go figure!
I cant say I agree about the League part either.
There is no league so its impossible to be out of it. The league is a imagined state people create to explain lack of attraction. If someone in your imagined league is not into you no one thinks twice really. They just figure there is no attraction or “chemistry”.
If someone you perceive is somehow better or worse then you for what ever reason, your ego or self esteem (depending on whether you label better or worse) comes up with a excuse like “out of our league” instead of just understanding there is no attraction or “chemistry”.
The league is just something the ego creates.
Tisha
I have come on in the hope that i may also be in the running for a really good spanking ![]()
I have possessed around eighty different cars in my time and some have been males and some have been females however i have noticed that both can be temperamental, and some of these models have certainly contributed towards initially attracting females to me because of their looks yes the look of the car lol ![]()
I definitely got into this convo too late. Damnit.
As for the confidence, I can vouch for that.
Going on top of what Steve, Rad, and the other guys and gals have posted on here. It is about how you carry yourself, it’s about how you can view a woman’s beauty, inside and out. It’s about how much you can value yourself and therefore exude that in all that you do. Girls that are amazingly good looking know it, they get treated differently and they’re accustomed to it. Most guys will treat them like how everyone else does. Kiss their ass, always seek approval, and become beta and do not take charge.
Your looks will get you as far, but how you approach things, your passion to be happy everywhere you go, and live life to the fullest, is what gives you that confidence. To me confidence isn’t just about having the balls to go up to a woman, but it is the true content and happiness within yourself.
I’m not ugly but I’m not tall dark and handsome either, but I do get my share of women that are pretty damn attractive, by any standards. How I did it was just to be happy with who I am and to just go out there and live, appreciate women, make friends with everyone, talk to people, and be genuine. Don’t hold back, do things because you want to, not because you think it will garner approval. Do it for the love of doing it.
Tangent yea, but all a way to overcome the “looks” barrier or whatever other barrier there may be that’s holding you back.