Wolf's Pherodiary

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Men's Journals
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On reflection, I know that it was the look that I had on my face the other night that H1 was really attracted to. It was the classic badboy grimace as I was looking at the schedule, the look that David DeAngelo talks about in one of his Double Your Dating seminar videos. The kind of hearthrob look girls just eat up and can’t get enough of.

Now, if I can figure out a median where I draw them in with that, smile and use humor, then continue that look… Hmm. Intriguing.

Here’s one for you… Why did the chicken cross the road?

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Self improvement.

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Beautiful women aren’t hard to be around and have fun with. It’s getting interested in them enough to go further.

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Beautiful women aren’t hard to be around and have fun with. It’s getting interested in them enough to go further.

P.S. How do you like the outfit I was wearing for Halloween? Girls kept wanting to touch it (IOI) - and what about my friend’s faces? Envy is a beautiful thing.

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You sly one you

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With what I know now, I would have done things just a little differently with V. She slotted me into the Friends category early on, because I asked her if her roommate liked me (which she must have) - instead of asking V if V liked me (which she has shown time and time again that she does.)

I love it! That last pic was for my birthday, and V had to show up that other girl that’s in the background (she had just given me a lap-dance in the club.) Again, a little envy goes a long way, Lol! V having to prove who’s territory it was, haha! I had lots of fun that night.

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Time to start incorporating things that have happened to me in the past year into conversations with girls. One thing that I have to keep in mind is that, in order for a girl to want me as a mate, I have to incorporate certain aspects of my personality - positive ones at that - into my conversation. So bear with me as I develop my game. I’ll post soon with one of the openers I have in the works. Stay tuned!

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Tonight I went pherofree, and decided to approach a table where (as it turns out) a cute blond and her brothers were eating. I engaged them in conversation, negged the girl a few times, and would busy myself at work again. For some reason the girl suggested I get her brother’s number after I suggested we could make a party happen after I got off work. So I took his number, already a little suspicious. What better way to win a girl over than if she sees I can get along with the men already in her life right?

Then my gay coworker decided to comment about it, asking me if that was for real and I was taking a boy’s number. I waved it off, and told him it was to get to the guy’s sister. Well, after they left, the brother called the restaurant and asked to talk with me. He wanted me to take an order to their hotel if possible (we don’t deliver so I told him it wasn’t possible.) He came to pick it up when I suggested to do a take out order.

Then my coworker was busting my balls about it again. He told me that he does that quite a bit when he’s interested in someone at a business. He’ll go in several times and then make a move. Considering everything, I deleted the number out of my phone to be safe and decided to call it an early night. I went straight home and took a night run to clear my head. Really, working at a place owned by a lesbian seems to attract more homosexuals than I care to elaborate on.

All things considered, it was a successful approach. I hope next time I get more results of the kind I want.

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Before heading into work today I applied one spray of IJ and another of IS(x2) while having the mindset that I could care less about the hostesses and their cold-shoulder tactics. I avoided looking over at them, and got into my routine. I started flirting a lot with some of the customers, and I really started getting into it. I could have probably number closed some of those girls. I began speaking deeper, and feeling the reverberations in my chest. It seemed to draw attention - things got extremely busy for me.

My buddy in retail called the younger hostess over and started asking her about her taking down some boy’s number and if she got together with him, etc. I could have broke out laughing so hard when I noticed her looking right at me to see if I overheard and considering her answers before whispering her replies back to the retail guy. She did this about seven times. I was busy wiping things down in my station grinning.

The younger hostess broke her ice-queen routine to come over, grab some hand sanitizer and stare at me with a semi-friendly look on her face - then she did it again a little later and I addressed her (she actually responded, whoa!) I am not sure if I am on good terms with my ex-target. I told her goodnight in a tone that I expected her to respond in kind - which she did. In reflection, she was probably hoping for some of the same attention I was showing some of the other girls I was servicing.

After work I headed into my club of choice. Nobody was there. Not literally, but damn close. So I headed to a different place I have never been to before. Oh my, what a change in environment. More girls too. More people all around I should say. Pardon any mistakes I might be making, I’m slightly tipsy at the moment. squinting grin After one of the songs the live band was playing ended, I greeted an old buddy who was the lead guitarist and I couldn’t believe the interest it generated in all the girls when I was making my way across the bar to head outside. They were giving me the look that screamed assessment, curiosity, etc. I didn’t open to any of the girls in there because it’s a new territory and I wouldn’t want to fuck things up for me so early.

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It was a pherofree day. Tonight was great. I have been having car trouble and was finally able to fix it after much trial and error for the past week. I thought I worked today, but didn’t. My buddy from retail and the younger hostess were there. The hostess kept her back to me while the retail guy asked me if I thought I was working - then proceeded to show me I was nowhere on the list for work today. It seemed pretty strange that he would know that already unless the both of them had been discussing me. So I went shopping. At checkout I started talking with a very athletic looking gal - about her choice of drink. La Croix. I asked how it was pronounced and she gave me a very bright smile like she wanted me to talk with her all along and gushed all sorts of things about it. Then at the front desk counter my cousin informed me while I was there that a girl came in and printed off like 200+ pictures with me in them. Lol! I put that night out of mind until now. It was definitely memorable - apparently for her as well.

My ex took the children for an over-nighter so I was visiting with my parents and they suggested that I take them gambling at the casino in Cortez. I was all for it, so we ate a quick meal and took off. It took about two hours to get there. I had mediocre luck wandering around and testing certain machines. I was only down about five dollars when I got this urge to sit at one Triple 7’s slots. $.25. I won $180!! I called it an early night since that’s how much my new satellite radio system is going to be anyway and everything happens for a reason.

It’s now after midnight and the official anniversary (it’s been a year to the day) since my ex told me she was divorcing me from our seven year relationship. Earlier while driving back, at the stroke of midnight, an acidic tear burned down my cheek and with a snarl I dismissed it and the sadness. Everything happened for a reason and I wouldn’t be the man I am today without it. I’m a stronger person because of everything I’ve been through damnit.

It’s a full moon today. In two days a double meteor-shower will begin and will last until the 30th. I’m going for a late-night run. Good hunting gentlemen!

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No mones today, my work called me in before I had to work at the other place… I had to get some things to remove permanent marker that the bar absorbed and I stopped in to the store. I needed to buy some nail polish remover and asked one hot girl where to find it. Chit chatted for a bit, then went to find the aisle she directed me to. Several hot girls in this aisle. Asked one where I could find the nail polish remover and all of a sudden I am surrounded by three hot girls trying to talk me up. WTF?! It was kind of funny, one of the girls (that I had yet to talk with) was hovering not a foot away with this look. All I could do was turn to her, grin and say, “HI!” She must have been mortified because she got scarce quick. Oh well, haha! I had to get to work or I would have talked them up more.

At work, neither hostess previously mentioned was working today. At the end of the night, I got a whim and asked the hot manager that was closing what she likes to do for fun. She actually listed off quite a bit, and in there she threw in that she likes to go out for dinner. :smiley: I don’t really know if I should go for it. That was as blatant as it gets, but she’s my manager! I messed things up at work too much already, so…

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In checking out some of my latest reputation received, I now feel like I should clarify something…

I never make anything up, I never lie. I don’t tell every woman I meet the same damn thing I told the last one or the one before that. But after a year of being the good guy and nothing to show for it, I decided to look into how to socialize with women better. I found that there is a certain method, a guideline, that works and I tailored my approach around it. I’ve come to find out that women really don’t know what they want. If you haven’t noticed, I’m not out banging every woman that comes my way. I have decency and morals. I am completely original in everything I throw out to any women I meet. But being the nice guy and always winding up the next guy is over. There’s a certain time for nice guy, a certain time to play nice, but I’ve noticed that coming off with that right from the beginning gets you no where.

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The sophistry of that latest reputation I received is that my boss and her assistant manager that I mentioned the other day (the ones that are coming onto me, the married women) are the ones giving me this advice. “Girls like jerks,” “Start wearing a sports cap, it makes you more approachable,” “Quit being so nice,” “Be more playful, it shows personality” “Stop trying to approach women, let them come to you,” “Give a woman shit, it’s considered flirting,” “Swear more,” - and you know what? It works. So I started reading about other men’s successes on here. Thinking back to all my successes with girls, it was always unconscious but I did the things that I’m doing now. It’s not a bad thing to do what works as long as I’m not being abusive and the girls are having fun.

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Nice going man, especially on the whole transformation. These women know what their talking about. After you go all out with them(other women) with that new(old?) attitude you will get massive attraction, specially from hot girls( They are used to being hit on) and the opposite is true with not so pretty girls.

Take care

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So I had Thursday off and visited the mall. Bought a new shirt to go clubbing with… Didn’t wear it though. I wore another I had bought a few weeks back.

Wore one spritz (not a full spray) of TUTH, 3 spritzes of IJ, 1 spritz MX203, 1 spray Molecule F, 1 spray p83, 1 spray IS (2x)

Right at the door there was this girl that was acting pretty neurotic and I stated to another girl that arrived with her, “She’s neurotic!” That made the other girl laugh and agree. As I was standing at the bar, the neurotic girl slaps me hard on the shoulder (IOI) and good-humoredly declared she was NOT neurotic. I just grinned. Getting my drink, a dark-haired cutie with a touch of baby-fat served me her favorite drink when I told her to surprise me and eventually she asked me my name (IOI.) She remembered it the rest of the night too.

Met up with the blond girl (BG1) that was with Neurotic Girl (NG.) Told her a joke. She laughed, and punched me in the arm (IOI.) She stated she had to use the restroom and told me she’d be right back. I got up and wondered around. Talked with a two-set. Neither were that good-looking, but I was being sociable. When BG1 got back, I went and chit-chatted. Played the truth-game with her. Asked her, “What is the one thing you wouldn’t want your parents to know about you.” - “Well, I smoked a LOT of pot in Highschool.” She tried to ask me the same question, I playfully told her she’s breaking the rules so instead she asked me, “Have you ever had sex with a married person?” - “Hmm. I was married for six years, does that count?” She laughed, but the game didn’t get much further than that before she pulled me out on the dance floor. We had a lot of fun. She is the type of girl that leads, rather than gets lead. Any time I tried to lead, which I’m used to, we had a hangup. I found out that NG is her sister. After dancing, we went back to the same place off to the side of the dance floor with her sister. After a lot of playful conversation, and making BG1 laugh a lot, her sister points at a guy who’d been watching us and said, “Oh look, it’s your husband!” :confused: So that’s what that question about sleeping with a married person was about! She wanted an affair! :open_mouth: He eventually came and introduced himself, and claimed her as his wife while giving me that look. Lol! :roll_eyes:

Got a drink from Baby-Fat Cutie (BFC.) Playfully told her I’d really rather be out there dancing with her. She responded well with that. Went to go cool down by standing in front of a huge AC unit in front of the restrooms. A hot server was up on a stand dancing. Mmm. I came up and told her I can do it better, and mimicked her playfully. She agreed. I chuckled and walked away.

Back to dancing with BG1, Country was playing so we did a line dance (which I am definitely NOT versed in, or swing for that matter - but I managed both and had fun doing it.) Walked around a bit after that. Seen the server I teased about doing it better than her, said she should get out and dance with me. She said she would, but it wouldn’t be such a good idea with corporate in town. I chuckled and walked over to go cool down in front of the AC unit again. Started moving from the hips to the beat and next thing I know there’s a cute blond (maybe an 8) dancing me up from behind. I glanced back, and her dark-haired friend beside her smiled at me. I leaned into her a little more and got dirty. BG2 smiled, and got into it. After a little of that I grinned and walked away.

BG1 left the bar without her sis or hubby. I bid her goodnight and left shortly after that myself. I had a long day and was worn out.

The next morning I went shopping for some more pants. Residual mones is all I had on, and not much because I showered before heading out. After I picked out half a dozen pants I asked the girl at the dressing room if she’d tell me which pairs looked the best on me. After an extensive try-on session and flirting I told her it was a pleasure meeting her and went to checkout. At the checkout, a dark-haired cutie wearing a little black dress and carrying a yellow blouse for purchase came up behind me. I told her she’d look good in yellow. Somehow that started a conversation. She was a nurse and was heading out to the lake for a beer… I razzed her, “Talking about beer already and you haven’t even invited me! Sheesh!” She invited me, but I had to work so I told her I had to take a rain-check. “Since you owe me a beer, I’ll give you my number and you can call me the next time you go do something like that.” She took out her phone, and texted me right away. So I have her number too! :smiley: She has a very pretty name.

All in all, it was a very nice start to the weekend.

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I kept getting my ass grabbed and other stuff last night at a different club. Another of my sisters and her hubby were there with some of their friends. All in all it was a very fun night.

Today at work I was incredibly tired. I needed some backup so I sprayed a spray of IS (2x) and 10mcg of P79. My former target, H2 and another cutie that started training last week were all working together. H1 actually talked with me today. The other two were receptive until I was talking up H1 more than them. They started throwing me the cold shoulder again. :confused:

Here’s some background. Everyone at work has their numbers on the handout schedules that employees can take home. So I texted H1 one night to see what her favorite color was. She was very receptive until she figured out who it was from… I never technically asked her for her number and she was pissed. She texted to say, “Goodnight Wolf.” Then texted me to state, “That isn’t what the employee schedule sheets were intended for and I think that’s a misuse of those kinds of resources.” I texted her and said, “I’ll make it up to you sometime.” She texted me back and stated, “I’m not interested.”

Her body-language speaks differently. Especially today. I didn’t realize it until I was telling her a joke but she was mirroring every facial expression, and body position, anytime I would talk with her. She didn’t smile or laugh until I smiled and chuckled after a pregnant pause. Unlike the other two hostesses who left after her, she actually told me goodnight. The other two ignored me. :roll_eyes:

So really. I’m confused about this girl. I don’t think she knows what she wants or is doing - unless it’s deliberate and a ploy to completely keep me confused. Like a cat playing with a mouse (her favorite animal is the Lion so that analogy seems fitting.) Sometimes it seems like I might be able to take it further than just a coworker relationship with her (from a lot of the indicators today especially) but I just don’t know.

I was going to go for a run (the moon is nice and bright out there) but I am suddenly tired beyond belief. Goodnight!

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ROFLMFAO!! My sister was telling me about Friday night… Because I was hanging out with her, she kept having girls come up and ask her who I was. When she’d answer, they’d say things like, “Oh, he’s HOTT!” and, “Mmm. He’s gorgeous!” Lol! She was telling me how she felt validated from it, special, cool. Hahaha!

I guess when you’re with the leader, the alpha male, it empowers you. Especially when people have to come to you to get information about that person. :wink:

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Time for my daughter, it’s her birthday! Talk with you all later!

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Happy birthday to her :slight_smile:

And thanks for sharing your experience, nice and detailed.

Take care

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Today was a good day. Daughter’s bday. Had residual mones from yesterday. Took my whole family out to dinner and had a great time. Met with my ex out in the parking lot. Invited her to my sis’s for cake, icecream and present opening. Didn’t think she’d show. She did. And her fiance. After being in my pherocloud for a while he was giving me good respect. Especially when I got up to leave for work. He sort of backed up for some reason as I stood up. It was an interesting reaction.

At work I sprayed some IS (2x) and IO. Ignored H1 who was again in the station closest to me. I also picked up my pace and intensified my interactions. Enthusiasm! By the end of the night she was trying to gain my attention. She must be used to having a lot of it from every guy that’s around her. :roll_eyes:

I don’t understand it. :confused: But I don’t really want to. After work I felt like I would rather have not had to work on my daughter’s bday.

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My newest order came in today. Added MX297, MX330, Ammo and another TUTH to my arsenal. :wink:

When I got to work, I applied Ammo to my right wrist and wiped some off onto the right side of my neck. Then I did the same thing with IJ to the left side. One spray IO(2x) to the right side of my shirt, and IS(2x) to the left.

Younger Korean girl (18?) was very interested in me. Her mother (50?) was even more so. VERY talkative, even though I had other customers she kept talking. Especially after I mentioned something about the coloration in the sky towards the East as the sun was going down. :roll_eyes:

Another girl and I got to flirting pretty good. She said she’d be back by sometime. I joked with her, and said, “Didn’t get enough of me yet hmm?” She smiled and said, “Exactly” then winked and left.

Feeling kind of low so I’m going to cut back on the none products I’m using. I’m also going to hoard my MX203 because it won’t be coming back I understand. :frowning:

Hitting the Casino again tomorrow. Good night all!