Would it be weird if I contacted this girl?

Alright, so I met this girl last year when I was staying in uni accomodation and I didn’t really find her that attractive. We spoke a few times, even went out a couple times with a group of friends. Also, I could tell she was attracted to me when we were out (all kinds of IOIs). HOWEVER, I haven’t spoken to her in almost a year. I recently checked her facebook page randomly and she’s pretty damn hot now.

My question is, how do I contact her without looking like an absolute creep? It’s kinda strange that I message her out of the blue after a year. She might have even forgotten who I am!

The main reason I want to meet up with her is so I can test some mixes haha.

IRL, I would just stop say “Hi, I’ve not seen you in a long time - What’s up?” and take it from there. So just do whatever the Facebook equivalent of that is.

Personally, a year or more’s gap is nothing really. :slight_smile:

Oh god, I just realised I have already attempted this. I said, “hey how’s it going, I haven’t seen you in a while?” She replied, but I forgot to reply back. This was back in September 2013!

I’ll give it another shot, what’s the worst that could happen right? :stuck_out_tongue:

“Hey, it’s been a while. Let’s catch up some time”

Not weird at all. If she’s interested in you, she’ll make time. If she’s not, no time wasted.

Well, I believe she lives with some mutual friends so I pretty much said, "hey xxx it’s been ages! How’s it going? Are you living with xxx now?

The worst - No interest/response. Then you know to turn your attention elsewhere and not keep-on wasting your time. :slight_smile:

Although I must say that if you have any reasonable way of doing this face to face, it would be much better. Esp with a good mix on. :wink:

Very true! I’ve been speaking to this eastern european girl who recently broke up with her fiance. I’ve used a fallout mix on her 3 times now. She actually wanted me to come help her move flats, while her parents were there! Does that mean anything?

I’ve been using a lot of sexual inuendos, but i don’t know if she realises they are. I honestly don’t know if she wants to be a friend or more than a friend.

Just assume attraction and go for it brother. Hesitation is an attraction killer.

That’s pretty much what I’m going to do. I’d rather give it a shot than have nothing forever.

Hopefully I can meet up with her soon so I can top up the fallout on her! She’s been exposed to it 3 times now, do you think this has done much?

It seemed to work well because she began telling me stuff WAY beyond the point of tmi.