Hey everyone, I don’t post often but I’m always around!
Ordered my first pheromones a while back and they’ve been going swimmingly. I plan to write a report soon, but there’s nothing but good news. But that’s not what this post is about.
I have a very dear friend of mine. I may be young, but he’s 25 and has been ‘happily’ married since he was 20 years old. He married his childhood sweetheart so to say, so it was a good marriage.
A few months ago, her life began to break down. I wont go into the details, but lets just say it would make the stronger of us feel weak and depressed. They’ve always been an amazing couple no doubt, but because of this their relationship has taken a back seat.
She no longer opens up to him, and refuses to want to cuddle up to him. She’s always been a closed book so to say, and to find out whats going on in her mind YOU have to work out the problem, and ask questions. Get my point?
He wants her to open up to him, of her own choice. So I sent him to here. Let’s just say he’s going to try a litle instant openess and some ammo to make her feel more comfortabe, again.
Potentially, thank you adrotics for saving a friend and more important his wife. I’ll report here on his behalf soon as he’s doing this through my accounts.
I concur with nbully - IO, IH, Instant Shine and IFM. If those work, the communications channels open back up, and they sort things out - well hopefully the Ammo will just be the icing on the cake.
I’m not kidding, I’m not pulling your chain, and I’m not BSing.
I still don’t understand how IFM works on the female psyche, but it definitely eases their tension. So I’d put a little in the mix when she’s feeling really down.
Instant Honesty is THE PRODUCT TO HAVE. I don’t often emphasis products like this, but if you want to get to the heart of the issue, all you really need is a lot of Instant Honesty, a good set of questions, and an even better set of ears. I don’t know how good your friend is at counseling people, but what comes out could potentially be more than he can handle at first, but take it slowly and surely and issues will surface.
What surfaces initially might not be the core issue, but it is somehow linked in her mind, and will eventually lead to the core issue.
The guys are right listen to them, Ammo is sexy but there is nothing comforting about it and if she has been through a hard time she may become aggitated by the vibe she gets from it.
Men tend to underestimate the power of the the less sexual mones but they forget women are different, Different things arouse us at different times and if he can put her at ease and their relationship is great as you mentioned then he wont need the ammo. The IFM will do the deed.
Course the ammo can be fun later when she is less stressed out.
Keep in mind to, that when people feel stressed or tired they tend to not respond especially to sexual mones.
If he dosnt want to get the IFM and IH then …
Tell him to work with just the IO first, It wont calm her but it may perk her up a bit.
Then move onto a tiny tiny bit of ammo and go slow in upping the dose.
This may not be what you or your friend want to hear, but never underestimate the power of a third party. I’m talking counselling. It doesn’t have to be all formal, either. Perhaps a pastor, if they’re the church going type. Pheromones are good and all, but if there are issues that need to be sorted out, I’d encourage you to talk to your friend about some outside help. It’s best to catch it early.
Trust me on this. I waited and tried to solve my own problems before going to counselling, and it was pretty much too late.
I wish the best for your friend and hope they can rekindle the fire.
