A big part of pickup is your game. Pheros play a big part for me but i am constantly trying to improve my game.
I was wondering does anyone have any good stories they tell when picking up ? I keep hearing about Mysterys smashing glass or smashing windows story but i dont know what it is. Does anyone know that story ?
So share your stories!! what works for you ??
hey there how are you?
thats the best way to have the convo leaving to be boring and dead within 90 seconds flat.
you need a better opener then that. I am also talking about attraction stories.
not openers
Shucks, ah juz’ shows 'em ma greenbacks 'n it reins dem dar fillies in every dad burn time.
come on guys. share secrets!
“Yeah, yeah, I know the drill. $20 for a couch dance where I get to look but not touch; $100 for a VIP dance where I can do whatever you let me get away with. How about we just dispense with the bullshit, blow this place, and get busy somewhere that charges for rooms by the hour?”
-D4
hahahahaa! go data4 
what else do we have ?
Heh… SteveO mentioned it, Lovedrop and Mystery teach it as a way to start off the kino, and I plan to give it a shot one day. Thumb wrestling! Why not? Heh… since strip clubs are my playground, and since most of the girls take your hand when they approach, it’ll be fun to practice with them. I also want to try Brutal Honesty, as I read about in a RSD email I got recently. “Hi, I’m Jon, and I seriously want to bang you.”
-D4
I don’t have any secrets,. because each situation is different
you have to be able to adjust based upon the girl and the environment
I’m not really the greatest at ‘the game’ but I don’t think canned stories really cut it. I mean you really have to be a damn good actor to not make it sound like canned material - something you practised at home in front of the mirror… Because if it comes across like you talking bs you never ever experienced you’ve already lost! So I guess the best stories are the ones created by yourself which have a connection to yourself…
Be different. Confident. In the know. Funny.
Heh.. you know what? I am actually better at coming up with a story on the spot while talking to people. Just pull up a word from ongoing discussion and make/remember a story out of it.. and usually they are fascinating, if not descriptive (should really work on this). I suck at remembering stories and writting them down to rehearse. So the repitations always vary a little from when I told it earlier.
Now presentation… thats a whole different matter.
Edit: Also telling stories are a lot more captivating then blurting some scripted one-liners. Flirting should be natural.
anyone know mysterys smashing windows routine? 
Steveo, can you find out please?
I dont beleive in the game per say, although Mystery has alot of good ideas for cold approaching groups of girls. I am a fan of David DeAngelo, where he teaches more how to improve your personality to be naturally cocky and funny, to attract females. I dont particularly like contrived stories, although I have used them before… Positive body language and communicating nonverbally are very important, probably more so than what you actually say. Thats how the naturals are so successful. There really are no secrets, most guys just ignore the obvious…
I often like to use alot of alpha/betanols while im practising game, as it tends to make it easier to approach, open sets, and so on…
Everyone has their own style with women. No one way is better than the rest. I see too many guys make the mistake trying to be just like a PUA. Nobody is the same, so you’re going to have some differences no matter what.
My style revolves around role play by teasing a woman to make her feel like she’s trying to seduce me or act like my girlfriend. I’ll also just grab women by the arm as they walk past me and pull her in a try to go for a kiss. I just don’t care. Other times, I’ll play hard to get, be blunt, brutally honest, shy… it all depends on the situation and the girls personality!
For example, you can pick up strippers no problem if you know what you’re doing. Like, not spending a dime or paying attention to them at all. Then, all of the sudden you’re cool… you’re not a source of money so you can be a source of comfort – a cool guy to hang out with. After all, if you wanted to treat them like a sex object, you’d spend money, right!? I had two friends who went to the strip club with a briefcase handcuffed to their wrist saying they were interested in buying the place. They had women all over them all night after the owner escorted them all over the place. They didn’t spend a dollar for a dance and was escorted directly to the VIP section to stay as long as they please. From what they said, it was a great, great night. I’ve heard of people going in to tell the owner he was interested in throwing a bachelor party at the place and got the royal treatment – so to speak.
Street pick up is fast. I can get a number in about one minute. I describe it in my journal section called “Nathan’s Secrets!” It’s just being direct and open. I knock them off their chair with a compliment they’ve been dreaming about happening to them since they had their first period, play a little, and then get their number.
I’ve been proving to my self over and over again that women are just as bored with the game as men seem to be getting. I mean, its fun for a while – openers, comfort, attraction, KINO, a little hypno, storytelling, isolation, close. Right?
BORING!
…at least for me anymore.
Lately, I just walk up to women in a club and say “If you’re going to come here, then you have to expect a guy, like me, to approach you because he thinks you’re good enough for him. Now, since we’re talking I can do it one of two ways, I can play games with you that makes you feel totally attracted to me really quickly or I could just be blatantly honest and tell you I’d like to have my way with you. Which approach would be better for you… because either way you’re screwed!”
Like I said, I just don’t care anymore. Does it work all the time? Hell no, but I’m up for trying anything in this nature at least ten times. 7 hits out of ten isn’t too bad.
I have a friend who just walks up to everyone woman and says “I’m here because I’m looking to have sex with a woman like you. Let’s go.” And grabs her arm lead her out of the place. When she resists he says “You’ll see later how attracted you are to me by not playing games with you because we both want to hook up tonight. Why wouldn’t we? We’re human. At least now you know who you can hook up with tonight.” Winks and walks away.
He gets laid all the time. ALL the time. No games, and no secrets.
Your smile is bottom line the absolute most dangerous weapon you have. Smile not only showing your teeth, but smile with your eyes. Practice smiling for 21 days in a row so it becomes an automated habit. All day long, just smile.
Yes, some people will think you’re weird smiling for no reason at all – but not nearly as many as you think. I think you’ll think it more than anyone else will. They will envy you for smiling so much. It’s very attractive for someone to see you smile – even for nothing. They will notice you, and when they express IOI, and you lock an eye with them, and they don’t look away – go! She wants you to!
I never used to smile until a stripper told me she thought I was going to be boring because I didn’t smile at all. She said but then when I got a text message my face lit up and she thought “Maybe he’s not so boring after all. Maybe he’s just intelligent.” And her curiously got the best of her…. And so did I (wink).
I think the worst thing for guys is to be totally oblivious to the signals women are sending out all the time. i.e. playing with their hair, “Morse coding” with their cigarettes and jewelry, slipping their shoe on and off, laughing out loud as if to say “Someone PLEASE notice me!” etc. If you catch a woman looking at you, lock an eye with her and see what she does. Wait for her to smile this time. Give her a teasing look by cocking your head. If she hangs on to your eye lock and smiles, she’s as good as yours. Smile and walk up to her as if to say “So, now that we’ve gotten to know each other should we leave now or later?” (Don’t actually SAY that to her mind you, just sense it – feel it with her.)
And my absolute favorite way to play with women? Not having an agenda to follow at all. I wipe my mind blank, look at her, and say to myself “fuck it. Just go in and say what comes to mind.” Why is it my favorite? Because it’s almost flawless every single time. It’s an attitude like “okay, I’m breaking the ice, and you know what this means, and why I’m here.” She always seems to be cool with it.
Stories? Id’ just stick to your own guy. I personally don’t even really get into stories until after sex. But hey, that’s my style.
~Nathan Blaszak