Advanced Topics in the Use, Testing, and Combination of Pheromones

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Tacitus on the intra- and inter-personal effects of pheromones over time:

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One of the great mistakes is to assume that you will see results with 5-15 minutes. Sometimes you do, sometimes it appears that nothing is happening. “Appears” is the operant concept here… one alternate possibility is that most people are experiencing life stresses on one or more levels and their thinking becomes locked into various thought loops and conceptual rigidities around those stresses. Few people are so free and elastic that they can reset their emotional states on the fly. In many cases there seems to be a latency period where the mind reorients itself in preparation for a new internal context… i.e. internally stressing out about work, relationship, health, family, then dropping all of that, or processing it in a new and different way, then becoming more externally focused. Or there are some types who are emotionally unavailable, self absorbed either through mild depression or egotism or just wrapped up in their head movies that take a while to snap out of it and join the universe. Sometimes this is the result of a combination of good social interaction skills and pheromones, where the pheromone by itself can’t turn a sow’s ear into a silk purse… OTOH, intelligent use of pheromones will, over time, enhance the social skills of the pheromone user because of the increased depth of interaction… so there is a synergistic learning curve here, you may attribute your success over time to the pheromones, where you may be overlooking your own increased social competence… then think, some months later, wow, this new pheromone is so good, and maybe it is, while you’ve gotten better too. I now think of pheromones as a role or a mask that deepens and intensifies some of my own qualities and allows me to concentrate my psychic energy in a very focused or productive way, and with others these energy foci may take hours or days to fully develop.

MHarris on cultivating congruency, using pheromones as a tool for permanent personal growth and change:

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Congruency comes with practice. With being.

I’m sure you were an astronaut as a child. For a week or a day. But it is what you pretend to be for years that you “are” now.

All reality comes from make believe.