A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with pheromone products. New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high.
But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheating husband to respond to pheromones" or why “the girl picked my best friend over me even though I have the pheromones on”.
The answer is simple, pheromones don’t change anything, they enhance whats already there. They make socialization easier. If there is attraction they can enhance that. If there is interest it can push that to attraction etc etc.
Now don’t get me wrong, I love each and every PM I get and I try to answer everyone the best I can. But I always feel bad when people expect so much more then is possible with just pheromones. It also ticks me off a little when those high expectations cause them to give up on pheromones because they are missing out on what they can really do for them which is a lot.
So, this is what…
If your in a good relationship, pheromones can enhance that. They can arouse and bring about more intimacy. They can help to open up communications and add some excitement and fun. Yes they can even make sex more frequent and hot.
If your in a bad relationship that is riddled with other serious problems or obstacles pheromones may arouse or comfort but they cant change that problem or the other persons feelings. Keep in mind, you may be able to arouse that person with pheromones but there was attraction there to begin with or they wouldn’t have been with you. Arousal will not change a persons mind even if they act on that arousal.
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When out wearing pheromones in public, you will get reactions that range from subtle to the occasional strong hit. You will get more attention. But girls wont lose all inhibitions and begin stalking you or groping your leg. Men wont slay dragons or leave there spouse to claim you. The pheromones will just add ease ,comfort, interest and arousal. Along with this you need to take into consideration the other things that cause attraction. Visualization, compatibility, availability etc.
pheromones can make you more attractive but they cant change a persons tastes, Suppose a person prefers blond hair or tall people, pheromones wont change their preference and if that preference is strong enough they may ignore the feelings the pheromones cause them to feel. If the preference isn’t that strong it can give you a edge and a opportunity to win them over despite the preference.
They can make you open up and talk but they cant make you compatible.
If you have nothing to talk about or nothing in common all the Instant Openness or Instant Honesty in the world wont change that. Can pheromones make a shy person talk more??? Yes if the shy person has something to say to you and a desire to speak to you.
They can arouse the hot girl/guy across the room but if they are together it cant make one of them available. People have morals (at least some do LOL) you may walk into the room looking hot as hell and smelling like a sex god/goddess but if someone has feelings for another person they wont act on that vibe your sending.
So what can they do for you??? They can attract, arouse, calm, uplift, cause comfort, cause interest, enhance and generally just make socialization a whole lot easier. They are one small part of attraction but they wont do all the work for you.
I often get the question of why didn’t my pheromones work ??? Then I find out where they wore them to 
Why didn’t my Turn Up The Heat or Copulin mix work in church ? Because people have self control. They are not going to hit on you sexually in church with the old ladies and priest looking on no matter how hot you look.
WHY doesn’t my Instant Openness work in school ???
Because talking in class is not smiled upon
I used my copulin or Androstenone mix at work with no response
Work is not the place to be arousing people. There are sexual harassment laws at least here in the USA. People are careful including women of how they act at work or who they become involved with. They will mask there feelings strongly in this environment. Granted my work is a bit different but it was that way before any of us used pheromones.
I wore Instant Shine to a funeral and no one seemed to feel better.
WTF do you expect, LOL
I wore ammo and Instant Shine and my brothers GF was nicer but she still hates me.
pheromones cant change every ones feelings for you. Sure they can help her to be nicer perhaps but they cant make her like you.
Environment makes a huge difference, We are humans and have been conditioned to react and act in a certain way in certain environments.
Being congruent and making the effort.
This is also important. Suppose you wear Instant Openness but you sit in the corner not looking very approachable. Or you have on AMMO and someone keeps making eye contact but you don’t smile or make any eye contact back. Your sending out mixed messages. On one hand people are getting a vibe that you are friendly and approachable. But your body language is sending another signal.
When you see subtle cues from others , this is the time to make your move. The pheromones will give you a edge but they will not do it all for you. pheromones help to give you more of a opportunity a opening but you need to make the effort. If your wearing Instant sexiness or ammo and someone makes eye contact with you smile. Appear approachable. If your wearing Instant Openness and someone says something mundane reply. pheromones may effect people but it cant make them good at approaching you. They usually are just looking for a opening to speak to you.
I wear pheromones just about everyday. I don’t get hit on everyday. Every single time I wear copulins my husband doesn’t respond. Sometimes he is tired or busy.
I am exposed to other people who wear pheromones frequently. I do feel reactions but I don’t forget who I am, what I like and what I believe in.
Think of your pheromones as just one more tool in your arsenal for self improvement. Like your hair gel, makeup, your push up bra and bowflex. Use them to enhance who you already are. Don’t just spray them on and sit and wait for your world to change
I believe that every person (especially in this forum) has something wonderful and special about them. I believe pheromones are a fantastic tool to help us unleash all those inner qualities and help others take notice of them.
Keep these things in mind when you use pheromones and especially when your new and getting ready to buy them for the first time.
Don’t wait for your pheromones to work, Learn to work your pheromones 
OK, Lecture over class dismissed LOL .
Tisha
Understanding is knowledge.