Hey guys,
I dont know if someone remembers me, but about 10 months ago I was having a huge mental breakdown because of this girl. here’s the post: Damage control
First of all, I have reread all the posts from then, looking at all the tips the guys here gave me.
I would like to say now, thanks to all the great advice people gave me here. People REALLY tried to help me there, with stuff that are not directly connected to pheromones - shows that people really care here for you. THANKS.
In short, this girl that I wanted rejected me, and I completely lost it. People here tried to warn me of losing it, which eventually did happen. I was walking around completely Fu**ed up.
Since then, I have been going through a LOT of pain, I was not able to get passed her and thinking only about her.
Recently I have got better. The main difference is, that until now I didn’t want to let go of her. That’s changed.
Now, I am trying to go out with other girls, which I am having no success at all (I can’t even bring myself to approach girls anymore). I am using pheromones, but I don’t see any results..
At the moment, I am 20 years old, a virgin. The farthest I got with a girl is kissing.
I need some good advice on how to proceed from here.
P.S
I REALLY recommend people to read my post. There is some very good advice I have gotten from people there, wich at that time, I just couldn’t apply to myself.
being a virgin is nothing to be shamed of. that mean you don’t have any STD’s
anyways, if you are struggling with a girl, you need to put some effort and time for yourself.
Hit the gym, hang out with friends, go out clubbing, meet new people.
gradually, once you find yourself who you are, experiment with pheros.
You need to realize that Pheros are just booster (just like turbo in a car) it could be good or bad.
Depending on what you use, you will see different outcomes. It’s all part of life experience. At first, pheros were changing me into some different person, but once I found out who I was, pheros were just booster to me.
I use it for my advantage, and recently, I broke up with my girlfriend and I’ve been using pheros to get girls, and it does significantly help to get what I want.
I use A314 2 drops
1x IO
1x IFM
1x AMMO
works like a charm when it comes to picking up, or going out on date.
hope it works out for you!
ps: don’t obsesses over a one girl, there are plenty of girls out there, just look around and you’ll find one!
I’ve once been devastated too, but I believe time is the best healer. Like how you gradually pick yourself up in the past 10months. I wouldn’t say 10months is a lot, some people take longer and others can recover as soon as 1 week. To me, I would take much more than that to fully recover.
At least you didn’t start at all, the pain shouldn’t be as excruciating when you were couples.
Take your time, being more sociable is the right step, pheromones should help, but you shouldn’t rely or think of them too much. Sometimes some things work magic when you are less focused on it. It is good to share your pain with us and your friends.
Do something you like too, if there is a course or a sports you always wanted to take, go do it!
One thing I strongly believe, you get stronger every time you fall and climb back up again.
