ok, i’ll try to make this story short. a couple of weeks ago, like 3 weeks ago i met with a girl that i used to like and that i still like (this was at a bar with some other friends,probably like 25-30 people)… i wore 2 shots of ammo, like 7 of instant shine and like 6 of instant honesty… during the night she kept looking at me ( i caught her looking at me at least twice).. she and her friends came from out of town to meet me and a bunch of friends… well the thing is that i left their hotel room (4 girls in the room) around 4:00 am… nothing happened… (my bad)… anyhow, my problem is this girl is becomming my obsession, i think about her like 20-25 times a day, i go into facebook and look at her profile and pictures of us like 4 or 5 times a day… (i know that she likes me, but man… i’m starting to walk a fine line)… i havent talk to her in 2 weeks, however i did tell her that before i left the country i was going to visit her… in conclusion, i need to get this chick out of my head soon, otherwise i wont visit her… any ideas how to get her out of my head??? i’ll be going back to miami in 3 weeks…
i either get her out of my head, or i wont see her again (too extreme, i know, i dont want to put myself in a vunerable situation)…
In my experience i have found that the best way to get a women is to not give a flying fuck… But if you want to get her out of your head i suggest stop thinking about her and become obssesed with something else like a sport or read books or watch tv to make sure you dont think about her..
If your looking on her facebook i suggest avoiding the internet for awhile until shes completely out of your head!!!
Visit her and spray some TUTH and make sexy time with her and either you will lose interest in her completely or you will get crazier over her. Take the gamble. LOL
I did something similar to this with a rebound recently.
You’ve got to realize that she doesn’t realize that you’ve been doing this. You can put it behind you, get your head straight and go see her.
Sounds like she’s got some interest in you. Plus, you’ve also got pheros to complement you game.
Ah. One of these. I have had this happen on numerous occasions. One thing that got me through all of the girls I could never forget about: a brand new hobby. Something that takes practice and patience. I actually took up playing guitar because I could not get my mind off a girl. I forced myself to spend at least an hour every time I started arbitrarily thinking about her to practice guitar. It kept her out of my mind and it got me damn good at guitar. In conjunction, the newfound guitar skills helped me gain more attention from other females that also required more attention.
Maybe your situation doesn’t call for a spur of the moment guitar purchase, but something on a smaller scale might help you out. Another thing I did for a few weeks to get my mind off of somebody else was card tricks [dorky, I know, but I picked up quite a few flashy things and I can awe a number of people].
thanks for the advice TheBoggler0, i appreciated a lot… lately i’ve been hanging out with lots of old friends and playing lots of video games in my computer (cuz i dont have a job right now)… therefore, my interest on this girl has gone down 50 or 60 percent.. however, i have to add that the bitch has turned defiant lately. i was talking to her the other day on msn, and she has been acting very strange… like her interest in me has decreased a lot for no reason cuz i dont see her everyday nor i talk to her everyday… ( i know her ex-boyfriend came from like the other side of the world to beg her to take him back, and she didnt - poor dude -) anyways is it possible that she is trying to push the envelope with me just to see how far she can get or how much ground she can win???
i’m gonna go visit her.. so i’ll keep you guys post it..