I’m listening to some historic Napoleon Hill recording, and Kevin Hogan (Psychology of Persuasion etc.), mention the idea which many know and is now in our cultural venacular, we respond and create from what we BELIEVE in. So, the more enthusiastically we believe in our pheromone use, the stronger we are in using them!
And I DEFINITELY enthusiastically believe in using them, so they WORK WELL for me!
April
well, if we are putting it in the catagory of colored water having the ability to heal cancer, im not opposed;
however my perception of pheromone usage is that they only shine a light on the positives, not create them.
i believe in their ability to persuade in an argument ,not create the argument itself.
there are days when i dont get a single hit.
at all.
i know on those days i wasnt in the mood to act on any hits,anyways 
I’m not saying it’s a placebo. Just, my believing in them certainly ADS to their effectiveness.
Of course, it’s like wearing FUDGE and going into a STRAWBERRY LOVING gang. Sometimes we may not get a hit, but I figure I’m wearing Fudge in Strawberry land, not that mones are ineffective.
Make sense?
April
I agree. When I wear pheros, my confidence goes up, so I am instantly and automatically more approachable by other people. You may have guys attracted to your pheros, but if he doesn’t get some smile or something from you, he most likely will not make a move for fear of being shut down.
Beliveing that the pheros are working (and they are) makes me smile more and therefore, makes more guys feel like they can come up to me or flirt with me and not be totaled or humiliated.
Pheros attract people—they work—but if you go to the club and sit sulking in a corner by yourself, you’ll just get looks from people going, 'I don’t understand the vibe she is sending! She seems to be sending out a fun, sexy vibe, but she is acting like she is neither of those things. That’s too confusing for me," and they move on.
It all comes back to confidence. If you don’t have it, put on those pheros and fake it! As you get hits, your confidence will go from fake to real. 
Thanks April!
xoxo
jp
I agree I think the mones defiantly work but if you put them on with the attitude that this is not going to work you put off a certain vibe that can almost cause them not to work or confuse people exposed to them. Ail said a while back that you should set them and forget them and thats what I do and its then that I see the best results.
Where is Ail by the way? I miss her.
Tish
I know what you mean. . .except. . .pheromones in my hair seem to be a little different. I have had days where I didn’t feel like Instant Shine, or Openness had any effect on me, but whew! Hits left right and center, with people chatting away that normally aren’t so forthcoming. . .ie my waiter story that I posted a while back.