Best packages on GAME and what I've found out

Ok we talk about phermones, lets talk more about game.

I had a chance to read Rules of the Game by Neil Strauss.. Although I found it very socially dynamic (and women do like guys who talk to them), I found being too talkative kills mystery more than anything else. I find his approach of conversation hooks, story telling etc makes great for developing rapport but not necessary seduction. There’s just too much sensitivity.. he’s so cautious even how he goes about getting a first kiss let alone sex. I feel because he was a nerd and only 5’6" (he claims all this) his approach is rather tame. Furthermore, most of the openers are rather ridiculous (cat dog opener), Blood type story etc … I can understand learning some basic conversation and appearance skills from his book. But you got to watch out for conversation. Just conversing with a woman may build a lot of gab but not necessary attraction.. Story telling could screw you up.. What if a story turns a woman off.. She may not like you at all. No wonder he has to date so many women before he gets laid.

Then there’s speed seduction.. Ok this one is a little better in the fact that you are working on seducing, sex, and fascination etc.. Problem is its all talk.. Doesn’t Ross Jeffries listen at all? If you talk in paragraphs to women you will often be interrupted… I myself talk in short sentences… memorizing canned routines can be good if your woman is the type who doesn’t like to talk much but most women like a man who listens too.. Furthermore, I found Ross Jeffries to gung ho in his approach. he believes success comes from chasing women and doing it in high numbers. He doesn’t take the time to tolerate any resistance. If a woman doesn’t respond he simply gives up and moves to another… We all know women we’re attracted to, why move on so fast.. Isn’t there a method to not give up so easily? i understand at some point no is no but as a man you’ve got to treat women as more than just a telephone booth even if you’re going to just be casual.

Finally I picked up a product many of you may of not heard about.. its called Pandora’s Box… I felt cheated by this product. It does claim incredible things like learning all the 8 types of women and modifying your approach to each one in order to score but the author is deceitful in many ways.. For example in his website he says learn the 3 questions scientists use to find out everything about a womans type. You as a customer think he going to give you these three questions and you would just approach women asking them this to learn more about your subsequent approach but this is not the case. Furthermore, he claims to teach you how to use 30 keywords that make women horny on a subconscious level. This may work but what I found was that they were not found on the program when I bought it… I quickly asked for my refund. the program was developed by a PHD and I think its very well organized and theoretical but its not practical at all.. Both Jeffries and Strauss are better.

Finally there’s Mystery. His success is mostly in clubs so I didn’t bother with him.. I need something that will work EVERYWHERE. Lunch, dinner, sport bars, etc etc

Well folks what are your thoughts? Do you have any products you recommend that I haven’t listed?

My goals are to get seduction out of women and not make them my friends. I also speak in short sentences, am fairly mysterious, and like to get women chasing me so I don’t have to do all the work. At times I can be romantic, I am also in pretty decent shape although I could lose 5-10 lbs. I use IS /AMMO and chase women in 20-30 year range.

Not looking for serious relationship nor to make women believe I want to marry them. Looking more for fun , excitement, romance, lust etc etc I have decent looks, money, car, etc but little game.

This thread is about game… Any other takers on products that are awesome that I haven’t looked into? :slight_smile:

C’mon none of you guys and gals have advice on game? I know mones work but you gotta back them up. What resources have you been using and why do you think they work or don’t work? Furthermore, what products do you think are scams?

Yes, I just read your post and its quiet interesting that I too have just read Style’s book “Rules” which is full of great routines for us to memorize and maybe tweak a bit. I too felt like it was a little mechanical and for that reason I have been trying to steer it to fit my personal style of socializing. It also focuses a lot, like you said, on building rapport and slowly ‘friending’ a lady which can be a very fine line to tread without falling down the gay-zone or landing in friendship-land.

Now there is this http://daygameblueprint.com/shockandcontroversycb/ and I think the principals are amazing. The fact that it isn’t riddled with a ton of “con” techniques or any trickery makes it more reasonable for me. I do not like feeling like I am not being myself and most of the night club and bar game styles are evolved from the fact that most woman that go to actually find men are gonna have to be tricked into giving up the goods on a first impression. To many shields because they get hit on 24/7 so they have no other choice but to use the shield and the fact that they are 99% sure they are being approached by another douche, makes it very unlikely to penetrate them socially not to mention sexually. So you cannot be nice in the bar/club scene. Now in the day time, a regular compliment is absolutely kosher. The day interaction adds to the spontaneity and also flatters them because they were not expecting it and were not being bombarded by guys all day long. Just check it out, its what I am reading/watching at the moment, and I think all of their material makes plenty of sense.

Best thing you can do for your game bud is Be Authentic, and do not bull shit. Don’t change who you are or what you are about for anyone. Don’t Apologize for who you are. If your opinion offends someone, so be it. Just take it in stride and go with the flow. A girl doesn’t like what your about, tough shit your the man and no one can take that away from you. As far as products I have read that Double Your Dating is pretty good by David Deangelo. And its pretty cheap as well. $15 if I do recall correctly, read something about it when I was on askmen. Take a gander at it.

That’s some very good advice Jabez. Being authentic is made for people who are REAL. I’m not the greatest actor.. Actually I suck at memorizing complex lines and look like i’m thinking too much when I do..

Lately I’ve decided to just be me and also rely on game from articles I read on the internet.. I figure game will have to be different depending on every situation.. – what works in a bar won’t work in church etc.. So You have to adapt but be real to who you are. In some case that means not being a PUA after all.

David Deangelo is good but I find cocky and funny turns off a lot of women.

I’m a hopeless romantic.. Even my guitar instrumentals on youtube are all romantic songs… I’m better of seducing a woman with good intent and not just being one of those guys who just f*ck around.