Boy Advice?

Having been this guy…

If you listen to your words, if he is with you and still playing the field, then you need to move on,
When a guy is with you, you can expect him to look, but when he starts approaching other ladies, girls, women, or talking about seeing other people, then likely he is or soon will be.

You are doing the right thing, let him go, you can do better, because he will just keep pushing your buttons until he gets what he wants.
if not he will load another game.

Of all my friends who who started relationships early in college, few are still together. Of the ones who are, a couple are not truly happy but they have reasons to stick it out now.

Just make sure he is a good guy in the core, a little stress in a relationship is going to happen, as you cannot expect everything to be fairytale perfect.

Congragulations, and I am sure when you decide to go further with any relationship it will be better for both of you. you are still young, guys are still maturing (well maybe)

Remember the hint of nudity, is more erotic than being nude.

You guys are right.

I am such an idiot.

After I asked him about the truth, he told me “I guess I just wanted to like you”.

I’m done. There’s nothing to like about him.

He’s happy with videogames. That’s all he’ll ever have.

better to find this out now rather than later,

One could always say if you wanted to like me then you should have tried harder.

When someone expresses an interest in you, there is nothing idiotic about wanting to know if they are sincere. You got your answer – rather quickly and effectively, I might add. You are a success!

Young men and young women both get rather confused by these situations. Don’t let that make you bitter! You’re doing good.

This guy is so weird. I decided to not waste time…and he randomly showed up while I had a guy friend over to bring me a weird china doll thing.

I’m not sure what to make of this…

I’d just level with him. Tell him you can be friends (if that’s what you feel), but nothing more. If he asks why, tell him you need more passion from a boyfriend than, “I guess I just wanted to like you.”

And tell him, “You deserve a girlfriend you feel more passionate about!”

If he wants to contest that, listen patiently. But I think we all know it’s about 99.99% certain he’s lost his chance. Doesn’t mean he won’t be a good friend – especially if you have computer problems! And maybe he’ll have other male friends that will be good for you and vice versa.

He sounds like a nice guy. I mean he doesn’t sound dangerous or anything, but you two don’t seem to have enough in common.

As far as what to make of this… He’s confused, too. Maybe he still hasn’t given up, or maybe he feels guilty. Clearly, he likes you, but I don’t think he’s gonna love you.