hi! i am a complete newbie…have never tried anything like pheromones so any guidance would be much appreciated.
I love a man who is far too old for me. We have known each other for 6years…been together and not together over the past two years. It is the slowest moving relationship of all time. It is now time though to find out if this will ever go anywhere or if i am wasting my time on this phantom relationship.
I wont see him for awhile as he is touring with his band. The next time i do see him however i want to be ridiculously desirable (yes i want hot sex!!) and not just desirable to him! But also i want to bring out honesty in him…is that possible? I want him not to hold back in anyway…i want the truth from him when i ask. He freezes when we ever have any sort of serious conversation but i am sick of waiting…im tired of being confused. I need him to be unrestrained and tell me whats going on in his head…be it good or bad. I know pheromones cant do all this but anything to enhance my chances of this happening. I also need to feel confident and in control when i see him.
Well that is my story…apologies for rambling. would really appreciate any tips!
Ah, I see your dilemna(prolly misspelled),
Does this man have other influencing factors, i.e., married, commitment shy, been hurt before, involved in other relationship, etc. (not to be personal and certainly not judgemental - one of my targets is married, did I just admit that?) anyway, just trying to figure out if he’s available to ya on a more permanent basis.
Certainly Instant honesty combined with instant openess would be great for getting to the root of his feelings for you or more to the point of what/where he wants things to develop if at all.
As for bringing out more intimate desire, There are great products for that as well, but since I am such a newbie I would think I should step aside and let some of the more experienced users answer.
I myself have had wonderful results with IS/A and B, also Tah and MX 135 are some of my faves. However, I wasn’t quite getting results I wanted with particular targets until I really began earnestly reading the stickies… I learned and understood so much more after reading what pheromones can and cannot do… I have also learned to work the pheromones more appropriately for particular targets…all in all its a learning process for me and I am not as fustrated anymore and I am simply having more fun experimenting versus looking for a thing to happen
But I do understand that you are looking for a particular thing to happen and I can tell you that plenty of help will come by way of very warm and friendly peeps here…I will be following this post and I wish you much success on this one
PS…read through some of the womens stickies and try and determine if he is an alpha male as this could greatly influence certain products you will use for him.
I don’t know what to advise you about him breaking the ice but I do have lotsa stuff to help you on how to make yourself so fricken desirable for really great sex
mx135 (it’s my staple! I can’t live without this stuff and it’s the first thing that I advise newbies to get lol) — I feel more playful and feminine in it and it makes both men and women want to be near me lol, many people call this mix instant star
instant sexiness a (I like this one too, it’s just to the point sexy, I had both hott --player types and nice older men-- hittin’ on me. I feel confident, and sexy)
I usually use both mx135 and is/a and it has never let me down.
Oh and lately, I’ve been using instant openness, eow covered with pink sugar oil and I’ve been getting starry eyed glared and super long chats. But if you’re planning to use eow, take your time to find your sweet spot!
I also suggest you reading some threads about “instant honesty”
Welcome hun! We’ve all been there. Pheromones actually can help in this situation: they’ll ease communication. But they can’t guarantee you will get the answer and reassurance you crave and deserve. You’ll be one hell of a hawt sexy girly, tho.
Definally get Instant Sexiness A, Instant Honesty, and Instant Shine. Instant Sexiness, for a sexy in control vibe (spray it where you can easily inhale it). Instant Honesty, for communication (spray it away from your face, either on the back of your head or on your wrists). And Instant Shine to put him in a happy mood.
We’re here for you. Keep in touch and let us know how it goes.
Welcome! I can totally relate to your dilemma. Fortunately you have come to the right place. We can help! You will find that the advice here is not scattered. Rather, there are some tried and true methods that we have all found really work. It does take some time to find the combos that are right for you and for him. Relax, have fun, and it will happen…
hi everybody, thanks for the support. i got my stuff in the post today Instant sexiness, instant honesty, instant shine, mx235 and instant openess. Imexcited to see how they work but i am trying to calm myself and not build ny hopes up too much. yes i am expecting a certain result and this is unrealistic of me..life doesnt work like that. i need to experiment but im afraid i wont be in the right situation to have discovered what quantities etc work for me best…like what is just enough. gOd i sound like such a moaner…its just that this is an important time in our relationship and well…im making myself sick with worry that ill screw it up.
and yes to answer your question djacquelyn there is another woman in his life …not a spouse. well im not even sure if it is still on. its off and on and im caught somewhere in the middle. Not anymore! im sorting this once and for all!
thanks again for the support and ill let you know how it goes when i see him…wont be for another week yet!
…not a spouse. well im not even sure if it is still on. its off and on and im caught somewhere in the middle. Not anymore! im sorting this once and for all!