Well, you got a lot of great counsel here Sheba. I am not sure that I can add anything else that would benefit you except maybe I believe it is the fortunate few that survives a calamity like this. I think one of the problems with staying together would be the trust issue and it would affect you as much as him, even though he was the one cheating. He would or could find it difficult for you to have male friends due to his own indiscretions. That would be a tough one, I think, as we are creatures of habit and very social in nature. Anyway, great post and thanks to everyone else who posted as I am encouraged myself by the words written. Have a great new year.–wt