OK, I feel silly asking but I’m intrigued. I think I know the answer already, but I have to ask considering that it has happened three times already and only when I have worn one of the putatives. There have been three different guys who watched me from a distance who jumped out of their seat to come to me on what seemed like pure impulse. What makes me think that was a coincidence is that all three of them were at about 20-40 feet away from me when they started watching me. They obviously found me physically attractive but I don’t ever get those reactions from complete strangers who have never seen me before. Normally they watch and control themselves. The environments I’m in doesn’t allow for this kind of behavior. The few who seem to act on impulse are guys who have been attracted to me for at least a week and even then, it’s way more controlled than this.
None of the guys have actually bothered me, but they have only stoped themselves after they jumped out of their seats and I ignored them. The latest happened this morning when I went out for breakfast and some guy was watching me as I waited to be seated. He was talking to his wife and looking at me. When he saw that I had noticed him, he jumped out of his seat on what seemed like pure impulse. As he was about to start walking toward me, his wife said something to him and he got back in his seat. As I was walking closer to his table, I could see that as he watched me, he started rubbing his leg and leaned toward me staring right at me. His wife just started at me with such a serious/disturbed look on her face.
Do you guys think this is just a coincidence since I was too far away from them when they started watching me? I swear the only time I’ve noticed these reactions was when I was using that pheromone.
Sounds like a hit to me 
It may also have something to do with the self effects. You may be carrying yourself differently or moving more confidently when you have pheros on. When you feel more attractive, it does show in your facial expressions and body language.
yeah, but it doesn’t explain the behavior of the guy though… how long were you in the room for? Sometimes, mones can permeate all over the place, if the enclosed space is not really big…
Maybe he walked by you when you were unaware of him still or your mones could have been permiating the place like Coolkat suggested.
Sometimes I get hits from clear across a room but usually the person passed close to me at some point. Either I walked by there table or they walked by mine or something to that effect.
I would say its 50/50 though. Give yourself some credit as well. Maybe he just found you visually attractive. 
Tisha
The first time it happened I thought it was a hit, but I quickly told myself that it couldn’t have been. He did like me a lot the second he saw me. He was about 20 feet from me for about five minutes. Then I walked past him, about 7 feet away from him. I was walking around, staying about 20 to 40 feet from him and he watched me most of the time, this went on for about ten minutes. When he saw that I was going to walk past him again, he jumped out of his seat and rushed toward me, then stoped himself when I was about 8 feet from him.
The second time it happened was with a guy who was sitting on a bench. I was walking toward him and he got up quickly and suddenly to turn to look at me right after I walked past him. He really didn’t have to get up if all he wanted to do was turn his head. lol I walked about 5 feet away in front of his bench.
Then the guy at the restaurant. I would say I was about 30 to 40 feet from him. I really don’t think that he walked past me. He was already eating when I saw him, but it is possible that he walked past me. I had my back turned to him for about five minutes. Then I turned and that’s when I noticed that he may have been talking about me to his wife, but he may just have been looking and talking about something else. I turned away then I turned again to glance to see what he was doing, and that’s when he jumped out of his seat to come try to come talk to me. He seemed really turned on when I walked past his table, and I’m glad his wife couldn’t see him rubbing his leg. He was probably one of these guys who are not good at hiding their emotions.
The first and the third guy looked as if they really wanted to come over and talk to me. I was with my husband when the second guy had a reaction. I noticed him out of the corner of my eye and it didn’t seem like he tried to take any steps to walk toward me.
I don’t think I carry myself any differently when I use this pheromone, but I think that I must since a lot of guys start flirting from a distance, but I really don’t notice any changes in my body language. Twenty years ago I would have said these reactions were normal, now they really do seem to be over the top for what I’m used to. This isn’t a big city and people are really careful about their behavior. I was under the impression that pheromones take a few minutes of being a few feet away from someone to have an effect on them.
Or maybe you’re just noticing it more. Knowing that I have pheros on makes me more observant and aware of peoples behaviors around me.
ok curious. What were you wearing and how much of it? These seem like pretty strong hits. I have had a few strong hits where it appeared that the person affected had no clue that they were acting strange. I know that everyone says people can still control themselves in the presence of pheromones because we have values, morales, etc, but sometimes I wonder how well people that are highly suggestible can defend themselves against these urges.
The first time it happened I was wearing 3" shorts, a tank top, and sneakers. Second time I wore a cool looking pair of 3" shorts, a camisole that’s meant to be worn outside, and chunky 3" sandals. Very classic/modern style, attractive and not skanky in anyway. I get a lof of attention in this second outfit even without pheromones. For the restaurant I wore a pair of jeans and a tank top.
I’m no expert in pheromones but from what I’ve observed, I think that the pheromones increase what’s already there. If a person is rude to begin with, they will feel even more comfortable being rude to you when you’re wearing a pheromone that’s meant to make them feel comforatable around you. If they’re attracted to you physically, they will want to act on that attraction. I think I have been around two men who I felt very attracted to while they may have been wearing pheromones. I just can’t explain the crazy attraction I felt for them. One of them I wanted to jump so bad, never in my life did I have that happen with a complete stranger. The other one I couldn’t take my eyes off, it was like I was in a trance. He said something to me and AFTER I heard myself respond was when it hit me how weird I was acting. He just stared back at me with this little smile on his face, he was observing me intently the whole time this went on. He was goodlooking but not someone I would even consider to be hot. I think that everyone is more vulnerable to certain pheromones during different times in their life. I really don’t to ever attract the attention of someone who has little self control because who knows what they might do to me, nor would I ever take advantage of someone like that.
Good info Cindy, however what I meant was, what pheromones were you wearing?
haha Too much info, I guess. I wore p83. Don’t remember what I wore it with the first reaction. With the bench guy I wore one spray of p83 with one spray of instant openess. Restaurant guy was just one spray of p83.
That’s interesting. I have read K-train’s journal about using p83. He had some really powerful reactions to it as well. It’s out of stock, but I think I will keep my eyes open for this one. All of the reactions seem to be consistent.