I am new to testing all of this out, and my primary motivation is a very recent ex boyfriend. We called it quits because he was feeling unsure of his emotions, and we decided some space and time would be best for us.
We are both in our early 20s, and were together for about a year.
I see him 3 times a week in a large lecture hall, we sit next to one another, and are very friendly and do get along well.
My goal is to re-introduce the “spark” of our relationship and make him remember the passion and attraction we share, and make sure we do not enter the “friendzone”
My first order contained IS/b, and P83… Will one work better than the other? Do you recommend I layer them? Was this a good choice or should I have gone with something else?
Re-introducing the “spark” is one thing. It’s like wearing sexy lingerie after wearing grannie panties for 5 years. However, it is a whole “other” thing when you try to manipulate someone. Your goal may be to re-introduce the “spark” of your relationship and “make him remember the passion and attraction” and make sure you do not enter the “friendzone”, but in reality, you are trying to manipulate another person into doing what you want. Although I can certainly appreciate having a man who follows orders, it doesn’t usually work out well and that type of manipulation can backfire, BIG TIME!
However, you can find a man after your own heart (so to speak). Someone that REALLY likes what you like! NOT some guy that just says he likes it because he like’s the way you look or the way you’ve presented yourself.
When messing with Mother Nature… PLEASE be careful!!! I’d hate for you to be stuck with some frog just because some guy lead you on.
And besides…
What makes you think that HE wasn’t wearing pheromones just to hook you??!!!
ANYWAY beeabelle4111, i would use a 2 drops of P83 on the neck. f he sits next to you, he should get a good whiff
It might take a couple of days for a response since he’s not a stranger, he’s used to your smell but your case might be faster!
I know that pheromones cannot create something that isn’t there, and it is not my intention to manipulate anyone, but to bring existing attraction to the forefront of our interactions.
Should I do IS/b and P83 together, or just P83 first?
I would use P83 only first. You could use a couple of sprays of IS/B if you want, IS/B didnt work for me so I dont recommend it. might work for you but since most people love P83 i would let that be the star
Trying to reignite feelings is not manipulating someone. You cant make someone feel something they dont even with pheromones. They influence they dont manipulate.
I dont agree this guy led her on either. They were together for 1 year before breaking up. There has to be some connection or attraction for that to occur.
beeabelle4111…
P83 is not really a stand alone. Its for steering other mixes and mones. You should test it on its own but its going to be harder to see what it does until you get used to using mones.
Start with your IS/B. This will give you a soft sexy attractive vibe. With P83 it becomes more sexy and expressive. He will also be more expressive.
Get some P74 if you can. Thats bonding and cooperative
EST would be ideal, you can get that at Liquid Alchemy Labs. Just google it.
IH also has a tendency to make relationships feel new again.
Thanks for the replies! I had thought about IH as well. However… I still don’t have my order, and I did overnight shipping on Monday. :-/
AND, Tisha, Could you tell me more about EST? I did google it and found it, and am working through with the search function now, but am not having much luck with a real description or any female experiences. --Edit-- I’ve read some things, but I’d still like your take on it too! What dosage should I get for a 10mL bottle? 2mg, 5mg, or 10mg? Thanks! --/edit–
Also… he just tore the meniscus of his knee and will now be on crutches… We are both athletes, and this is sure to hit him hard. (I was the first he wanted to tell… that must be a good sign, right??) But, I am not sure what the best course of action would be for me now because of this.
Of course I do want to take care of him and baby him and give him anything he needs… but I kind of also think it might make him miss me more to WANT me to do all those things without me volunteering. I think I’d like to play up the “desire for affection” in him if that is possible… and I think p83 would do that well?
I keep reading a TON (Tisha, I tackled your WHOLE journal last night, and loved it!!) and I think I am learning… but now I am just eager for my stuff to get here so I can start running my own tests!
Of course I love this man and want us to work out, but that is not my sole purpose with pheromones. I am a pharmacy student, and have always been fascinated with the subject. This “break up” was just the kick in the pants I needed to finally give things a try.
Thanks again for all the help, both in this thread, and all of the others I am reading through!
Oh MAN! I am loving all of this reading! I have got to start my WANT list before I forget it all… and I think I am also going to start my own journal now, too!
but, here are my wants so far: EST, IH, P74, Eow, Pink Sugar… uh oh..I should start picking up some shifts at work!
I am off to start my journal… still no mail, though.
Well, I am his first real relationship, and we were coming up on the 1 year marker and he got a bit frightened. He’s got some difficulty identifying/expressing his emotions because of some family things, and says he “isn’t sure if he loves me yet”, that he really thinks he will at some point, but doesn’t want to say it before he meant it.
I respected that completely because I understand his block with words, and he treats me so incredibly well, and I feel more loved than I ever have in a relationship, so I didn’t want to push it. However, coming up on the milestone, and lots of pressure from others (his mother calls me her daughter in law…) has got him a bit mixed up feeling and needing space.
I agreed he should take his time to be on his own for awhile… that was about 3 weeks ago. We really cut contact for awhile, but I can feel us beginning to reenter each others lives more often again now… so I think some 'mones can help bring attraction and emotion to a more noticeable level, and prevent us beginning to rely on one another as only friends and lose our “relationship” potential.
Gld you came to that conclusion cos personally I wouldnt baby him. We’re no longer in a relationship,. why would i continue to do the typical gf things
Got my EoW in the mail today and decided to try it out in the mall and at work. Applied 3 dropss… one to each forearm and my chest. Waited 20 minutes then covered with tahitian orchid. But i have not noticed any hits or any reaction at all…
What is a typical dosage of EoW? How much do you all normally apply?
If you young and not on the pill start with just one drop.
If your older or on the pill it can range all the way up to 6 to 8 drops.
The reason is ovulation. We produce more natural copulins when fertile. As we age ovulation slows and eventually stops. If you on the pill it prevents ovulation so you need more.
