Yeah, I don’t like clubs, either.
High school and younger?! Are you telling me there are kids 13 and younger on Match? That’s a little dangerous…
I read that paid sites are notorious for mismatching you so that you don’t find anyone and stay on as a paying customer. PlentyofFish.com is also free, and has a place in the profile to indicate whether you want kids as well as whether you already have them.
I also read about DinkLink.com, which is a fairly new childfree dating site. It requires a paid subscription to correspond, though, and because it’s new there aren’t many people on it, so I haven’t joined that one.
So far I’ve joined the aforementioned Childfree Singles Yahoo group, OkCupid, PlentyOfFish and Mate1.com, which I think is primarily for the under 30 crowd (but I have seen a few people on there 30-35, so it might be worth a look). Mate1 is the only one that doesn’t offer a place to specify whether you want/have kids, but I wrote it in my profile.