The main thing I notice, Austinn, is how upset you are over this twenty year old kid. From what you’ve said, it appears to be nothing more than a few flirtatious text messages. Getting all jealous and judgmental over this makes you look weak and petty. How ever you really feel about this, I would never let her know that it bothers you. He’s only a kid. You’re way too substantial of a man to be jealous of a young boy! She’s lost respect for you because of financial matters? How financially secure is she gonna be with this kid.
More importantly, if she has any sexual desires or fantasies she’d like to experiment with, she’ll never feel safe bring them up to you after you’ve been so judgmental.
About age forty for a woman does frequently bring disruptive hormonal storms. Androstadienone is one pheromone that can help weather these storms. TAK is another. P87 at 7.5mcg to 30.0mcg is another worth trying.
A314 in high doses is probably the most powerful tool you have going for you. Try the custom fragrance option, if you want, or just let her bitch about the smell. What have you got to lose, anyway! It is probably the genuine manliness that you’re belatedly beginning to show that really pisses her off. Let her adjust to it.
Taking a break from her for the summer will allow you to experiment with pheromones, clothes, attitude, etc to learn what is attractive to other women. Your best assets now are different than what they were years ago when you were last single. Wear A314 everyday until its new attitude permeates your soul.
EDIT: That should be P78 (not P87)!! I’m so sorry! It’s taken me a month to re-read and catch the mistake. There’s a big difference between the two. For this purpose use P78 at 7.5mcg to 30.0mcg.