Hi there.
I am so sorry for what your going through.
I am not going to tell you to give it up but I am not going to lie to you either just because its what you want to hear.
I wish I could tell you that mones could fix this but I am afraid it would just be a temporary band aid.
Pheromones evoke emotion yes but they cant make someone feel something they dont. They cant change, they just enhance.
It seems to me you have taken all the right steps so far both in counseling and the mones though.
Well to rekindle love feeling the best mone is A1 but you have used it already with odd results. I would continue to try it for a while though.
A314 is the best on the market for this. However you have to be congruent. I am assume the past financial issues are done. If not A314 is not going to over shadow that.
The connection is lost so any sexual mix you use is not necessarily going to attract her to you. She just may think about him as you stated. I would hold off on the heavy sex mixes until your relationship issues are repaired.
I would suggest IG over A314 and see how that go’s. Its alpha respect mix but it conveys a good provider as well.
Keep using Ishine for a youthful vibe. Get it in 2X
IH to re-establish that connection. How much did you use ? Get it in 2X or 4X. Just be prepared to hear the truth because it will come out.
Oxytocin is a waste. It hasn’t proven effective as a spray pheromone in most products that use it. Its needs to be kept refrigerated at all times and sprayed directly into the nasal canal. Its only viable outside the body without refrigeration for about 3 minutes. Its just to unpredictable and volatile to work as a commercial mone.
You may want to try P74 to increase or help rebuild a bond between you.
P83 stop using. This is a dis inhibitor and from what you have indicated she is becoming uninhibited enough.
Other then what I have said above I cant think of any others that may help. They just are not designed for that.
I will add a few more things though. Seems to me that this other guy must be fulfilling some need that you haven’t lately. Find out what that need is.
See if you can get her to get her hormones checked. Some of what you mentioned reminds me of a imbalance. I dont know how willing she would be to do it though.
Do not tell her how you think she feels or how you think she should feel. I notice you insist that she still has feelings for you and you called her feelings (false). That just may be part of the problem. Just like you dont want to hear us tell you to except it you dont want to hear what she is trying to tell you. Maybe thats the need that other guy fulfills.
I wish I had better advice to give you or there was some way around the pain but there isn’t. Somethings in life are beyond our control. We just have to live through them
Best of luck to you
Tisha