Fallout WORKED!!! (I think?)

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So, for those who have been keeping up, I’ve been using a fallout mix on this girl I like.

Results can be seen in my journal.

Anyway, I went my period time w/o being around her. Came back, she seemed excited enough to see me again. Next day, back to her old coy self.

But then, things got REALLY interesting (and kind of weird).

She straight up started to AVOID me. COMPLETELY. Like, in a disrespectful way (would walk the other way when she saw me, wouldn’t even look me in the eye or say hi to me).

I’ve NEVER admitted feelings to her nor have I done anything to elicit attention from her (i.e. I’ve done nothing for her to want to avoid me out of awkwardness – NEVER told her I LIKED her, just told her that I thought she was ATTRACTIVE – she always only ASSUMED that I liked her).

After school one day, I spoke to one of our deans about the situation (it was really bothering me). The dean told me that she could tell something was up between us b/c we used to be “REALLY tight.” She said she could see us as being lifetime friends at one point.

Anyways, ALL the older teachers (and I don’t really care about telling other people – she’s on her way out anyways and I do feel a bit disrespected) tell me that they think she likes me based on her behavior (I’ve done NOTHING to her UNLESS she finds posts I’ve made of her on this site and PersonalityCafe – both unlikely).

Last Friday night, I text her asking her if I offended her and that I’d like to talk about it. We used to be really tight, and we’re the complete opposite of that now.

No response.

I’ve heard (from reading other threads) that this could be Fallout actually WORKING.

My question is what do I do now? I’m not really around her, and if she doesn’t fess up to anything (either how I offended her or that she likes me) we probably won’t ever talk nor see each other again.

Also, is this fallout working, or did I probably do something SO stupid for her to act like this (though I genuinely can’t think of ANYTHING – I’ve always been pretty professional and extremely respectful towards her).

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Do nothing - if fallout is setting-in and she’s uncomfortable with the feelings (not uncommon initially in independent/self-reliant women), then all your being about her will do is push her further away.

What you need to do now is maintain minimal contact and see if she adapts to her new feelings and suddenly snaps back to you - and if she does, it might be quite sudden and surprising!

You may also want to reduce your A1 dose. I had a woman in this sort of position once - she was being very avoidant, despite being moved to a new office right across the corridor but within three days of brief exposures at half my previous A1 dose, she marched-in, planted a huge kiss on me and we almost detached a lab sink from the wall! :o :smiley:

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Moving from 10 mcg. to 5 mcg.

This is exciting!

Should I ADD anything? (I’ve also been using IShine, but have P96, TUTH, P75 in stowaway).

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In her case it was just A314/A1 (being work n’all :o ) but P96 and TUTH would be useful to have on standby. IMO.

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The annoying this is I’m done with the year next week. We won’t be professional after that. She should be lobbying for a date.

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So unfortunately, fallout did NOT work with her. I coach junior varsity baseball at my school (her students), and we were at the game, and she brought her new boyfriend to the game. I played it cool, but I was pretty upset by it. I think she’s sending a message. She and I no longer talk, she tried to be cutesy the next day with me to sort of sweep our issues under the rug, I ignored it. That’s that.

HOWEVER, fallout also DID work. An older teacher told me that there were 3 other younger teachers in her classroom a few days ago and for an hour and a half, the conversation was ABOUT ME. A lot of teachers have crushes on me or, how she said it, “are stalking” me.

Interesting…

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Yes - you always need to consider the secondaries with fallout. This is why I seriously cut-down on using such mixes at work, despite their often being superb professional mixes as well.

Time is another factor and this one has been exposed over the shorter end of the scale - Som women do take months before they begin to display responses.

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ALSO, I used this mix on a field trip with the kiddos. We went to LSU’s medical school.

One of the ladies (black, upper 20s to lower 30s) there found me on Facebook and messaged me asking to “get acquainted” with me. That may be the most aggressive, hardest hit I’ve gotten. Ever.

I’m going to continue to wear the mix to school (HOLY CRAP it’s powerful), and see what kind of trouble it causes.

My target and I are never near each other, and after Wednesday, will no longer be working in the same building. I leave the door open to the possibility of getting a random phone call from her one day, but until that happens, I’m just going to put a fork in it with her. She has some growing up to do, is very wishy washy, and I don’t trust her like I used to.

Also, it’s worth noting, A1 is magnetic for children. I get in trouble during my morning post because a bunch of kids (sometimes kids I don’t even know) crowd around me. It’s…weird, but I’m somewhat of a celebrity teacher at my school because of it.